Understanding Karmic Relationship & Energetic Ties
In my view Karmic aspects are the most commonly overlooked aspects in self-healing and recovery from disease, addiction, trauma or crises. If Karma can be seen as any energetic imbalance that seeks to balance itself out, then it can become more clear that the purpose of Karma is to facilitate and support the healing of any unhealed part in our energy field, regardless of its origin. There is no 'good' or 'bad' Karma - Karma is nothing but the energetic consequence of our inner thoughts and outer actions. In other words, if we begin to understand our circumstances as an integral part of our healing and recovery process, forgiveness, compassion and grieving feel more true to us than blaming, victimizing and wanting revenge.
This doesn’t mean that we have to passively swallow wrongdoings or accept everything as ‘karma’. This would be far off from what this inner knowing wants to provide for us. It can enable us to see the big picture – to move from the experiencer into the observer position and strengthens the connection with our inner Divine Consciousness. Karma work is a major step out of the hamster-wheel of repeating negative experiences and the ticket to re-instating our soul’s integrity.
Working with Karmic Aspects
Working with karmic aspects does not mean that we are looking for 'reasons' to justify or excuse any of these imbalances manifested in form of hardship or the notion of being 'doomed'. On the contrary! Trying to understand karma involves soul searching on a feeling level. We all have experienced unexplainable attractions and tendencies at some point in our life (or over and over again). These cannot be explained or processed in the classical dualistic sense of cause-and-effect. While it can be helpful for our ego-mind to understand some of our karmic propensities, they can only be integrated through accessing the higher vibratory states of our consciousness.
Karmic aspects and their energetic charges can be cleared energetically through intention and reclaiming, but their energetic propensity will remain with us until a full reparation/reconciliation has occurred on all consciousness levels. Reconciliation does not require a complicated energy work technique. The main resonances for healing karmic aspects are the inner alignment to acceptance, forgiveness, humbleness, self-love and the willingness to letting go. All these resonances can be found in the alignment to our Sacred-Heart within, which is why the most effective integration often seems to happen spontaneously or even miraculously. Once are familiar and comfortable with the healing power of our inner Divine nature, karmic aspects begin to dissipate by itself!
Different Kinds of Karmic Aspects
There are multiple aspects to Karma that can play a role in our propensity for certain experiences and their repeating nature. To heal the karmic nature of our disease, addiction or relationship problems (which are often interconnected) we begin our healing process with identifying the different levels of karmic ties. Here the three different kinds of karmic aspects to consider:
1. Inherited Karmic Aspects
Inherited karmic aspects refer to any unhealed, imbalanced or unresolved aspect in our family/tribe/collective lineage. These are aspects that are not necessarily just related to us but more the holographic matrix. Inherited karmic aspects can be related to humanity as a whole or subunits, like culture, tribe or family.
Karmic Family aspects often include genetic dispositions for mental, physical or emotional disorders/diseases; however, in the scope of all karmic aspects those are the easiest to overcome or compensate. Unresolved issues that inherit within a family lineage (typically up to 7 generations backwards as well as forward in time) can include extremes, such as forceful deaths through murder, war or accidents, family tragedies, abuse, alcoholism, suicide, depression, etc., but also more subtle tendencies like addictive structure, disdain towards Femininity/Masculinity, degradation, control, manipulation, self-worth issues, superiority/inferiority, or hypercriticism.
2. Karmic Debt & Set-Up
Karmic debt refers to a person's personal holographic/etheric energy signature. Based on the assumption that all memory and information of all existence in all dimensions is holographically stored in our energy field, unhealed soul aspects from our current as well as previous or alternative incarnations (i.e. past lives) are built up to be resolved. They can create energetic charges in certain areas of life that do not stem from this life-time. Karmic charges often result in a particular energetic resonance that attracts specific circumstances to provide highest potential for healing in this particular lifetime. Typically, this shows as karmic set-up (the family constellation, culture, country, circumstances, etc. we are born into) and can be best transcended by understanding and reverse engineering the purpose of these circumstances.
3. Karmic Relationship Aspects
Karmic relationships are not just those we have or had with our friends, family or partners; they basically include all interactions with others and the world around us (i.e. institutions). Our karmic propensities generated through karmic debt, through karmic set-up and inheritance manifest in our interactions with others. They often play out in a complex web of karmic role-acting, choice of profession, Inner Child patterns and Shadow aspects and so forth. The more fragmented our soul the stronger the affinity to re-enact karmic roles or attract karmic partners into our lives.
For example, one of the most common karmic relationship ties is reflected in our choice of partner, which is often linked to our family constellation. Most of us pick a partner resembling the parent/caretaker with the strongest unresolved karmic tie to us, so that a healing of these aspects can become possible. While partnerships often provide the perfect plat-form for optimal growth (or failure), most of us are not aware of their karmic purpose.
Transcending karmic relationship aspects means to heal those inner aspects that are played out in our relationships, not the relationship itself. However, as those aspects begin to heal within us our relationships typically do as well - or break away. In the same sense, exchanging partners does not guarantee karmic healing, on the contrary; it quite often leads to repeat of similar relationship experiences until our inner aspect is fully integrated.
The more active and conscious we become in taking responsibility for all our actions, thoughts and inner sentiments, the weaker the energetic bonds of our inner karmic wheel become – and the stronger our ability to self-heal.
Karmic clearings can be done in self-guidance or through (remote) energy work. transCODES for example offers recorded energy processes, energy clearings and transMISSIONS that can help to facilitate the energetic clearing of inherited aspects, as well as Karmic Relationship ties. The remaining charges through karmic debt however are aspects that each and everyone of us has to work on and resolve through a more active participation in our Karma.