Developing a Grateful Mindset with Angus Nelson: Day 62
The Man in the Pew Show with Phil Mershon
Release Date: 01/23/2021
Did Jesus Laugh? (7-Minute Prayers)
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Do you wonder if Jesus ever laughed? Does it feel incongruous that Almighty God might enjoy a belly laugh? Most of the pictures we have of Jesus reveal a strong but serious man. After all, he drove out the moneychangers and regularly rebuked the Pharisees for their hypocrisy. He never wavered from his eternal mission to seek and save the lost. But Jesus was fully man and fully God. As a result, he felt the full gamut of emotions. He wept over the death of Lazarus (John 11) and grew angry at the hard-hearted response of the religious leaders. He certainly bore all the fruits of...
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Laughter is Medicine for the Soul with Tim Washer
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Do you find it easy or hard to laugh at life? The bible says laughter can be like medicine to the soul. found that laughter reduces stress, pain, and conflict. It literally makes the heart function better. The Bible references laughter nearly 50 times. Laughter makes the heart cheerful and helps us cope with the unexpected., In Genesis 18, Sarah laughed when God promised something that seemed too good to be true—a son at the age of 80. When it came true, she named her son Isaac which means “he will laugh.” It seems God has a sense of humor. Have you ever looked at a...
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Waiting for Heaven No Longer: a Tribute to Dr Larry Crabb
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If I looked at your bookshelves, who would I presume has had the biggest influence on your life? Thankfully the number of books you own by an author doesn’t necessarily translate to impact—otherwise, you might think John Grisham is my mentor. I do love a good fast-moving legal thriller, but I don’t plan to go into law or to write novels. Outside of fiction and bible commentaries, you would find more books by Dr. Larry Crabb on my shelves. Some of them I’ve read multiple times. They have all impacted me, and in some cases transformed me. Larry (he preferred we drop...
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From Prosperity to Gratefulness with Ray Edwards: Day 90
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Do you think it’s wrong to make money? Have you been taught that those who prosper financially must have done something wrong or evil? Ray Edwards believes that we were all meant to prosper. For some our prosperity is a spiritual abundance that is accompanied by a vow of poverty. Most of us are called to greater prosperity than we’ve dreamed, but we’re afraid to pursue it because of faulty beliefs. Introducing Ray Edwards While I ultimately realized it wasn’t my calling to awaken the church out of economic lethargy, I’m happy to say that is joining his voice with the...
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The Power of Imagination in Becoming Grateful (7 Minute Prayers): Day 89
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Are you afraid of your imagination? Do you imagine you’ll get yourself into trouble if you dream too much? The church and imagination The Church has historically discouraged imagination out of a fear that we will violate the second commandment, “You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below” (Exodus 20:4 NIV). This fear is somewhat merited. Many times our imaginations do get us into trouble. Aaron gave into the people’s demands to create a golden calf, even while Moses was on Mt. Sinai...
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Can You Fake Thankfulness to Become Grateful? (7 Minute Prayers): Day 88
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You’ve heard the phrase, “Fake it ‘til you make it.” Does that apply to gratitude? Does that feel inauthentic to you? Maybe even like you’re lying? Raised as a Christian, I was taught to never lie. So to suggest that I fake gratitude feels counter to my moral fabric. But researchers suggest that faking it may actually be a good strategy. Dr. Alex Korb is a neuroscientist at UCLA and the author of . He explains: “You can turn a tendency toward a downward spiral of depression and anxiety into an upward spiral of joy and clarity in your life. Expressing...
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Thoughtful Gifts Flow from Gratitude (7 Minute Prayers): Day 87
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Did you grow up singing the every Sunday in church? If you did, what associations do you have? If you didn’t, how do you feel when you hear it? In many liturgical churches, the Doxology is sung immediately prior to the offertory. In essence, we remind ourselves to “Praise God, from whom all blessings flow” before we return our gifts to him. Whether the singing of the Doxology feels natural or arcane to you doesn’t really matter. The truth behind it demonstrates an important gratitude principle: gratefulness flows most easily when someone does something special,...
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Turning Captive Thoughts into Thankfulness (7 Minute Prayers): Day 86
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How easy is it for you to keep your thoughts thankful, positive, and joyful? When Paul challenges us to “take captive every thought,” does that feel hard or easy? If you’re like me, that feels impossible. My mind feels like that commercial with the cat-herding cowboy. As soon as I take one thought captive, all the other thoughts go scattering in all directions. Of course, it’s not like that all the time. On good days I can sustain focused thought for hours and I can recount numerous reasons to be thankful. For example, I’m grateful to have a loving wife, amazing...
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The Battle Toward Gratefulness (7 Minute Prayers): Day 85
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What’s the longest range goal you’ve ever set? Did you accomplish your goal? Most of us lose the battle for gratitude because we don’t have the right plan. Long-term battle plans In England, they estimate . That’s a lot of planning and preparation. At New College, Oxford beetles infested the in the dining hall. Trying to find replacement beams seemed impossible, except that the original architects planted oak trees with the express purpose of being used to replace the beams. When were those trees planted? Over 500 years prior to when they were needed. I share...
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How I Almost Quit Being Grateful (7 Minute Prayers): Day 84
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Have you ever started a project only to find it feels pointless or a waste of time? Have you ever quit something just because it became too hard? I have a confession to make. I almost quit this 90-Day Gratitude Challenge on day 80. Why I almost quit the 90-Day Gratitude Challenge On Day 72 my wife woke me in the middle of the night with some very troubling news. But I couldn’t comprehend what she was saying because I had taken some melatonin to help me sleep—a major issue for me . My brain was foggy and her words didn’t compute. When I awoke the next morning I...
info_outlineDo you struggle to remain thankful? Do you find your mind slowly slipping from a grateful mindset into a negative mindset?
It happens to all of us. It doesn’t have to be inevitable.
Today’s episode is with Angus Nelson, a Men’s Performance Coach. He believes it all starts with your mindset which is formed by renewing your mind through creating the right habits. In other words, it’s what you believe about God, yourself, and the world that will affect your outlook on life.
Your mindset is based on your beliefs
For example, do you truly believe the following?
- God is a God of abundance (Psalm 65:11).
- The kingdom of God is constantly expanding (Mark 4:26-27).
- God loves me without condition (1 Cor. 13).
- I am more than enough because God is more than enough (Ps. 68:28).
- I have what it takes (2 Cor. 12:9).
- Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross is truly sufficient for all my sins: past, present, and future (2 Cor. 2:6).
If you believe the opposite of these, you will increasingly embrace a negative mindset. But if you consistently rehearse these truths, your mind will grow in strength and confidence.
We discussed this idea on Day 31 when we talked about Thankful Thinking.
It starts with the brain
Your brain is the “number solution organ on the planet.” It wants to solve problems, starting with your beliefs about yourself.
“What you hear about you think about. What you think about you talk about. What you talk about you bring about.”
--Angus Nelson
Change your mindset through habits, not goals
Setting goals will not solve mindset issues. In fact, goals can cause you to coast once you meet the goal.
Instead we need to create new neuropathways. New mental habits. The best way to do that is to create a daily manifest or set of beliefs that we will rehearse.
Science shows us that information attached to emotion has far more power to transform us. Reciting information will lead to boredom and could possibly innoculate us to the truths we rehearse. But if we learn to practice intentionally and attach emotions to each statement it can lead to transformation.
Angus created the 10 Minute Motivator to help anyone who wants to make daily changes in how they think and live.
LINK: https://www.manofwealth.com/10minutemotivator
The role of discipline in mindset
Pastor Craig Groeschel said: “Discipline is choosing what you want most over what you want now.” Creating a new set of mental routines will be hard work, but it’s well worth it.
More from Angus:
First interview with Angus: https://maninthepew.com/recover-rock-bottom-angus-nelson/
CHALLENGE:
Create a daily plan for training your mind to think more thankfully about God, yourself, and your life. Perhaps use Angus’s course. If you want to see my manifest, reach out privately and I’ll show you what I did.
PRAYER:
Father, I praise you that your kingdom is constantly growing. We see in the church where 3000 people followed you on a single day. We know that thousands call on your name every day across the globe today. Forgive us that we get focused on our problems and forget your abundant nature. Renew our minds to think the way you think. Give us grateful hearts. We pray in Jesus’ name. Amen.
BIO:
Angus Nelson is a Men’s Performance Coach and Founder of the transformational lifestyle brand, EvolveMen. He helps high-achieving men evolve their lives through his Conscious Design Lifestyle™ to align purpose and effortlessly transform their leadership, love, and legacy. He’s worked with Fortune 500 executives and, hosts the podcast, “Up In Your Business”, and has spoken for brands like Walmart, Whole Foods, BMW, Coca-Cola, & Adobe.
Angus is married with three children, living in Nashville, Tennessee. He loves all things human behavior, Green Bay Packers and nachos.