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073: Fading Memories

Absolute Trust Talk

Release Date: 10/05/2021

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Do you own an investment property? Are you thinking about selling it but are overwhelmed by the tax implications? Well, then, we’ve got good news and a great podcast episode for you that might just provide a solution that you may not have known was possible. Ever heard of a 1031 Exchange? (Okay, we’ll end the questions and just get to the good stuff!) In short, a 1031 Exchange allows you to swap one real estate investment property for another while deferring capital gains taxes. It sounds great, but 1031 has A LOT of moving parts you need to understand before attempting to use one. For...

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It goes without saying that trustworthiness is the number one trait you should think about when you choose a trustee for your estate plan.  Is the person going to do the job? Are they going to do the job right? Are they going to put the needs of the trust, estate, and other beneficiaries first? We know it’s a lot to think about, and honestly, there is no correct answer when it comes to choosing your trustee or trustees because every family is different. While it may also seem logical to name your child or children as trustees, this route can also come with its own complexities and...

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What would happen to your family if you or another primary income earner suddenly became disabled and couldn’t work for an extended period of time? What if they died and their income disappeared forever? Many families would have a hard time paying the mortgage, the property taxes, tuition, and many other expenses involved in a family’s daily life. And believe it or not, the majority of families don’t have an adequate plan to cover all those expenses.   In this episode, Kirsten Howe speaks with independent insurance specialist Todd Wellnitz about different types of insurance that he...

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Though it might seem like you’ve got everything covered within your trust document, estate planning is not just about what happens after you die. Issues can also arise in the event that you become incapacitated. Over the years we have seen all sorts of problems because not enough attention was paid to incapacity planning. If the current plan you have in place doesn’t make it quick and easy for others to step in and take over on your behalf, delays can cause your own health and well-being to suffer. It can also cause confusion and disagreement among family members leading to more time and...

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Over the past few years, we’ve seen an influx of trust administration cases. And with nearly every trust and every client, there has unfortunately been some sort of planning failure. Some of them are small, easy fixes, while others are bigger challenges that cost more time and money. The worst part is that they could have been avoided if the right thought process and planning were in place from the start. It’s true there is a lot to think about when it comes to setting up your trust and estate plan, but to truly protect your legacy and beneficiaries, you must think through a variety of...

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Caregiving is certainly not an easy job. Often, caregiving responsibilities are given to family members who are learning as they go—especially with the case of dementia. While caregiving for someone struggling with dementia is no easy task, Jennifer Fink understands and has created many resources to help. After experiencing the difficulties behind being a caregiver for her mother dealing with Alzheimers, Jennifer struggled to find a podcast that catered toward her needs as an Alzheimers Caregiver. Thus, the ambitious Jennifer decided to create her podcast, Fading Memories, to provide support, advice, and resources for those dealing with a similar situation. On Jennifers website www.fadingmemoriespodcast.com, you have not only access to her wonderful podcasts, but also an array of other helpful resources—such as blog articles and recipes. And yes, theyre all completely FREE! Jennifers podcast and website offer many significant and valuable techniques, even if you are just a general caregiver.

In this episode, Kirsten and Jennifer go over the challenging emotions and difficulties that Alzheimers caregivers face. If you are a caregiver or have a loved one dealing with memory loss, this is an episode you dont want to miss. Together, Kirsten and Jennifer cover a variety of techniques, tools, and support available for those dealing with a loved one suffering from memory loss. Listen now to hear the episodes that listeners—and even Jennifer herself—found the most helpful in their care-taking journey.

Big Three from Episode #073:

  1. As a caregiver, even having just ten minutes of your own free time can feel like gold. To properly care for someone else, make sure you are taking care of yourself first!
  2. If you are a caregiver for someone dealing with dementia and want to access a completely FREE resource for helpful caregiving techniques, support and advice SPECIFICALLY targeted toward Alzheimers and dementia, you have to visit www.fadingmemoriespodcast.com!
  3. Alzheimers and dementia can affect people very differently. While some people may have a slower decline in memory loss, it can be much steeper for others. If you have a loved one who has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimers, you need to start planning now! You dont want to wait until things get too out of hand.

Time-stamped Show Notes: 

2:13 - Ever feel like you want to start over? Jennifer discusses why she chose to abandon her career as a portrait photographer and instead start her podcast, Fading Memory, to help support fellow Alzheimers caregivers.

5:31 - If theres one thing we learned from Elaine Sanchez in our last episode about caregiving (link for this here if you havent watched it yet), its that the act of caregiving comes along with a whirlwind of emotions ranging from stress to guilt. Jennifer goes into those experiences here.

8:22 - Are you a caregiver for someone with Alzheimers and tired of trying tools that just aren’t working? Listen here as Jenn goes over the most effective techniques, shes discovered due to creating her podcast—and the ones that have backfired.

9:16 - It can feel incredibly sad and disappointing when your closest loved ones begin losing their memory of you. Jennifer explains what strategy she uses to overcome these emotions best.

13:56 - Listen here to hear what episodes have been the most surprisingly helpful for caregivers.

15:27 - If one of your loved ones has been recently diagnosed with Alzheimers—or you suspect that they may have it—you need to hear Kirstens advice on how to best plan ahead here.

17:29 - Do you ever have moments where you feel like youre just going to explode completely? Then, you HAVE to listen to Jennier share this AMAZING tool that will ultimately alleviate your anger, even when you feel like your whole day has been horrible.

21:43 - Youre not going to want to miss this. For her 200th episode, Jennifer has a beautiful surprise in tune! Listen now to learn more details!23:16 - If you find the advice from Jennifers podcast helpful so far, youre going to LOVE hearing about the other fantastic resources she has in store on her website, www.fadingmemoriespodcast.com. Did we mention that theyre all completely FREE?

26:08 - Jenn addresses how she deals with the toxic positivity often seen in the caregiving community. 

28:44 - If you love Jenns advice on caregiving, listen here as she goes over how you can access her episodes on her website, www.fadingmemoriespodcast.com!

31:17 - If you are a caregiver, but not for someone specifically struggling with dementia, this is a list of Jenns podcasts with general caregiving tips that you wont want to miss.

Resources from this Episode:

https://fadingmemoriespodcast.com/

https://twitter.com/jennifer_fink

https://www.instagram.com/alzheimerspodcast/

linkedin.com/in/jennifer-fink-338957

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