What 1,500 Women Taught Us About Sensuality with Emily Bendell (Bluebella)
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
Release Date: 03/11/2026
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info_outlineThis week's episode is about an underrated -- and often misreprensented -- asset for pleasure: lingerie! Lingerie can make you feel powerful, beautiful, and sensual, even if you're not with a cishet male partner, or any partner at all! In this episode, DB speaks with Emily Bendell, founder of Bluebella, one of the greatest lingerie brands DB's found yet!
GUEST DETAILS
Bluebella was born from a simple idea to create luxurious and sensual lingerie for self-assured women. Founded on the belief that strength and sensuality belong in the everyday, Bluebella understands that beautiful lingerie sets a powerful tone for whatever comes next. Bluebella is a multi-award winning brand that has paved the way for accessible luxury in the lingerie industry.
Graduating from the University of Oxford, Bluebella’s founder Emily Bendell had a stint in legal journalism before turning her love for lingerie into a business. Seeking to create a new language around contemporary lingerie, Emily launched Bluebella with a mission to re-write what it means to be sensual for the modern woman.
“Our vision is to re-imagine sensual lingerie as something owned for ourselves. To us, lingerie is a personal self-expression of individual style and spirit. I wanted to create a brand and product that was considered, confident, and true to our experience of wearing lingerie.”
FROM THIS EPISODE
- Modern Sensuality Community Campaign: https://www.bluebella.us/pages/community-campaign-results
- DB’s fav Bluebella lingerie (it’s not what you think!): https://www.bluebella.us/products/noor-sheer-mesh-top-black + https://www.bluebella.us/products/latex-soft-bodysuit-black
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