Preparing Your Child for Surgery: What to Say and How to Help
Inside the Children's Hospital
Release Date: 08/04/2021
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Katie, Certified Child Life Specialist gives specific language to use when talking with your child about an upcoming surgery.
+When to bring up the topic before surgery day
+Things to do prior to surgery to get prepared
+How to address pain, fear and the unknown
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