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177: A Radically Different Approach to Understanding Racism with April Harter, LCSW

Speaking Your Brand: Public Speaking for Women

Release Date: 06/16/2020

389: Empowering Women in the Age of AI with Denise Musselwhite

Speaking Your Brand: Public Speaking for Women

We're continuing the series we've been doing this month all around inspiring you to use your voice, no matter what your topic or your industry. If you've been listening to this podcast for a while, you know that I've been really excited about artificial intelligence and ChatGPT and all of the ways AI can help us both personally and professionally. For this episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Denise Musselwhite, a technology maven with a rich background in IT and a heart set on women's empowerment in tech. Here's why you absolutely can't miss this episode: Discover Denise's...

388: What Makes a Stand-Out Conference Speaking Proposal and Presentation with Cathy McPhillips

Speaking Your Brand: Public Speaking for Women

Many conferences get hundreds of speaker submissions. How can you make yours stand out so it gets selected? Then, once you do get selected, how do you make sure you deliver an engaging presentation at the conference? That’s what I talk about with my guest Cathy McPhillips, who is Chief Growth Officer at the Marketing AI Institute. Along with the virtual events they host year-round, they also host an in-person conference called MAICON, which I spoke at in 2023. I invited Cathy on the show to share with us: Her background and what brought her to the Marketing AI Institute How Cathy and the...

387: Escaping the Ivory Tower: Stepping into Thought Leadership for Greater Impact with Laura McGuire, EdD

Speaking Your Brand: Public Speaking for Women

I talk quite a bit on this podcast about "the expert trap" and how so many of us get stuck teaching and training and don't step into thought leadership. This applies not only to those of us who are entrepreneurs, but of course to all the academics out there as well (hand raised!). This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone passionate about making a difference through their work, particularly in academia or any field where expertise is a given, but thought leadership can make an even bigger impact. My guest is Laura McGuire, EdD, a social scientist, educator, and entrepreneur...

386: The Power of the Performing Arts to Find and Use Your Voice with Theresa Smith-Levin

Speaking Your Brand: Public Speaking for Women

A couple of months ago, I attended an event to honor non-profits. What was really cool was that each non-profit had 2-½ minutes to share their story. When my guest Theresa Smith-Levin, founder of Central Florida Vocal Arts, shared her story, I was instantly inspired and I knew I had to have her on the podcast. Our conversation is a testament to the power of storytelling, vulnerability, and community in fostering personal and collective growth. Theresa's work with Central Florida Vocal Arts is not just about singing; it's about creating a space where young people can grow into their...

385: Leading with Story in Your Talks [Roundtable]

Speaking Your Brand: Public Speaking for Women

You know how powerful storytelling is in your presentations and talks. How can you go about integrating your stories in a way that truly connects you to your audiences? There is no *one way* to integrate stories into your talks. Your story can be central to your talk or it can be a supporting element. You can play with the timeline of the story - start in the middle and then come back to the beginning later or start at the end. In this episode, our lead speaking coach Diane Diaz hosts three of our clients who were at our recent 3-day in-person speaking retreat, Darci Foshay, Dani Einsohn, and...

384: Claiming the Identity of a Thought Leader with Neha Pathak, MD

Speaking Your Brand: Public Speaking for Women

If you’ve ever felt like your topic or message may be overwhelming to your audience or the issue you want to address is a really big one and you’re not sure how your audience is going to relate to it or know how to take action, you’re going to appreciate this conversation. My guest is Dr. Neha Pathak, a physician and lead medical editor at WebMD, who graduated from our Thought Leader Academy last fall. Neha and I talk about: Her roles as a primary care physician, lead medical editor at WebMD, and host of WebMD’s podcast How she came to her signature talk topic and thought leadership...

383: Using Their Voices: Live Signature Talks from Our Thought Leader Academy Grads [Part 2]

Speaking Your Brand: Public Speaking for Women

You heard half of our latest Thought Leader Academy grads deliver a 10-minute section of their signature talk last week on episode 381, now you get to hear the other three. In this episode, our lead speaking coach Diane Diaz hosts Maria Flynn, Karen Williams, and Brigette Serfaty, PharmD. You’ll hear how they’ve incorporated their thought leadership message, storytelling, humor, and their frameworks into their talks. We also have a roundtable discussion about what they’ve learned from being in the Thought Leader Academy and what’s next for them as speakers and thought leaders. This...

382: 3 Signs You're Stuck in the Expert Trap with Your Public Speaking

Speaking Your Brand: Public Speaking for Women

I know you want to grow your business and brand and have a bigger impact as a thought leader. But, as high-achieving women, there are beliefs we have that get us stuck in the expert trap. We believe that we need to teach/train to provide value; that training content is what our audience wants; and our identity is tied to seeing ourselves as the expert. These beliefs are what can hold you back from thought leadership and the impact and income you want to make. The problem is that your presentations and content are undifferentiated and lack emotional resonance. In this episode, I share 3 signs...

381: Using Their Voices: Live Signature Talks from Our Thought Leader Academy Grads [Part 1]

Speaking Your Brand: Public Speaking for Women

Want to know what it’s like to create a signature talk with us? There’s no better way than to hear our Thought Leader Academy grads deliver a 10-minute section of their talks! You’ll hear how they’ve incorporated storytelling and their frameworks into their talks. We’ll also have a roundtable discussion about what they’ve learned from being in the Thought Leader Academy and what’s next for them as speakers and thought leaders. In this episode, I’m joined by Sandy Robinson, M.Ed., Yewande Fadojutimi, M.D., and Joanne Lane, Ed.D. This audio is from a live broadcast we did...

380: Building Your Speaker Brand Separate From Your Corporate Identity with Sandy Robinson

Speaking Your Brand: Public Speaking for Women

The power of women’s voices doesn’t just relate to women who own and run their own businesses; it’s also for women who work in corporate spaces. Building your personal brand and speaker brand separate from your corporate identity can give you a voice and mission that has a greater impact beyond the day-to-day work you do in your job. In this episode, our lead speaking coach Diane Diaz talks with one of our Thought Leader Academy clients, Sandy Robinson. Sandy works in revenue operations and she’s carved a niche for herself by building a personal and speaker brand...

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We’ve been hearing and seeing a lot over the past few weeks about anti-racism education and the need for white people (like me) to learn about how deep systemic racism is embedded throughout our society and the actions we can take to combat racism and anti-Blackness.

This is a very different conversation about racism.

My guest is April Harter, who is a therapist and licensed clinical social worker and the founder of the Racism Recovery Center.

April has what I call a radically different approach to understanding racism.

She looks at it from a behavioral/psychological/personal level.

What she has found is that racism is rooted in childhood trauma/abuse/neglect and narcissism.

This is not exclusive to people who join white supremacist organizations like the KKK.

This is all of us who are white.

As I discovered from this conversation, I tend to be very cerebral and intellectual (from my academic background and my personality). I thus intellectualize my understanding of racism (which really is a defense mechanism) - and is not a substitute for the personal work I need to do.

As April says, activism is not a substitute or solution for dealing with our personal racism.

I invite you to listen to this conversation with an open mind and an open heart.

In this episode, April and I talk about:

The two types of racism: institutional (history and the law) and personal (behavioral and psychological)
The trauma, narcissism, and codependency behind racism (which results in hyper-vigilance and defensiveness)
The performative allyship that we see on social media - and the connection to perfectionism, shame, and inauthenticity
95-98% of white people *haven’t* done their personal psychological racism work (which results in denial)
Most white people don’t recognize the emotional neglect or abuse they experienced growing up (including perfectionism and over-achievement)
White women saviorism and the connection to codependency in a patriarchal society
Take action and do the work from a place of LOVE, not saviorism
The stages of change: pre-contemplation, contemplation, preparation, action, maintenance, and relapse
Activism and learning about racism tend to be a way to bypass the personal healing journey

About My Guest: April Harter, LCSW is a former medical social worker, where she provided counseling to her patients and their family members to help them cope with the trauma of medical emergencies in the state of Texas. She later moved to Colorado and started her private practice to serve QTPOC patients with a history of racial trauma. After having worked with QTPOC, she decided to help prevent racism in society by working with white clients as a coach using the Racist Signature Theory. Finally, she opened up the Racism Recovery Center to offer psychotherapy to white people in interracial families.

About Us: The Speaking Your Brand podcast is hosted by Carol Cox. At Speaking Your Brand, we help women entrepreneurs and professionals create their signature talks and gain more visibility to achieve their goals. Our mission is to get more women in positions of influence and power: on stages, in businesses, on boards, in the media, in politics, and in our communities. Check out our coaching programs at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com.

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Show notes at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/177

April’s website: http://www.racismrecoverycenter.com/

April’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/racismrecoverycenter/

April’s “Racism Recovery Podcast”: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/racism-recovery-podcast/id1507043474

Related Podcast Episodes:

Episode 167: Creating a Sense of Belonging with Your Audience with Traci Baxley, Ed.D.
Episode 175: The Work of Anti-Racism as White Women with Carol Cox and Diane Diaz
Episode 176: Handling Triggers, Reactions, and Emotions in Ourselves and Others with Lara Currie

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