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Recovered Podcast

Release Date: 10/01/2013

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Recovered Podcast

We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and hope.  Add content to the show.  Call in and donate your valuable time.

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Recovered Podcast

We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and hope.  Add content to the show.  Call in and donate your valuable time.

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Recovered Podcast

Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Step Eight 04:15 The Importance of Willingness 09:55 Navigating Fear and Shame 18:32 The Role of Spirituality in Step Eight 26:05 Reflection and Preparation for Amends 37:21 Overcoming Shame and Self-Obsession 48:01 Encouragement for Newcomers 50:07 This Week in Recovery   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month...

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Recovered Podcast

Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Step Seven 03:25 Understanding Humility in Recovery 07:16 Character Defaults vs. Defects 10:36 The Role of Spirituality in Surrender 17:48 Changing Character Defaults 23:40 Actions in Step Seven 26:19 Surrendering in Daily Life 32:27 Guilt, Shame, and Spiritual Honesty 37:12 Trauma and Step Seven 43:10 Micro Habits for Daily Surrender 47:42 Advice for Newcomers on Step Seven   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast...

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Recovered Podcast

Chapters Intro 00:00 Topic 02:26 This Week in Recovery 49:42 Phone Calls 56:46   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and...

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Recovered Podcast

Chapters Intro 00:00 Topic 02:23 This Week in Recovery 47:48 Phone Calls 53:51   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and...

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Recovered Podcast

Chapters Intro 00:00 Topic 02:59 This Week in Recovery 43:20 Phone Calls 50:00   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and...

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Recovered Podcast

Chapters Intro 00:00 Topic 02:59 This Week in Recovery 43:20 Phone Calls 50:00   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and...

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Recovered Podcast

Chapters Intro 00:00 Topic 02:59 This Week in Recovery 43:20 Phone Calls 50:00   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and...

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Recovered Podcast

Chapters Intro 00:00 Topic 02:59 This Week in Recovery 43:20 Phone Calls 50:00   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and...

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For the benefit of our  listeners who may be new to the show,


On July 2, 2013 our oldest son died suddenly and our lives have been forever changed. Andrew struggled with addictions and mental illness for at least 12 years before he took his own life.

This podcast is one of hope.


Loss and grief will come to everyone.


But we want to encourage you that 12 step groups can equip you with tools that can help you  to cope these disasters. You don't have to believe that these tools will work for you but you do have to believe that they are working for us most of the time, some of the time?


Anna, welcome back to the studio


Anna, tell us a little about yourself, when did you first come into a 12 step program?


Our listeners took part in a survey to help us prepare for this show.


The question we asked was “How Do You Cope With Grief”.  

https://www.surveymonkey.com/analyze/?survey_id=44740967&OPT=NEW


Anna, you thoughts on the survey?


Well, Anna, let’s jump into this segment of Grief, Loss, and Recovery.


First of all, Anna, what would you like our listeners to know about your son Andrew?

What has been the some of the most difficult things you have faced since Andrew's death?

How has your 12 step program helped here?

What else was helpful?


Tell me about denial.  Have you experienced denial this past year?

How? How did you face denial?

As for me

Thought it was a Set up at first, Now, I find myself expecting  to hear from him.



Anger is something that i have really struggled with.  Have you been angry about Andrew's death?

At who and why?

What did you learn about anger? need to forgive

As for me, I was angry with al anon and AA, angry with self as a way of mothering andrew


Did you go through the bargaining phase after Andrew's death?

Explain

What did you learn?


What about isolation?

What did you learn?

What steps or what part of the program helped?


How about depression?

Did you experience guilt?

What steps, slogan, part of the program helped?


Where are you with acceptance?