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#157 Darrel Larson – When Helping Hurts

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Release Date: 07/01/2020

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Our guest today, Kirana Sidin is an author and strategic life coach. Her debut book, Cheers for a Good Life, became an Amazon #1Best Seller. She lives in Jakarta, the busiest city in Indonesia, where she spends much of my time exploring one question that has quietly shaped everything she does: What does it really mean to build a good life? This show is very different from my normal process. Check it out. LINKS Please check out Kirana’s popular new book, “Cheers for a Good Life” right .

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Our guest today is Dr. Louise Stanger who whose extraordinarily creative book titled, “Trauma is Your Superpower,” will be our topic of discussion today. For more than four decades, Dr. Louise Stanger has been a guiding light for families in their darkest moments. As a nationally recognized interventionist, licensed clinical social worker, and certified drug and alcohol counselor, she brings a rare combination of clinical expertise and genuine human warmth to every family she serves. LINKS  Please check out Dr Louise’s most recent book which is so creatively illustrated, “Trauma...

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Our guest today is Doug Earl Johnston who wrote a brilliant book titled, Choosing Emotions.” Over a multi-decade career spanning banking, private equity, and litigation consulting, Doug developed a sustained interest in language, motivation, and emotional definition. “Choosing Emotions” represents nine years of research across disciplines and traditions. LINKS  Please check out Doug Earl Johnston's most recent book, Choosing Emotions, right .

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Our guest today is Doug Earl Johnson who wrote a brilliant book titled, Choosing Emotions.” Over a multi-decade career spanning banking, private equity, and litigation consulting, Doug developed a sustained interest in language, motivation, and emotional definition. “Choosing Emotions” represents nine years of research across disciplines and traditions. LINKS  Please check out Doug Earl Johnson’s most recent book, Choosing Emotions, right .

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Today I plan to dedicate our show to an unsung but essential topic: I want to discuss the potential shortcomings related to economic and social aid to the Developing World, (or in old terms, 3rd World countries).

Basically, the question is this: is your investment in the poor and disenfranchised in the Developing World being administrated with the longer term needs of communities being considered, or… is it about short term walk away money?

My guest, Darrel Larson, has vast philanthropic experience in several foreign countries, including Fiji, the Philippines and several countries on the continent of Africa.

With hearts for developing the social good to the most needy in the world, Darrel and I will spend our time today discussing how oftentimes, our desire to serve the poor and disenfranchised can frequently result in short-term benefit, but longer term disadvantage.

I recently watched a documentary titled, Poverty Inc. (a quite informative and a bit disturb documentary) that developed the concept stated in Steve Corbett’s popular book, When Helping Hurts. The thesis: if we give resources such as money, or in my case water wells, without empowering the communities to assume responsibility of these gifts we have given them, the result can be “dependence on foreign aid,” instead of independence, self-determination and self-respect. Like the familiar adage, we are giving them fish, not teaching them to fish.

Today, we will discuss the idea of projects “with” locals verses projects “to” locals. Three types of giving will be discussed: Relief Giving, Alleviation from Poverty Giving, and finally, Developmental Giving.

My guest, Darrel Larson is a seasoned vet in international affairs regarding poverty. He is currently International Director of Sawyer Filters, which provides clean and safe water for thousands of homes across the world. Darrel is also founder of the non-profit, Give Clean Water, and he has served Outreach Pastor at two churches in San Diego.

 

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