loader from loading.io

Overcoming Trauma & Setting Healthy Boundries

AromaThrive with Lisa

Release Date: 03/15/2016

Summer Travel Pandemic Safety Tips  show art Summer Travel Pandemic Safety Tips

AromaThrive with Lisa

Ready for summer vacation? You'll want to hear these pandemic travel safety tips to help keep you and your family safe. Since the July 4th weekend, COVID-19 cases in Santa Barbara and Southern California have dramatically increased. It's prompted health officials to urge everyone - regardless of vaccination status - to mask up. Lisa shares the latest federal and local public health guidance - including where you'll need to mask up.

info_outline
Fall Equinox - Pandemic Protocols - Self Care not Isolation show art Fall Equinox - Pandemic Protocols - Self Care not Isolation

AromaThrive with Lisa

Autumn Equinox, a time to check in with yourself to review the past three months, release what you no longer want and set your attention on what you wish to create. In this episode, I offer guidelines for socializing safely during the pandemic, self-care reminders and how to see the 'silver lining' in pandemic life, when things have slowed down and gotten quieter for most of us.  As always, I'm recommending an essential oil aroma to support you during these times: Release is a blend of ylang ylang, sandalwood, citrus and more, to help you release - let go - of worn out feelings, thoughts...

info_outline
Make that Mask more Breathe-able & More show art Make that Mask more Breathe-able & More

AromaThrive with Lisa

I don't know about you, but putting on a face covering to go out made me not want to breathe, or go out as much. Until now - tune-in to this episode to learn a simple solution that makes mask-wearing more interesting, and breathe-able.  You'll also get ideas for being in the moment, Boosting your wellness by getting closer to nature (and natural products), and imagining your perfect life while staying safer at home.  

info_outline
Breathe into Spring - for Good Health show art Breathe into Spring - for Good Health

AromaThrive with Lisa

With all that's happening in the world, did you even notice that Spring has come?  It will be followed by a new moon on March 24, which inspires new ideas - it's a good time to plant seeds (goals, ideas) during a new moon that you wish to see come to harvest in 28 days, or even fall.  In this episode I encourage you to B R E A T H E, it can help you relieve stress. I'll walk you thru two breathing exercises, including breath of fire. And, will also offer ideas for grounding and centering - and re-imagining your life, as you may be staying home a lot more often, as so many of us are,...

info_outline
How to Set Powerful Affirmations show art How to Set Powerful Affirmations

AromaThrive with Lisa

2020 is here - for many, it's a time to set new year resolutions, intentions or affirmations to support your goals. In this episode, offers tips for setting powerful affirmations.  Discover how to activate the Law of Attraction to work for you - and how to clear inner trauma (or that stubborn inner child) who may be holding you back from accomplishing your most cherished goals. Aromas are a powerful tool for setting affirmations - the essential oils recommended in this episode include the blend Valor and Frankincense. Both of these oils are included in a Premium Starter Kit of 12...

info_outline
Your Family Traits and Epigenetics show art Your Family Traits and Epigenetics

AromaThrive with Lisa

Science is proving that we inherit more than physical traits like hair and eye color from our biological families. The study of epigenetics has found that trauma and stress responses are also inherited.  In this episode, , explains how these unconscious  reactions are passed from generation to generation. And why, when you are aware of this, you can improve your health and well-being.  The suggested essential oil for this episode is lemon, or a citrus oil. Inhale a drop or two of lemon or other citrus essential oils to bring a feeling of sunshine into your heart. Citrus can...

info_outline
“Shift and Shine” to Transform Stress  show art “Shift and Shine” to Transform Stress

AromaThrive with Lisa

The holidays are sneaking up, and extreme emotions sneak up on us, too, this time of year. In this episode, I speak with my friend, author Deborah Richards, who offers insights for shining thru the holidays even if they bring up memories that can feel overwhelming. In her book, , Deb details how she survived the death of her husband who committed suicide, and how her belief that they will be together again in the afterlife warms her heart. She also speaks of struggles with two of her children who went thru addiction and recovery. She is blessed this holiday that both daughters are living...

info_outline
Gratitude Wednesday pre Thanksgiving Episode show art Gratitude Wednesday pre Thanksgiving Episode

AromaThrive with Lisa

Here we are heading into the holiday season already! In this episode let's look at the health benefits of being grateful, aromas that can help you get more in the holiday spirit - and, why the average life expectancy of Americans continues to decline. The suggested essential oils blend for this episode is HOPE, a sweet blend of Melissa, Myrrh and more, to uplift spirits and inspire feelings of hopefulness. Wishing you a happy and healthy Thanksgiving holiday weekend.     

info_outline
Cultivating your Tribe thru Live Events show art Cultivating your Tribe thru Live Events

AromaThrive with Lisa

Being part of a tribe - people you relate to, and who get you - can be good for your health.  Festivals strive to cultivate a cool vibe that brings together like-minded people for a good time, and there's an art to that. , a conference that brings together people who create festivals- and those who provide services that support festivals and live events - is coming to Santa Barbara November 21-23.  It's a very cool hang! In this episode I speak with Laurie Kirby, co-founder of FestForums, about trends in conferences, what it takes to put on a successful live event - and what will be...

info_outline
Dia de Los Muertos:  Connect with the Other Side show art Dia de Los Muertos: Connect with the Other Side

AromaThrive with Lisa

This is the time of year that the ancestors come to visit - some believe they come in the form of Monarch Butterflies migrating through the area. In this episode, I share ideas for connecting with your inner guidance, and possibly lost loved ones.  Dia de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead, along with Halloween and All Saint's Day all fall within a few days of each other. Tradition says it's the time of year the veils are thinnest between earthly life and the 'other side.' The suggested essential oils for this podcast are Abundance -a spicy blend of Frankincense, Myrrh, clove and cinnamon -...

info_outline
 
More Episodes

Meeting the demands of daily life can be overwhelming. Developing healthy boundaries – physical and energetic - can help you reduce stress and feel more in control.

In this podcast, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) Brian D. Mahan explains why it’s hard for many people to set clear boundaries (because most of us didn’t learn how in childhood).  

“We weren’t allowed to have those boundaries in our family situation and then we don’t know how to take that…. Into our social lives.”

“The more we are able to identify what our energetic boundaries are, what our values are, then the more we are able to……  sit in the strength of our own sense of what’s right and wrong,” said Mahan.

Mahan says identifying your core values is key a first step toward establishing healthy boundaries.

“It’s important to get in touch with ‘what’s important to us, what’s not important, what we like and what we dislike.”

When values are defined, he says, a person can make a decision and take action, or what he calls ‘healthy aggression.’

“we have this opinion that aggression is a bad thing, and the reason we have that is it’s usually shamed out of us as children” but, Mahan says ‘Healthy aggression is also discipline, dedication, drive, empowerment.”

In this podcast, you will also learn how Somatic Experiencing (SE) can offer relief to those suffering from PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder), trauma and other disturbing life events.

Mahan was introduced to SE at the suggestion of his chiropractor. He was suffering from daily panic attacks following a major car crash. He says, after three SE sessions, his panic attacks went away.

The experience was so life-changing for him, he became an SE practitioner and now trains others in this methodology as well.

SE, created by Dr. Peter Levine, is considered one of the world’s foremost approaches for dealing with developmental trauma, anxiety, stress and panic disorders.

Find out more about Brian D. Mahan and SEP at BrianDMahan.com

For more Lisa.FM podcasts, go to WellnessTalkShow.com