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Agreeing to a Mediocre Relationship - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 468

Relationship School Podcast

Release Date: 10/10/2023

The Trap of Falling in Love - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 488 show art The Trap of Falling in Love - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 488

Relationship School Podcast

Is it possible to truly love someone while you’re still infatuated with them? In this episode, Jayson and Ellen talk about the trap of falling in love and why it’s important to learn to live with the reality of who your partner actually is instead of projecting your fantasies onto them. How can you make your partner your priority every day? What should your relationship boundaries be? It’s time to take a deep dive into the world of love after infatuation. Timestamps: 2:16 - Infatuation vs. love 6:16 - Reality vs. fantasy 20:00 - Accepting people for who they are 24:48 - Know your...

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Dealing with Division and Getting Unstuck - Jayson Gaddis - 487 show art Dealing with Division and Getting Unstuck - Jayson Gaddis - 487

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Jayson talks about dealing with division in the world, digital minimalism and getting unstuck in your relationship. Can solving division in the home help make the world a better place? How do you know when you’re stuck as a couple? What should you do if you’re stuck? Would you like to be the next guest on The Relationship School Podcast? Listen in to find out more! Timestamps: 4:01 - Couples, how do you know when you're stuck? 11:47 - Dealing with division 19:25 - Action steps Links: Follow Jayson on social media:

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Coaching Session: From Being Ghosted to Self Love - Jayson Gaddis - 486 show art Coaching Session: From Being Ghosted to Self Love - Jayson Gaddis - 486

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Jason coaches two women live on the podcast. How should you deal with the experience of a long-term partner ghosting you? What should you do when you feel self-doubt and loneliness? How can you find meaning in the end of a long-term relationship? You won’t want to miss the chance to sit in on this powerful coaching session with Jayson, Katie and Camille. Timestamps: 4:09 - Katie's story 8:27 - Being there for yourself 16:26 - Katie's personal growth journey 26:17 - Camille's story 29:56 - Dealing with a partner who ghosted 37:46 - Finding meaning in the end of a relationship 46:51 - Finding...

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Allowance, Chores, Family Economy & Empowering your Kids with Money - James Ure - 485 show art Allowance, Chores, Family Economy & Empowering your Kids with Money - James Ure - 485

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Helping children learn to be financially responsible is one of the most important jobs that parents have. James Ure joins Jayson to talk about how a family economy can help you give your child the best chance to achieve success and independence when they leave home. Should you pay your child for chores? How much of an allowance should you give your child? What is the difference between bribery and empowerment? How can you teach your child the importance of saving, investing, and giving to charity? You won’t want to miss this insightful conversation. Timestamps: 8:31 - What is a family...

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Working With Men in Coaching and Therapy - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 484 show art Working With Men in Coaching and Therapy - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 484

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Jayson and Ellen team up to talk about working with men in coaching and therapy. How can you tell when a man is ready to grow? How does couples' work help men? What are the advantages of attending a men’s group? Are men more comfortable with male or female therapists? If you’re a man or you have men in your life, you won’t want to miss this insightful conversation. Timestamps: 6:16 - Ways that men get stuck 10:52 - Working through men's defensiveness 13:56 - Recognizing men's issues 17:27 - How male clients project 21:10 - Are men more comfortable with male or female therapists 24:48 -...

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How Therapist Bruce Tift Helped Me Have the Balls to Marry My Wife - Bruce Tift - 483 show art How Therapist Bruce Tift Helped Me Have the Balls to Marry My Wife - Bruce Tift - 483

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Bruce was one of THE pivotal factors in helping me marry my wife before she slammed the door shut on me. Hear that story in this episode and why it’s so common for couples to struggle. Bruce offers a powerful frame for relationship and intimacy and makes the distinction between the developmental work we need to do, and the possibility that we are “already free” in relationship. Check it. Timestamps: 4:29 - Jayson's history with Bruce 7:22 - Dealing with contradictions in relationships 15:11 - The value of separateness 23:04 - The practice of personal responsibility 27:26 - Bruce shares...

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What’s Wrong With Wanting a Healthy Relationship? - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 482 show art What’s Wrong With Wanting a Healthy Relationship? - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 482

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What’s wrong with wanting a healthy relationship? Jayson and Ellen are here to break it down. "Healthy" is a poorly defined concept, which can create nebulous expectations that are impossible to live up to. If you’ve written yourself off because you believe you’re incapable of having healthy relationships, it’s time to level up and start focusing on how you can foster growth-oriented relationships going forward. Tune in to learn how you can set realistic expectations and define the relationship experience that you want. It’s time to plan for reality and aspire for greatness....

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How Menopause Changes You and Your Relationships - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 481 show art How Menopause Changes You and Your Relationships - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 481

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Ellen joins Jayson to discuss menopause and its impact on relationships. What is menopause? Do women in non-western cultures experience menopause differently than women in western cultures? What happens to women’s hormones during menopause? What about hormone replacement therapy? Tune in to hear Jayson and Ellen share their personal experiences surrounding menopause and learn how you can nurture your relationships through the menopausal journey. Timestamps: 3:34 - What is menopause? 7:02 - How does menopause impact relationships? 13:53 - How does culture impact the experience of menopause?...

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Challenging Sensitive Kids - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 480 show art Challenging Sensitive Kids - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 480

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Jayson and Ellen share valuable insights about nurturing antifragile confidence in sensitive children and offer practical tips for creating a supportive environment that encourages resilience and emotional well-being. Gain a deeper understanding of what defines a sensitive child. Discover practical strategies and compassionate approaches for navigating moments when your sensitive child is hesitant or resistant, and learn how to find the balance between challenging your child and respecting their emotions. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, or simply interested in understanding the dynamics of...

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3 Simple Tips to Optimize Your Health, Snoring, and Breathing - Sachin Patel - 479 show art 3 Simple Tips to Optimize Your Health, Snoring, and Breathing - Sachin Patel - 479

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In this episode, Jayson is joined by best-selling author and functional medicine practice success coach Sachin Patel. Do you or your partner struggle with snoring? Is it a constant challenge for you to get enough sleep? Sachin offers some basic steps that you can take to begin turning your health around. These range from simple changes you can make today, such as adjusting ambient home lighting, to incorporating effective breathing techniques. If you’re interested in taking control of your health, you won’t want to miss this fascinating conversation. Timestamps: 6:23 - Who is Sachin...

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Why do people get complacent in long-term relationships? Jayson and Ellen discuss a situation where a couple mutually decided to put their marriage on the back burner to avoid conflict. What are the drawbacks of using complacency as a coping mechanism? Is ignoring your relational needs in order to avoid conflict a sustainable long-term strategy? Tune in to learn how to break out of the complacency trap and get real with your partner today.

Timestamps:

  • 2:22 - Using complacency to avoid conflict
  • 5:30 - Is being complacent okay if it reduces conflict?
  • 7:29 - The drawbacks of complacency as a conflict avoidance strategy
  • 8:37 - When relationship feels like a demand instead of a gift
  • 12:38 - Complacency doesn't solve underlying issues
  • 17:55 - Avoidant people need relationship too
  • 20:22 - Is ignoring your emotional needs sustainable?
  • 23:04 - Standing for three

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