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What are your hard red lines?

Good Girls Talk About Sex

Release Date: 11/19/2020

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“Deaf U” star Alexa Paulay-Simmons gets candid about who she is (and always has been) as a sexual person, and how that’s shaped her life.

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Hey friends, You’ll notice this isn’t the regular episode you were expecting!  The regular episode was loaded into the feed, and some of you may have already downloaded and listened to it. However, I made an error in the production of this episode so, in fairness to our guest, I’ve pulled the episode to fix it. Here’s what happened – Our guest, Alexa, is Deaf and we did the interview through an interpreter.  It was my first time ever doing an interview through an interpreter, so it took me a little time to relax into it. What didn’t occur to me was to send the transcript...

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Debbie was formed by experiences of both pleasure and pain. She was blessed with good early relationships, but also is a survivor of the epidemic of sexual abuse in elite women’s sport. Her faith in herself helped her choose to heal.

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Even people who think they’re sexually open have hard red lines. This week Leah digs into discerning where your absolute no’s are, why they might be there, and how to share them with your partner(s).

 

Bookmark moments:

  • 3:42 – A chorus of voices answer the question, “What are your hard red lines?”
  • 14:40 - Leah talks about her own hard red lines, a surprising number of which have to do how she is treated rather than specific act.
  • 17:58 - Leah talks about both setting boundaries and defending them when it comes to your red lines.
  • 19:19 - Pain tolerance, and how it can increase during sex, is discussed.
  • 20:03 - Leah shares her process for vetting and setting boundaries with new partners in terms of safety and play.

 

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Music – Nazar Rybak