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How Should I Respond To My Child . . . ?

Crossgate Church Podcasts

Release Date: 06/25/2017

"Ephesians: Insights Into a Pastor's Heart"

Crossgate Church Podcasts

We continue our teaching series based on Ephesians, truly one of the greatest “books” in the New Testament. Lot’s can be said about this book—and we WILL say a lot in this study—but the key theme throughout the letter is “the power of God’s grace.” In fact, the word “grace”—pound for pound—appears more in the letter to the Ephesians than any other book in the Bible. And the word “power” appears as much in Ephesians as it does anywhere else in the Bible. So we invite you to join us on this journey of learning more about God's grace and how to live in the power of His...

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“Ephesians: The Blood Makes the Difference” show art “Ephesians: The Blood Makes the Difference”

Crossgate Church Podcasts

We continue our teaching series based on Ephesians, truly one of the greatest “books” in the New Testament. Lot’s can be said about this book—and we WILL say a lot in this study—but the key theme throughout the letter is “the power of God’s grace.” In fact, the word “grace”—pound for pound—appears more in the letter to the Ephesians than any other book in the Bible. And the word “power” appears as much in Ephesians as it does anywhere else in the Bible. So we invite you to join us on this journey of learning more about God's grace and how to live in the power of His...

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"Ephesians: The Power of God’s Grace"

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Today, we’re kicking off the study of another frame-worthy letter in the Bible, truly one of the greatest “books” in the New Testament, the letter to the Ephesians. Lot’s can be said about this book—and we WILL say a lot in this study—but the key theme throughout the letter is “the power of God’s grace.” In fact, the word “grace”—pound for pound—appears more in the letter to the Ephesians than any other book in the Bible. And the word “power” appears as much in Ephesians as it does anywhere else in the Bible. So we invite you to join us on this journey of learning...

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Join us for a special service which contained a clear presentation of the gospel of Jesus Christ from Pastor Phil, and several testimonies of new believers publicly proclaiming their faith through their obedience in being baptized. 

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"What Does The Bible Say About That?" | Q&A Service

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Join us as we conclude our teaching series, “What Does the Bible Say About That?”  We closed out our series with a Q&A service where our members submitted questions abour the series and then voted on which questions they would like to see answered. Over fifty questions were submitted and Pastor Phil answered the most popular questions during our Sunday service. If you would like to hear Phil address these questions in more detail, we invite you to listen to our audio podcast, "More and Better Disciples". You can subscribe, listen, or download those audio podcasts . 

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"What Does the Bible Say About Women in the Church?"

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Join us as we continue our teaching series simply entitled, “What Does the Bible Say About That?”  Today's topic is: "What Does the Bible Say About Women in the Church?" Over the next few weeks we’re going to ask that question about some of the hottest topics of our day. For instance, what does the Bible say about gambling, sex & dating, drugs & alcohol, and much more. Then we’ll wrap it up on March 24 with a live Q&A on anything you want to ask about any topic we’ve covered.  You don't want to miss a single episode of our new series, "What Does the Bible Say...

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"What Does The Bible Say About Anger?"

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Join us as we continue our teaching series simply entitled, “What Does the Bible Say About That?”  Today's topic is: "What Does the Bible Say About Anger?" Over the next few weeks we’re going to ask that question about some of the hottest topics of our day. For instance, what does the Bible say about gambling, sex & dating, drugs & alcohol, and much more. Then we’ll wrap it up on March 24 with a live Q&A on anything you want to ask about any topic we’ve covered.  You don't want to miss a single episode of our new series, "What Does the Bible Say About That?"

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"What Does The Bible Say About Politics?"

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Join us as we continue our teaching series simply entitled, “What Does the Bible Say About That?”  Today's topic is: "What Does the Bible Say About Politics?" Over the next few weeks we’re going to ask that question about some of the hottest topics of our day. For instance, what does the Bible say about gambling, sex & dating, drugs & alcohol, and much more. Then we’ll wrap it up on March 24 with a live Q&A on anything you want to ask about any topic we’ve covered.  You don't want to miss a single episode of our new series, "What Does the Bible Say About That?"

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"What Does the Bible Say About Money?"

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Join us as we continue our teaching series simply entitled, “What Does the Bible Say About That?”  Today's topic is: "What Does the Bible Say About Money?" Over the next few weeks we’re going to ask that question about some of the hottest topics of our day. For instance, what does the Bible say about gambling, sex & dating, drugs & alcohol, and much more. Then we’ll wrap it up on March 24 with a live Q&A on anything you want to ask about any topic we’ve covered.  You don't want to miss a single episode of our new series, "What Does the Bible Say About That?"

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"What Does The Bible Say About Alcohol?"

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Join us as we continue our teaching series simply entitled, “What Does the Bible Say About That?”  Today's topic is: "What Does the Bible Say About Alcohol?" Over the next few weeks we’re going to ask that question about some of the hottest topics of our day. For instance, what does the Bible say about gambling, sex & dating, drugs & alcohol, and much more. Then we’ll wrap it up on March 24 with a live Q&A on anything you want to ask about any topic we’ve covered.  You don't want to miss a single episode of our new series, "What Does the Bible Say About That?"

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F.A.Q. (Frequently Avoided Questions)

How should I respond to my teenage child when he/she tells me they are gay (homosexual)?

 

Responding Biblically . . .

  • Listen before you speak.

“Know this, my beloved brothers (and sisters); let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.”  James 1:19-20

 

  • Engage in conversation by asking open ended questions to gain clarity.
    • When you say that you are gay, what do you mean?
      • Is there an attraction to the same sex?
        • In our culture, to struggle with same-sex attraction is often perceived as identifying, and living a lifestyle, as gay.

 

  • Is there activity you are engaging in with the same sex?

 

  • Open the Scriptures, and let God’s word be your counsel.
  • Let God’s word, reprove, correct, and train in righteousness.

“All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be competent, equipped for every good work.”  2 Timothy 3:16, 17

  • Let the Word do the work.

 

  • Speak truth with much grace and love.

 

  • Share with him/her that our identity is to be found in Christ, not our sexuality.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.  The old has passed away; behold the new has come.”  2 Corinthians 5:17

  • We are not defined by our struggles, but by who we are in Christ.

 

“I have been crucified with Christ.  It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me.  And the life that I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.”  Galatians 2:20

 

 

  • Fight for the heart of your child in prayer.

“The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.”  James 5:16

 

“The prayer of a person living right with God is something powerful to be reckoned with.”  James 5:16 (The Message)

  • Pray the truth of Scripture over your child.
  • Pray consistently with your child.
  • Reclaim ground that has been stolen by the enemy.

 

  • Protect him/her by establishing healthy boundaries.
    • Set boundaries with what is allowed on their mobile devices, laptops, etc.,
  • Don’t let culture be your child’s counselor.
  • Be aware of the relationships in which he/she is engaged.
  • Do not allow them to run unchecked on the playground of culture. 

 

  • Love them unconditionally.
    • To love them does not mean you condone sinful behavior, but rather reflect compassionate grace.