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Recovered Podcast

Release Date: 02/24/2016

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We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and hope.  Add content to the show.  Call in and donate your valuable time.

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We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and hope.  Add content to the show.  Call in and donate your valuable time.

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Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Step Eight 04:15 The Importance of Willingness 09:55 Navigating Fear and Shame 18:32 The Role of Spirituality in Step Eight 26:05 Reflection and Preparation for Amends 37:21 Overcoming Shame and Self-Obsession 48:01 Encouragement for Newcomers 50:07 This Week in Recovery   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month...

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Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Step Seven 03:25 Understanding Humility in Recovery 07:16 Character Defaults vs. Defects 10:36 The Role of Spirituality in Surrender 17:48 Changing Character Defaults 23:40 Actions in Step Seven 26:19 Surrendering in Daily Life 32:27 Guilt, Shame, and Spiritual Honesty 37:12 Trauma and Step Seven 43:10 Micro Habits for Daily Surrender 47:42 Advice for Newcomers on Step Seven   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast...

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Chapters Intro 00:00 Topic 02:26 This Week in Recovery 49:42 Phone Calls 56:46   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and...

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Chapters Intro 00:00 Topic 02:23 This Week in Recovery 47:48 Phone Calls 53:51   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and...

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Chapters Intro 00:00 Topic 02:59 This Week in Recovery 43:20 Phone Calls 50:00   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and...

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Chapters Intro 00:00 Topic 02:59 This Week in Recovery 43:20 Phone Calls 50:00   We are a self-supporting community.  Join us in the following ways:   - Join by making monthly donations for one year.  You will receive recovered podcast merchandise, like tee shirts, coffee mugs, and water bottles.  Your name will also be announced each month you donate.  Join by making a one-time donation. Your name will be announced as an episode sponsor each time you donate.  - You can sponsor our show by donating your vital experience, strength, and...

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The Twelve and Twelve tells us that “the whole emphasis of Step Seven is on humility.”  We first looked at humility in the Third Step when we made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God.  Without some humility, no alcoholic can stay sober, no Al-Anon can stay serene.  Our experience has shown us that without humility, we cannot live a purposeful life.  AA teaches us that a useful life is one in the service of others.  This may be a bit tricky for the Al-Anon since we so often are worried about others that we forget about ourselves.

Bill Wilson explains humility this way, “As long as we placed self-reliance first, genuine reliance upon a Higher Power was out of the question.  That basic ingredient of humility is a desire to seek and do God’s will.”  When we live life run on self will, humility is missing.  Humility, we discover, is not something to re resisted, but something to be accepted.  

Bill Wilson wrote that the process of accepting humility “was unbelievably painful.  It was only by repeated humiliations that we were forced to learn something about humility.”  Taking the Third Step was a bold example of spiritual humility because it was a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God.  With the Seventh Step, we have an opportunity to put that decision into practice by asking God to do something specific for us.  We are humbly asking God to remove our character defects.  We are saying your will, not mine.   But we must accept the terms, conditions, and timetable that our Higher Power has in mind.

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We conducted a survey so that our listeners can help us understand this step

We posed the question, “What does humble mean to you?”

The possible responses were …

https://www.surveymonkey.com/analyze/eZfqbdNAalFL8WtGq8cIf7nLG1usZk4JSs8edkIhoFw_3D

What is interesting is that this survey proves that we people in a 12-step recovery program have our own language.

The possible responses I provided in the survey sent to our listeners came directly from the definition of humble in the dictionary.

But “other” was the second most popular response.

In other words, being humble means something different to AAs than normal people.

So ,? let’s discuss how we understand this step and how humility plays a role.

What does it mean to you to be humble?

How are you humble?  How can I become more humble?

What does the term “humbly ask” mean to you?

Before program, what did you think of humility? Was it a positive/negative?

Before program, did you experience humiliation?

What is the difference between humility and humiliation?

What are “our shortcomings?”

How is Step 3 related to Step 7?

How does acceptance relate to Step 7?

What is the Seventh Step Prayer?

The Seventh Step Prayer
from page 76 of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous
My Creator,
I am now willing that You should have all of me,
good and bad.
I pray that You now remove from me
every single defect of character which stands in the way
of my usefulness to You and my fellows.
Grant me strength, as I go out from here,
to do Your bidding.
Amen

What does it mean to you that God “should have all of me, good and bad?”

In this prayer, character defects stand in the was of being useful to others and God.  What does this mean to you?

What does it mean to you “to do your bidding?”

We  have Calls

Kurt

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_DSgX5xQO_ctfgHN07nOiGUFPnVMMmKN_kVq06FWPA9D3oeaxiMOLEiOvSYb_LPSZrHnbWALRGYhmkFmwtcLJuOzDPIgMTY3TcxLta-tKAkVQXhOPXHoAc2e_BTS8QmwFl6araH0SAucKZSwK36ivPcsiMbRw

Scott

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_AjH-QjECcwXnaO3e8HC9BiBF65sxdPXyb-TWrJBSMP8XMDXq5fj1oR6S4g0Btwcf1WOtZ1DFDen0oUMl1A4t4FgLLr0XiaBgQO5fD1KI864-jU19ap6XCO_zWuOyokPG4caWI0qDmbQpnDe1l7t7FytHhoxg

Clyde from Shelby Township

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_CRVTLspvpZnBbDFlvc0KukAlaeMeLlAOrKFx3TgYNzi6bnDWT1AoJQZSGsBZCx2UyWSwYfujNOJaXz-20NZWbMNOhf69jSkFqc8iCjJApR8andkti12TGR4ZDfRIZs3GkNqAJDqdpu6cs7_yASlf7F4wcLNQ

Tony

https://www.speakpipe.com/messages

Russ

https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/#inbox/153104558a23eb60?projector=1

Alex

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_An1NUf9Ezj_Sg_R0A9vvVf-5sHs5zSWuBqGgniquJmBcAKDJToW5XBp0tK5MHAh13UxE6Ufo-k7wAAlLcWd-RMEtEeHC1IYKn3RtYHIHV_vt2SVAtGNBrQMFKRxojoYaFx2EHf5DWevttD0vh9EMIxXbaUfQ

How about now, have you been humiliated in recovery?

Is there a difference in how you responded to humiliated between before and after program?

What would you say to the new person faced with Step 7 for the first time?