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Do you prefer clit stimulation or penetration?

Good Girls Talk About Sex

Release Date: 07/16/2020

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Good Girls Talk About Sex

Leah shares a coaching session with client Caitlin to give us an in-depth experience of what coaching looks and feels like. They focus on Caitlin’s newly-discovered attraction to women.

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Dr. Evelin Dacker returns to answer a listener’s question about common and chronic UTI’s that occur after sex. She breaks down the how and why, and addresses prevention and treatment.

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“Deaf U” star Alexa Paulay-Simmons gets candid about who she is (and always has been) as a sexual person, and how that’s shaped her life.

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Good Girls Talk About Sex

Hey friends, You’ll notice this isn’t the regular episode you were expecting!  The regular episode was loaded into the feed, and some of you may have already downloaded and listened to it. However, I made an error in the production of this episode so, in fairness to our guest, I’ve pulled the episode to fix it. Here’s what happened – Our guest, Alexa, is Deaf and we did the interview through an interpreter.  It was my first time ever doing an interview through an interpreter, so it took me a little time to relax into it. What didn’t occur to me was to send the transcript...

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Leah gets real about how her intimate life has weathered the pandemic, and how confronting her partner’s depression spiral turned out to be a better strategy—for both of them—than enduring it.

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Debbie was formed by experiences of both pleasure and pain. She was blessed with good early relationships, but also is a survivor of the epidemic of sexual abuse in elite women’s sport. Her faith in herself helped her choose to heal.

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STARS is an easy-to-remember acronym for conversations that lead to awesome consensual sex.

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Good Girls Talk About Sex

What kind of touch do you enjoy? Have you thought about the ways, and places? Touch is a many-splendored thing.

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Leah tackles the hierarchy of orgasms—and getting there at all. This week women respond to whether they prefer clit or vaginal stimulation, which opens up a penetrating (see what we did there?!) discussion about preferences.

Sex Ed For Adults: “You are the only one who knows what’s right for your genitals.” As long as what’s under consideration is consensual, pretty much everything else falls on a scale from “I desire it” to “I don’t desire it.” There is no norm within that scale—the scale IS the norm. You can be anywhere on it, and still be “normal.” It’s a matter of your (and your body’s) preference, and you alone are the interpreter and boss. Trust yourself and your body.

 

Bookmarks for this episode:

  • 3:00 - Leah discusses the false hierarchy of orgasms: having a clit orgasm vs vaginal orgasm vs g-spot orgasm.
  • 5:03 - Chorus of voices answering the question “Do you prefer clit stimulation or vaginal penetration?”
  • 9:37 - Leah answers the question and discusses the mechanics of penetration with regard to differences in everyone’s body, and how bodies fit together.
  • 11:45 - Leah discusses difficulties in reaching orgasm due to medication, and myths about using vibrators.
  • 20:22 – “Am I Normal?” This week’s caller asks if it’s okay that she doesn’t like receiving oral sex.
  • 23:20 - Leah discusses worries about the taste and smell of our lady parts.

 

New podcast recommendation (25:15):

“Speak From The Body” by Avni Trivedi

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Find Avni at www.avni-touch.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/avnitouch

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/avnitouch

Twitter: https://twitter.com/avnitouch

 

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Music – Nazar Rybak