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No Rules By Sixteen

Raising Adults: Future Focused Parenting

Release Date: 07/19/2021

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Raising Adults: Future Focused Parenting

We finally made it back into the laundry room! No, we aren't relaunching the show, but we thought it would be fun to update our listeners and say a quick hello! Sending love to our FFP Family and hoping 2022 is off to a great start. - Kira and Deana

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Raising Adults: Future Focused Parenting

In today's final episode of Raising Adults, we remind you that you have all the tools you need to crush parenting and enjoy the journey as an FFP!   "We want you to know that you have all the tools you need to move forward without us!" - Kira Dorrian   "Intentionality comes from a strong why. If you know why you're doing what you're doing, it does make it easier to make those strong decisions that are best, rather than the ones that might be expedient or get the behavior you don’t like to stop. " - Deana Thayer   Today's final discussion includes:  Three...

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Raising Adults: Future Focused Parenting

Kira and Deana share their decision to close Raising Adults Podcast and Future Focused Parenting. The final episode will air on Monday, December 13th. They also share details for the Future Focused Patrons and how to reach out for parent coaching in the future.

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Raising Adults: Future Focused Parenting

Sometimes after a recording has finished or an episode has aired, Kira and Deana realize that they have something they wish they had said. In today’s episode, they share those tidbits including a few extra ideas for talking about sex with kids, extra thoughts on peer pressure and more.   Today's discussion includes:  A few extra birds and the bees guidelines (3:12) The power of voting with your dollar and the power of boycotting (8:06) An extra tool for combating peer pressure (9:59) The story behind Kira's tattoo (13:25) Imposter syndrome with parenting (16:04) ...

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Raising Adults: Future Focused Parenting

In today's episode of Raising Adults, Deana and Kira break down the three types of consequences, how to use them, and when to use them. If you find yourself asking what's an appropriate consequence, this episode is for you.    "The design isn't to be punitive. The design is to help the world make sense because we are our children's teachers for how to navigate the world later on." - Deana Thayer   Today's discussion includes:  The importance of follow-through and meaning what you say (6:36) Empty threats lose power over time (7:36) First type: A Natural...

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Raising Adults: Future Focused Parenting

In today's episode of Raising Adults, Deana and Kira have the pleasure of chatting with Heather Chauvin, a leadership coach who helps overwhelmed, ambitious women become leaders at work and home while conquering their fears. She's also the host of the Mom Is In Control Podcast, where she reveals her most vulnerable truths about womanhood, marriage, parenting, living through stage four cancer, and running a successful business without burning out.   "Women walk around this earth pretending that they are robots, pretending that they don't matter. When you think about it, we probably...

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In today's episode of Raising Adults, Deana and Kira dive into how we as parents handle and cope with our kids being different from us. 

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Raising Adults: Future Focused Parenting

In today's episode of Raising Adults, Deana and Kira are back with an important topic: teaching kids about social justice. Because she is not a DEI educator, Kira shares who she is learning from and what the application looks like in her home.   "We cannot help the next generation to dismantle racism, challenge racial inequality, and imagine an America of inclusion, if we, as white parents, do not openly discuss the oppression and injustices that are inherent in the very design of our country, which was established by white men who believed that they were the superior race."...

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Raising Adults: Future Focused Parenting

In today's episode of Raising Adults, Deana and Kira tackle a listener question: What do you do if you are in a parenting team and your partner isn't future focused or doesn't want to be? 

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Raising Adults: Future Focused Parenting

n today's episode of Raising Adults, Deana and Kira dive into the three pillars of the Future Focused Parenting Philosophy and how it can be applied to all of your parenting journey.

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Today on Raising Adults we celebrate the beginning of Season Five! Can you believe it? Join us as we talk about how Deana approaches the goal for her kids to have no rules by age 16. What does that mean? How does that actually work? Be sure to tune in!
 
"The goal of the structure and the strictness in the early years is so that they're able to handle the increasing freedom in the older years.” - Deana Thayer.
 
"Are they starting to even see at a young age that the more I show that I'm responsible and capable of something, the more I'm rewarded with freedoms and privileges? And my parent is recognizing my readiness and helping me grow in that so that by the time you get to those tween years, none of this will be a surprise." - Kira Dorrian. 
 
Today we talk about: 
  • Deana's why (6:55)
  • Kira's why (9:49) 
  • What this looks like in Deana's house (12:04)
  • How to assess readiness (17:02)
  • Looking for collaboration (17:56)
  • How to handle when things slip up or go sideways (22:01)
  • Increasing responsibility from a young age (26:04)
  • Kira's experience growing up with no rules by her teen years (29:48)
  • The more responsible they are, the more you can trust them - even from a young age (33:49)
  • What do to if you'd like to make this a goal for your family (35:57)
 
Be sure to listen to this episode so you can learn how to move from directing your kids to coaching and mentoring them as they grow into adulthood
 
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