I Do, We Do

This podcast is hosted by Billy and Ashley Moyer, AKA Bashley, a millennial couple committed to their careers, lifelong learning, and philanthropy. Bashley believes that TOGETHER they can achieve more. This weekly show is about how they find success as a team of two in business and life in general, and how their differences make them stronger.

EP 82: Energy Leadership Index with Claire Becker 11/16/2020

EP 82: Energy Leadership Index with Claire Becker We love assessments over here. On past episodes we have discussed the DISC, Enneagram, Love Languages and Myers Briggs. In this episode, we dig into the Energy Leadership Index which enables leaders to hold up mirrors to their perceptions, attitudes, behaviors, and overall leadership capabilities. We hand the show over to special guest, Claire Becker who walks us through our results just as she does her coaching clients. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/16821602

EP 81: We Do Minimalism 10/05/2020

EP 81: We Do Minimalism We recently moved into an RV full-time as we continue to embrace a more minimalist lifestyle. In this episode, we share what minimalism is to us and how we are working be more minimal. We discuss how we have prioritized experiences in our lives. We are hoping to experience a lot of new adventures while living and traveling in our RV. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/16352129

EP 80: Baby Bashley One Year Later 09/14/2020

EP 80: Baby Bashley One Year Later It has been a year since our little guy, Lincoln was born. In this episode, we reflect back on the episode we recorded in the delivery room as we waited to welcome Lincoln to the world. We shared our hopes and dreams for our son a year ago and now we share updates on how things have gone. We also break some BIG NEWS! Happy Birthday, Lincoln! We love you, even though we didn't plan for you! /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/16126568

EP 79: Inspring Duos - Josh and Elisha 08/03/2020

EP 79: Inspring Duos - Josh and Elisha Josh & Elisha are truly a couple who does it all. They run multiple side-hustles in addition to working full-time and parenting. There’s nothing this couple can’t do! Listen in as we chat with them about how they support one another in their businesses, the process they use for setting and adjusting goals, and their debt-free journey. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/15458903

EP 78: On Different Pages 07/27/2020

EP 78: On Different Pages We’ve found ourselves on different pages in two major parts of our lives. With the extra time, we each invested it in different ways. For Billy, it has been his career. For Ashley, it has been parenthood. Investing time in these areas has also left the other behind - hence, we are on different pages. Listen in as we replay the first conversation we had about this and how we are already working through this. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/15366881

EP 77: Breaking the Golden Rule 07/20/2020

EP 77: Breaking the Golden Rule We have a bone the pick with the Golden Rule - treat others the way you want to be treated. It is a rule that is engraved in our brains from a young age, but we think it’s wrong. ESPECIALLY in relationships. Listen to this episode as we upgrade to the Platinum Rule - treat others the way they want to be treated. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/15280880

EP 76: Introvert vs. Extrovert 07/13/2020

EP 76: Introvert vs. Extrovert You may not know this about us, but we are COMPLETE OPPOSITES. Oh wait, we only constantly talk about that on this podcast. Nearly every assessment we've ever taken points out how different we are. Our Myers Briggs results point this out too. In this episode, we zero in on that first letter of the MBTI results - introvert vs extrovert. We share our favorite… and least favorite things about being married to the opposite! /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/15193067

EP 75: Being Vulnerable Together 06/01/2020

EP 75: Being Vulnerable Together It has been a tough couple of weeks as we all learned about the deaths of Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, and George Floyd. We need to have some tough conversations about race. But that requires vulnerability. We have to shed those layers and embrace imperfection. In this episode, we share a few recent moments of vulnerability in our relationship, how its brought us together and where we still need work. Being vulnerable with your partner can take your relationship to the next level. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/14649242

EP 74: Thriving Together 05/18/2020

EP 74: Thriving Together We are often asked how we spend SO much time together without driving each other crazy. Right now, a lot of couples are spending more time together than usual, which is leading to conflict. In this episode, we chat about how we thrive together through communication, vulnerability based trust and goal setting. The key to our partnership is that we focus on thriving rather than just surviving. This is how we grow together rather than apart. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/14464145

EP 73: Sheltering In Place Together 03/25/2020

EP 73: Sheltering In Place Together It is a scary time for our world as we grapple with the reality that is COVID-19 and the impact is is having on our way of life. We are sheltering in place here in Austin, Texas and in this episode we share what are new normal looks like. We share what work is like for us now, what we are doing to pass the time and how we are using this pandemic as an opportunity to come even closer together. Spoiler alert - one of us randomly bought a PS4... Guess who?! /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/13703000

EP 72: Reintroduction 03/16/2020

EP 72: Reintroduction It has been a hot minute since we last released an episode, so allow us to reintroduce ourselves! In this episode, we go back to the beginning. Who were are individually, who we are together. We chat about why we started this podcast and what it has become. If you're a new listener, hopefully this keeps you coming back. For our loyal listeners, we hope this will remind you where we started. A lot has changed. One thing continues to stay the same. We are better together. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/13561451

EP 71: Bonding Over Goals 02/10/2020

EP 71: Bonding Over Goals Setting goals together did not always come easy for us. Billy had two decades of experience before meeting Ashley. Ashley had no experience. Billy remained persistent, but was patient as Ashley explored goal setting. And now it’s become a way we bond and allow us to grow together. Listen in as we provide examples to encourage your partner when they are not on board. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/13084031

EP 70: Flashback to Big Change 02/03/2020

EP 70: Flashback to Big Change A year ago our worlds were rocked with the news of our pregnancy. We immediately captured all those feelings (and more) in a podcast episode (EP 38) that later became our pregnancy announcement. Fast forward to now where we listen back on that episode. We reflect on where we were mentally, and where we are now... and you can bet there were some tears shed (again)! /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/13006283

EP 69: Goals Journey 01/28/2020

EP 69: Goals Journey In this weeks episode, we discuss why we are taking a different approach with our goals this year after struggling in 2019 to accomplish all we set out to do. We share a few goals and how they have a similar destination as last year, but how we plan to get there is different. We are focusing more on the journey this year. We are taking things slow. We are working through some stuff over here. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/12912119

EP 68: Couple of Takes 01/20/2020

EP 68: Couple of Takes We share another couple of takes in this episode where each of us shares a take on something going on in the world. Our takes this episode are about people from across the pond. Ashley talks about Harry and Meghan making an important decision for their family. Billy talks about not understanding people investing money in the MMA fight with Conor McGregor who is an all around horrible person. Let us know if you agree or disagree with our takes. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/12802862

EP 67: Looking Forward to 2020 01/13/2020

EP 67: Looking Forward to 2020 Last episode we looked back on 2019, which was a challenging year for us. It ended up being our best year ever. In this episode, we look forward to 2020, a new year and decade. We are in a much different place now. We answer some questions we reflected on during our planning retreat and share our new vision for our relationship moving forward. We know this will be our best year ever yet again! Oh and don't miss Billy sing a little Wicked! /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/12798539

EP 66: Looking Back on 2019 01/06/2020

EP 66: Looking Back on 2019 Welcome to 2020! It's a new year and a new decade! We know you are excited. We are too! But before we officially look forward to the next year that we know will be amazing, we look back on 2019. We answer the questions we shared in Episode 64 and guess what? It gets a little emotional because 2019 was tough for us, but it also was our best year ever! /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/12613448

EP 65: Reflection Part 2 12/23/2019

EP 65: Reflection Part 2 Last episode we shared questions to reflect on when looking back on a year. In this episode, we share questions to reflect on when looking forward to a new year. The questions will set you and your partner up for success when setting your goals for the next year! /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/12610418

EP 64: Reflection 12/17/2019

EP 64: Reflection Can you believe there are only two weeks left in the year… scratch that - THE DECADE! Coming off the #10yearchallenge and the end of the year/decade in sight, everyone is feeling very retrospective. In this episode, we take all that introspection and take it to reflection. We share the what/when/where/how to reflect on the past year and set yourself up for success when setting your goals for next year! /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/12429596

EP 63: Our Worst Year 12/10/2019

EP 63: Our Worst Year Time to take a trip back in time to our worst year together as a married couple. We have shared a lot on this podcast about how we are better together, that we often collab and how we are great communicators. We have an awesome partnership, but year one of our marriage was not great. It was tough. In this episode, we share why the year was so difficult and how we got through it. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/12341159

EP 62: Attitude of Gratitude 12/02/2019

EP 62: Attitude of Gratitude In this special Thanksgiving episode, we chat about how we have tried to have an Attitude of Gratitude in 2019 even with the curveball we were thrown at the beginning of the year. We are thankful for each other, our families, our jobs and our new son, Lincoln. We hope to continue having an Attitude of Gratitude into 2020 no matter what life throws at us. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/12241499

EP 61: Couple of Takes 2 11/11/2019

EP 61: Couple of Takes 2 We are back with a couple more takes on topics that have caught our attention around the world. We are a couple and we each have one take on something to share in this episode. We get pretty deep as we talk about the NCAA and playing college athletes and the Rodney Reed case in Texas. Essentially we end up talking about institutional racism. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/11989547

Collabing as Parents 11/04/2019

Collabing as Parents We are two months into parenthood and have learned a lot about our ourselves and how we make a powerful team of two. There have been a few bumps in the road of parenthood because we have no clue what we are doing… but who does?! In this episode, you'll hear a short update on how we are handling our new lifestyle, the ways we collab as parents, and how we continue to push gender roles. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/11898551

EP 59: Q3 Goals Check-In 10/21/2019

EP 59: Q3 Goals Check-In We love setting goals. For 2019, we set some lofty goals for our new business together. We have been checking in on our progress every quarter of the year. In this episode, we chat about our progress through the 3rd quarter. We have been thrown some curveballs this year, but we have made adjustments and we are on track. Our check-ins have been key to our success. Learn more about our progress and about how to have a goals check-in in this episode. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/11722376

EP 58: Connecting To A City 10/14/2019

EP 58: Connecting To A City We are lucky to live in the great city of Austin, Texas. People often ask us about Austin so we decided to dedicate an episode to the city. But the episode turned into one about how to get connected in a new city after speaking to a friend who is struggling to connect with people after moving away from Austin. This episode more than anything is about connection and moving towards something rather than away from something. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/11632142

EP 57: Birth Story 10/07/2019

EP 57: Birth Story Life has gotten real over here! Our son is now 4 weeks old! This is our first time recording an episode since he was born. In this episode, we share the birth story of Lincoln Foles Alaniz-Moyer. We begin at our 38 week doctors appointment and end with a baby! There is lots that happens in between. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/11551607

EP 56: Dreams For Our Child 09/16/2019

EP 56: Dreams For Our Child This is a very special episode as it was recorded straight from the delivery room on the day our first child was born. We thought we would share our hopes and dreams for our little guy who entered the world about 10 hours after this was recorded. We never wanted kids, but this is our reality and after this episode and our Lincoln being born, we now realize he was our missing LINC in our now Team of Three. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/11263694

EP 55: 5 Dysfunctions of our Relationship 09/09/2019

EP 55: 5 Dysfunctions of our Relationship It should come as no surprise that we love professional development books around here. And a favorite we have in common is Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni. While many of these apply directly to relationships, we modified the dysfunctions to our relationship in this episode. Tune in to hear more about how absence of trust, lack of communication, fear of conflict, lack of commitment, and little fun impact our relationship. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/11163320

EP 54: Couple of Takes 08/26/2019

EP 54: Couple of Takes Get to know us in a different way as we sound off on a particular issue or event. We each bring up a topic that the other has no idea about and have a free flowing conversation around it. Join us this week as we chat about Andrew Luck doing "such a millennial thing" by retiring at 29 years old and the lack of creativity in movies and TV. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/10993610

EP 53: Making Each Other Better 08/19/2019

EP 53: Making Each Other Better In a previous episode (EP 50), we laughed our way through our pet peeves with each another. We often don’t take the time to sit back and appreciate one another. So this week we are switching it up and chatting about the ways we make each other better. Listen in as we each list off 4 ways we have become #bettertogether. /episode/index/show/idowedo/id/10914251

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