Episode 162: An Adoptee's Story - The Blessing; the Heartbreak
Release Date: 07/25/2023
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In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we delve into the world of adoption through the eyes of Mea Han Fajardo, an extraordinary international adoptee and the visionary behind FostAdopt Connections. Join us as we explore Mea's deeply personal journey and how she has transformed her experiences into a powerful platform, fostering meaningful opportunities and connections for children in foster care and group homes.
Throughout the conversation, Mea opens up about the unique challenges and joys of being an adoptee, offering valuable insights that shed light on the intricacies of the adoption process. Her heartfelt reflections inspire empathy and understanding, as we gain a profound appreciation for the resilience and strength of those touched by adoption. Mea's passion for making a positive impact in the lives of vulnerable kids shines through, and we express our sincerest gratitude for her willingness to share her remarkable story with our listeners.
So tune in and join us in this moving discussion as we celebrate the power of human connection and the transformative influence of compassion and love in the world of adoption.
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20 Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew - Nightlight
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Chapter Markers:
00:01 - Open
00:04 - On Today's Episode
00:33 - Welcome Mea Han Fajardo
01:33 - Mea's Story - Adopted at 10
02:58 - The Life-Long Experience
03:48 - We don't talk About it
04:01 - Gratitude and Lonliness
05:34 - The Space to Grieve
07:01 - Grieving with Intent
08:02 - How to Grieve
09:41 - Being Allowed to Grieve
10:32 - Normalizing Grief
11:29 - Breaking Open
12:50 - Grieving with Others
14:31 - Unlocking Grief
17:09 - The Mystery of Being an Adoptee
18:17 - Sympathizing with Adoptees
20:45 - Sharing my Adoption Story
22:38 - Reflection for Compassion
23:59 - An Adult Relationship with Parents
25:13 - Searching for Relationship
26:50 - Don't Hold on so Tightly
27:01 - Being Prepared when your Kid Starts Searching
27:44 - We Accept Your Family
29:42 - Loving Myself
31:26 - The Takeaway
32:27 - On Behalf of Adoptive Parents
33:25 - Resources
35:04 - Closing