Dear Krachel: I get close to what I want, then it slips away! What am I doing wrong?!
Release Date: 04/07/2023
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Dear Krachel: I’ve quit 3 jobs in the last year! How do I break the cycle?
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info_outlineWelcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, our monthly advice segment where we answer listener questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself.
This month we answered questions from:
- Corina, who’s struggling at the moment to make enough money to cover her basic needs. What’s our advice for how someone can focus on getting clarity when they’re also in survival mode?
- Brittany, who’s torn between whether to pursue career advancement right now, or a job that’s not as demanding so that she won’t be so overwhelmed by the challenges of balancing work and parenting. She has two interviews coming up — one job is more about career advancement, the other would be more balanced but involve less growth. How can she know for sure which path to pursue?
- Slippage in the System, who gets really close to what she wants, then gets excited about how it’s FINALLY happening … only for the thing to slip through her fingers. This pattern keeps repeating! So, what is she doing wrong?!
Come leave a comment after you’ve listened to share how our advice for these listeners resonated with you!
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