Episode 187 - Charisma #2 – Empowering Others & Contagious Cooperation
Release Date: 05/08/2017
Maximize Your Influence
The Law of Verbal Packaging states that the more skillful a person is in the use of language, the more persuasive they will be. We persuade people based on the words we use. Words affect our perceptions, attitudes, beliefs, and emotions. The words we use in persuasion make all the difference in the world. Join me for this week’s podcast on Using Words To Read Your Prospect And Adapt Your Persuasive Presentation. Discover words that repel and words that attract your prospect. I will reveal ways to read people based on the words they use and how to adapt your persuasive...
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Hopefully, you have seen the Seinfeld episode about the Soup Nazi. Although the character in the show (modeled after a real person) is exaggerated for comedic effect, you could use a few techniques to influence. Here are some potential strategies you could use from the Soup Nazi character on Seinfeld to persuade and influence. The key is not to offend your prospect, but to adapt these strategies that create value and a positive experience. Want to learn more about how to have more confidence, create a better customer experience and sell like the Soup Nazi? Discover...
info_outline Episode 503 - New Psychology of ObjectionsMaximize Your Influence
When you engage people in your message, objections are bound to arise. But fear not! Your ability to handle objections directly links to how deeply people connect with your words. Mastering the art of handling objections isn't just a skill – it's the key to becoming an unstoppable force of persuasion! As you embark on your journey to becoming a Power Persuader, you'll come to embrace objections as opportunities. Why? Because objections signify interest and attention. They're your audience's way of saying, "I'm listening, and I want to know more!" Now you know the game has begun. Want...
info_outline Episode 501 - How Shame And Guilt Can Quickly PersuadeMaximize Your Influence
Using guilt and shame is fast and easy. They could be doing it both consciously and unconsciously. Sometimes it is the only tool they know how to use. It could backfire on them, but can we use guilt and shame to persuade ethically. The answer may surprise you – YES you can. It's essential to recognize that the use of guilt and shame as persuasive tactics can have negative consequences, including emotional harm, strained relationships, and erosion of trust. What is the difference between shame and guilt? Why do psychologists consider guilt as positive and...
info_outline Episode 500 - The 10 Hottest Influence Tools For 2024Maximize Your Influence
Prejudging is one of the most devastating mistakes you can make because you really cannot judge a book by its cover. Many, many times, we find that the people who seem to be the least likely candidates are the ones who become a big part of your business. Join me for this week’s podcast #500 with Freebies and fun stuff. This podcast will focus on The 10 Hottest Influence Tools For 2024. Get the latest research, studies and statistics on the new secrets of persuasion.
info_outline Episode 499 - Edutainment, Engagement, and EnergyMaximize Your Influence
Why Your Last Audience Said You Were Boring. Many factors can contribute to boredom and disinterest during a presentation. Avoid the blunders by creating content that is relevant and engaging Deliver the presentation with enthusiasm and incorporating visual aids. Be aware of the audience's needs and encourage interaction with the audience. Join me for this week’s podcast on Edutainment, Engagement, and Energy. You will discover that there is no such thing as a boring topic, only a boring presenter. Learn how to be more dynamic, charismatic, and...
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We all negotiate every day. Only 10% of business professionals who negotiate every day have taken negotiation training. The challenge is they estimate this has cost them millions of dollars. Who is paying for these mistakes? Usually, the companies that employ them. Entrepreneurs know this will just cost them income. Join me for this week’s podcast interview with John Lowry. We will focus on Negotiation Made Simple. Discover how to structure a negotiation and what questions to ask before the process begins. Learn if you should make the first...
info_outline Episode 497 - Do You Have The C Factor - ChaRIZZma, Charm and ConfidenceMaximize Your Influence
So, is that power of charisma good or bad? I would say is gravity good or bad? Just like gravity, charisma is neutral. It is how you use the power that will define you as good or bad. Some say Adolf Hitler, Charles Manson, Mussolini had charisma. Sure they did have many of the tools of charisma. There are many cases of someone who had some of the skills of charisma and they used them in an unethical way. Let’s think about this. You could probably count more people in history and in your life that had this skill and they used charisma to change...
info_outline Episode 496 - What Is Your RIZZ (Charisma) Ranking? PART 3Maximize Your Influence
We live in a world where people are less trusting, more cynical, and full of skepticism. Corporate loyalty is a thing of the past. Belief in government has eroded away. Everyone around us is confused, overwhelmed, and more difficult to influence and lead. Now more than ever, charisma is a vital and critical life skill. The challenge is that some think they have the Rizz (charisma) but don’t. Just because you can get somebody to do something doesn’t mean you are influential or charismatic. We know there is a direct correlation between the manager/leader...
info_outline Episode 495 - It’s Either Rizz (Charisma) or Fizz (Dull) PART 2Maximize Your Influence
Do You Attract or Repel Others? It’s Either The Rizz or Fizz. The skill of charisma can propel you into leadership and success. When someone is charismatic, they can connect, bond, and lead everyone and anyone. Charisma allows you to be more efficient and effective. Think about this. It could be you if others aren’t responding to you or your influence. Sure we like to say it is them, but when you do not influence others, are empowered by you, or even want to help you – it is you. Remember: When a sports team has a losing season or they...
info_outlineMany think that when they get into positions of leadership or prominence that others should be serving them or looking up to them. This is great way to turn people off and decrease your ability to be charismatic. If your only focus is on you, then eventually all then the focus will be off you. Sure others might run to your attention, but they are doing it for money or recognition, they are not doing it because of who you are. When you start to focus on others, show some kindness and offer goodwill, offer some charity, and the focus will return to you. When you look for the good in others you become better yourself. When you start looking for ways to serve, not only do you open the doors to influence, it increases your well being and your happiness.
You demonstrate goodwill by focusing on positives and being careful with the negatives. Don’t be harsh or forceful when dealing with people. Remember most people can be highly sensitive or feel overly vulnerable. (Remember esteem) Watch your statements and your actions and always show that you have the audience’s best interest in mind. Never criticize someone unless you really need to and do it the right way. Criticism damages your relationship and destroys the connection you have with them and hurts your charisma. Instead, find something positive and show goodwill. This will increase acceptance and self-confidence. Many times we correct or criticize in the wrong way and this destroys the possibility for leadership, loyalty and charisma. Anytime someone feels stupid or you are perceived as inconsiderate and your ability to lead or influence diminishes. Little do most people know that their comments cause rebellion and resentment. Show you care, show some goodwill and you automatically will transfer charisma.
A big part of goodwill is the mindset of abundance. Abundance is a state of mind that allows you to give knowing that the universe will reward you. You don’t do it for the reward, you do it because it is the right thing to do. As author Stephen Covey said "the abundance mentality (which) flows out of a deep inner sense of personal worth and security. It is the paradigm that there is plenty out there and enough to spare for everybody.... It opens possibilities, options, alternatives, and creativity." You know that when you give of your time, money or even skills that it is not only the right thing to do, it increases your abundance, your health and your happiness and your charisma. Get past the scarcity mentality society has given you and see the abundance the world has to offer. Realize we are all on the same human team and we all have different strengths and weaknesses. Always be willing to share your strengths and someone will appear to help you with your weaknesses.
Article link:https://www.fastcompany.com/3035120/4-steps-to-overcoming-failure-and-using-it-to-your-advanta