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087 Looking For Love in All the Wrong Places

Your Hope-Filled Perspective with Dr. Michelle Bengtson podcast

Release Date: 12/10/2020

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Episode Summary:

In this episode, we talk about moving from brokenness to wholeness, and maintaining our hope in God. A misguided search for love & acceptance lured Maureen Hager into the life of an outlaw motorcycle gang. Caught up in a violent gang war, she sustained two gunshot wounds from M16 rifles. While severely wounded, this act of violence was the turning point God used to give her a restored life in Him.

Quotables from the episode:

  • If you are experiencing any pain or hardship right now, and wonder what good could come out of this, you’ve tuned in to the right episode.
  • Sometimes a grieving heart will lead us to look for love in all the wrong places.
  • When we’ve had a wounding to our heart, we will seek acceptance from whomever will fill it.
  • It’s a universal search we all have: looking for love. But there is only one true source that will satisfy.
  • So often people stay in unhealthy environments and relationships because they feel trapped.
  • I had no idea of the journey ahead, all I know looking back is that that bullet was my escape from that gang. God saved my life.
  • Often circumstances we find ourselves in is an opportunity for God to reach into that pit and pull us up to higher ground.
  • If you end up in the hospital, you need an advocate!
  • When you feel alone, it’s easy to believe the lie that God has abandoned you.
  • The biggest lesson I learned was that God did love me, and my hardened heart started to melt.
  • In our places of desperation that is when we become most willing to listen to God.
  • I experienced the God of hope and that made all the difference in my life.
  • When I sought out the gang, I was looking for love and acceptance but never found it, but when I began going to church I learned what true love was.
  • What the enemy intended to harm me, God has used for my good.
  • God is waiting for you to come to Him. He loves you. The extent of His love for us is unfathomable. Accepting that He does love us makes all the difference.
  • You are never too broken for God to heal you. Scripture says Jesus was broken for you and for me. If we were not broken human beings, we would never have needed a Savior. Jesus came because we are broken.
  • Your past does not define you.

Scripture References:

  • Psalm 147:3 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
  • 2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away, behold, all things have become new.
  • Revelation 12:11a And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.

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Guest:

A misguided search for love & acceptance lured Maureen Hager into the life of an outlaw motorcycle gang. Caught up in a violent gang war, she sustained two gunshot wounds from M16 rifles. While severely wounded, this act of violence was the turning point God used to give her a restored life in Him. Today she lives in western NC with her husband. They enjoy spending time with their two grown daughters and their grandchildren.

Hosted By: Dr. Michelle Bengtson

Audio Technical Support: Bryce Bengtson