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In Season 3, Episode 6 of Talk Spicy to Me, bestselling authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are joined by New York Times bestselling author Catherine Cowles to talk all things romantic suspense - from crafting believable villains and planting red herrings to using suspense to push the romance forward. Catherine also gets candid about career milestones, setting boundaries as a woman in publishing, and the reality of going from indie to traditional publishing. Plus: true crime research, romance adaptations, murderous book boyfriends, and whether a cold-blooded killer is actually a red flag....
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In Episode 5 of Talk Spicy to Me, hosts Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are joined by USA Today bestselling author Ava Rani for a deep dive into one of the most important (and often overlooked) aspects of storytelling: world building in romance novels. Whether you're writing fantasy romance, dark academia, sports romance, mafia romance, small-town romance, or contemporary romance, this episode is packed with practical advice on creating immersive settings, weaving sensory details into your scenes, and making your fictional world feel like a character of its own. The conversation also covers...
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Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me! In Episode 4 of Season 3, bestselling romance authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are getting honest about burnout, motherhood, creativity, author life, and the pressure to keep producing when your brain and body are begging for a break. This week, Giana and Kandi dive into what burnout really feels like, how it starts with overwhelm, the warning signs they’ve learned to look for, and the habits that help them protect their creativity before they hit a wall. They talk about the difference between pushing through and fully burning out, why social...
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Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me! In Episode 3 of Season 3, bestselling romance authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are joined by two very special guests: their husbands, Haden and Jack. In this episode, Giana and Kandi pull back the curtain on what it’s really like being married to a romance author. Haden and Jack share how they were first introduced to the romance book world, what surprised them most about the size and passion of the reader community, and what it’s like watching their wives build careers in the romance industry. They also get into the hilarious misconceptions people...
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Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me! In Episode 2 of Season 3, bestselling romance authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are joined by the hilarious, wildly talented, and always chaotic S.J. Tilly for a deep dive into what it really means to be a hybrid author. In this episode, Giana, Kandi, and S.J. talk about the realities of balancing indie publishing and traditional publishing, how Kindle Unlimited helped change the game for indie romance authors, why going traditional can help authors reach new readers, and what authors need to know before signing print-only deals, planning book...
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Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me and welcome to SEASON THREE! 🌶️ We’re kicking off the new season with the amazing Chip Pons, USA Today bestselling author of contemporary gay romance, including Winging It With You and Dearly Departed. In this episode, Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner sit down with Chip to talk all things queer love, queer joy, MM romance, found representation, grief, romance tropes, reader expectations, and the power of happily ever afters. This conversation dives deep into why joyful queer stories matter, how romance can help readers feel seen, the difference between...
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Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me: The podcast where two bestselling romance authors go rogue and talk all things romance: the good, the bad, the unbearably hot, and everything in between. In this season finale episode, Kandi and Giana discuss the realities of life in the publishing trenches, the importance of genuine author friendships, what really happens at writing retreats, and answer reader questions about writing and the romance genre. The podcast will return this summer after Giana begins maternity leave. Timestamps: 00:00 – Season finale announcement & Giana starting...
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Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me: The podcast where two bestselling romance authors go rogue and talk all things romance: the good, the bad, the unbearably hot, and everything in between. In Season 2, Episode 9, the hosts are joined by bestselling romance author Liz Tomforde to break down the anatomy of a bestseller. They also share personal updates, reality TV obsessions, and the importance of author friendships while navigating pregnancy, publishing, and the chaos of a writing career. Liz Tomforde Upcoming Release: In Her Own League Website - Instagram - 💬 Got a question...
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Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me: The podcast where two bestselling romance authors go rogue and talk all things romance: the good, the bad, the unbearably hot, and everything in between. This week, we’re joined by New York Times and USA Today bestselling author Shanora Williams for an honest, vulnerable conversation about boundaries, burnout, publishing contracts, and whether you can actually balance it all as a modern author. Shanora Williams New York Times & USA Today bestselling author known for emotionally immersive romance across contemporary and high-stakes worlds. Upcoming...
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Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me: The podcast where two bestselling romance authors go rogue and talk all things romance: the good, the bad, the unbearably hot, and everything in between. In Season 2, Episode 5, hosts Kandi Steiner and Giana Darling are joined by special guest Ambar Cordova for a deeply honest conversation about messy characters, third-act breakups, reader reactions, and why raw, emotionally complicated romances hit harder Please note: Due to technical difficulties, audio quality may not be up to par in the first half of the episode. We appreciate your patience. Ambar Cordova...
info_outlineWelcome back to Talk Spicy to Me! In Episode 2 of Season 3, bestselling romance authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are joined by the hilarious, wildly talented, and always chaotic S.J. Tilly for a deep dive into what it really means to be a hybrid author.
In this episode, Giana, Kandi, and S.J. talk about the realities of balancing indie publishing and traditional publishing, how Kindle Unlimited helped change the game for indie romance authors, why going traditional can help authors reach new readers, and what authors need to know before signing print-only deals, planning book tours, or handing over any part of their brand. They also get into the importance of advocating for yourself as an author, fighting for your covers and creative control, learning the business side of publishing, and why author friendships and community are some of the most valuable tools in the industry.
Plus, because it’s Talk Spicy to Me, there’s plenty of chaos along the way: motherhood updates, dental horror stories, SJ Tilly’s Jurassic Park obsession, dinosaur fossils, digital closets, Rivals on Disney+, romance author deadline spirals, spicy red/green flags, and a reader question about the hardest part of writing a book. If you’re a romance reader, aspiring author, indie author, traditionally published author, or just nosy about the behind-the-scenes world of romance publishing, this episode is for you!
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
03:29 - Season sponsors: Lauren Blakely + Kat Singleton
04:32 - Introducing S.J. Tilly
05:40 - SJ’s iconic one-word chapter
12:09 - Spicy Hot Salsa
21:40 - What is a hybrid author?
22:31 - SJ Tilly’s indie-to-hybrid publishing journey
24:45 - Why being indie first can help authors go traditional
25:20 - The biggest benefit of traditional publishing
30:10 - Kindle Unlimited, Amazon, and indie authors
31:41 - Why authors want to reach every kind of reader
33:15 - The difficult side of being a hybrid author
35:08 - Traditional publishers, creative control, and author branding
38:20 - Print-only deals and author advances
40:09 - Questions to ask before signing a publishing deal
41:07 - Authors are running empires
42:20 - Why author friends and industry community matter
46:24 - New Release Spotlight: Upgraded by Abby Millsaps
47:29 - The reality of book tours
1:02:21 - The biggest takeaway: advocate for yourself
1:07:03 - Why preorders matter for authors
1:09:04 - Special editions, sprayed edges, and limited print runs
1:13:01 - After Dark preview
1:13:42 - Red Flag or Green Flag
1:16:11 - Reader question: What’s the hardest part of writing a book?
1:16:43 - SJ Tilly on beginnings, endings, and writing chronologically
1:21:37 - The chaos of finishing a book
1:23:33 - Long chapters, long books, and author style
1:24:34 - After Dark: romance author group chat exposed
1:25:12 - Where to find SJ Tilly
1:25:38 - SJ Tilly’s Bonded Soul series and upcoming releases
FOLLOW SJ TILLY: Website: https://sjtilly.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sjtillyauthor/?hl=en
SPONSORS: This season of Talk Spicy to Me is brought to you by Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton! Lauren Blakely is the bestselling author of sexy, funny, feel-good romance, including Just Playing for Keeps, a grumpy-sunshine hockey romance with fake dating, viral heartbreak, and a broody tattooed hockey hero.
Follow Lauren Blakely:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenblakelybooks/
Website: https://laurenblakely.com/
Kat Singleton is the author of In Good Company, a forbidden billionaire romance featuring an ex’s brother, private chef, age gap tension, and a dreamy Hamptons setting.
Follow Kat Singleton:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorkatsingleton/?hl=en
Website: https://authorkatsingleton.com
This episode’s featured book is Upgraded by Abby Millsaps, a Formula 1, ex-boyfriend’s dad, forbidden romance with tension, found family, and plenty of high-speed drama on and off the track.
Follow Abby Millsaps: https://authorabbymillsaps.com/
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