Crystal Paine Show

The Crystal Paine Show is dedicated to helping you embrace life right where you are and take practical steps to get where you want to go. Crystal says, "My hope is that this podcast will serve as an inspiration to your week, a pause in your day to slow down and reflect a little, a looked-forward-to part of your weekly routine, a place where we can connect on a deeper level… and ultimately, my desire is that you come away from listening to each episode feeling motivated to bloom where you are planted and take intentional steps to move in the direction you are longing to go." Crystal is a wife, mom of 3, speaker, author, and online entrepreneur, best known for founding MoneySavingMom.com as well as YourBloggingMentor.com.

182. Start with Hello: Simple Ways to Build Community (with Shannan Martin) 10/18/2022

181. What is Kathrynne doing after high school? 10/11/2022

180. Why You Should Read Aloud with Your Kids (with Jennifer Pepito) 10/04/2022

180. Why You Should Read Aloud with Your Kids (with Jennifer Pepito) This week's podcast episode is on a topic that is very close to my heart... because it's something that so deeply impacted me! When I was growing up, my mom read aloud to us almost every single day and I have so many fond memories of the time we spent gathered together -- often working on some type of sewing handwork -- while she read us a few more chapters from the book we were currently reading aloud. To this day, I recall so many stories from those books and often am inspired in my every day life to be more courageous because of them. I share more about that on this episode of The Crystal Paine Show where I'm joined by Jennifer Pepito, author of As you may have guessed, this episode is all about the positive impact of reading aloud to your children. Jennifer is the mother of seven children whom she has been homeschooling for twenty-five years. And she is passionate about the power of reading aloud -- not just for your kids, but for you as a mom. She shares her best tips for getting started, how to approach reluctant listeners, a few of her favorite read alouds, and what reading aloud has looked like in their home through the years. She is such a seasoned mother and homeschooler and has such a wealth of knowledge and wisdom to share, and I hope that you find her words helpful. I left this conversation so inspired and I think you will, too! In This Episode [01:11] – We are talking about the book today! [02:27] – Did Jennifer always intend to homeschool her children? [05:14] – How Jennifer found time in her day to read aloud to her children -- especially when they were little. [06:50] – What reading aloud has looked like as Jennifer's children grew older. [11:05] – How do we get children to sit still to listen to a book? [12:57] – What do we do when there are interruptions. [16:43] – How reading aloud impacted me as a child -- and into adulthood. [18:19] – Jennifer offers insightful advice to new mothers. [21:36] – And then she shares advice for moms with older kids. [23:44] – How can we get started making reading aloud a practice in our homes? [24:55] – What are some of Jennifer's favorite read-aloud titles? Books /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/24582378

179. An Interview with Jesse 09/27/2022

179. An Interview with Jesse I thought that it would be fun to sort of turn the tables around a little bit and interview Jesse, who just recently had his forty-second birthday! Jesse has a lot of wisdom to share. He's walked through a lot in his life -- including being born prematurely, his parents divorcing at an early age, losing his mom to cancer when he was young, and two major brain tumor surgeries. And that was all just before he turned 15! In this episode, he shares some of the biggest life lessons he has learned over the course of his life and what lessons he hopes to impart to our children. We talk about how important it is to take risks and face fears. He share about what it was like to do this when he went to law school and started his own firm, and we both had to face fears when we went into fostering. All in all, you never know where a leap of faith or even just a baby step will take you! In This Episode [01:13] – Jesse had a big birthday recently and in honor of his birthday, I'm interviewing him this episode. [03:01] – Jesse recently finished reading by Dan Crenshaw and is reading by Danny Franks. [04:58] – I am reading by Shelby Van Pelt -- a book that is different from many I usually read. [09:20] – What has been saving my life this week? [12:47] – Jesse shares what has been saving his life. [17:24] – What are a couple of life lessons that Jesse wants to teach our kids.? [18:13] – Jesse talks about some fears that he has faced throughout his life. [23:45] – Jesse's hopes for the next forty years or so. [28:35] – Skills build on each other. Links & Resources Books Other Resources (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/24503220

178. From Street Kid to Foster Dad (with Peter Mutabazi) 09/20/2022

178. From Street Kid to Foster Dad (with Peter Mutabazi) I loved this conversation with Peter Mutabazi -- a single foster dad who has such a heart for kids. In this episode, he shares a little about his heartbreaking but also inspiring story of being abused by his dad as a boy and finally making the decision to run away -- having no idea where idea where he would go. He ended up living on the streets near a bus station for a few years until one man walked into his life and changed everything. You will want to not only listen to what he shares of his story on this episode, but you'll also want to get a copy of his book, . I left this conversation so convicted by his passion for others and how one person can make such a difference in another person's life. In This Episode [00:35] – I announce today's guest, Peter Mutabazi. [01:04] – Peter gives us some background information about himself. [01:42] – Learn a little bit about Peter's childhood. [03:30] – Peter discusses his reasons for running away from home when he was ten. [04:41] – When was Peter finally able to escape survival mode? [06:18] – Peter shares about getting an education. [08:32] – I discuss the title of . [10:37] – What can a parent do to foster worth and value in God within children? [13:36] – Peter touches upon how to get where he is today. [15:23] – How did Peter decide to start fostering children? [18:24] – Peter has fostered 27 children in five years! [19:45] – Peter gives advice to prospective foster parents who are scared to pursue it. [23:08] – I love how Peter says that birth parents are my ally, not my enemy. [24:12] – How does Peter reconcile the brokenness in the world with God? Books by Peter Mutabazi Other Resources (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/24430767

177. Setting Healthy Boundaries for Your Family (with Rachel Norman) 09/14/2022

176. An adoption update + how to follow through with your goals 08/30/2022

176. An adoption update + how to follow through with your goals After 17+ months of fostering D, lots of court dates, and much due diligence on the part of DCS to make sure there was no biological family who could take care of him (his mama loves him so much but cannot care for him due to all his ongoing medical needs), the judge granted TPR last week and his case will be officially moving to adoption once the 30-day appeal period is up. We have been busy getting extensive paperwork filled out from all his therapists and specialists and doctors (he’s currently regularly seeing/working with 12 different doctors/therapists). This is something required before the adoption can move forward. We have a few other things to do on our end but hope to have that all wrapped up in the next few weeks. And then it will be just a few more steps before we get a date for his adoption!! DCS is hoping our adoption will be official by Thanksgiving! We are hopeful, but know that it could be longer and we want to be patient. There are so many emotions in all of this. We love this boy more than words can express and are so thrilled and humbled we get to be his forever family. At the same time, our hearts grieve so much for the loss he and his family will forever experience as a result of this adoption. We are grateful we can continue a relationship with his mama and that he will grow up knowing how much he is loved by his birth family. This is a gift and one we are deeply thankful for, but we know there will also always be sadness and loss in this. Thank you to each of you who have been such huge supporters and encouragers as we’ve walked this unexpected journey toward adoption. We can’t wait to get to introduce you to our sweet boy very soon. I have so many videos of his full face grin and laugh that I’m so excited to share with you! In this episode of The Crystal Paine Show, we share more about this process and our thoughts surrounding it, plus we talk about why goal-setting might not be working for you, REM sleep and sleep-walking, and a documentary and a movie we watched recently. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [00:58] - It was a big week for us with a lot of big feelings. [09:57] - Jesse and I watched an interesting movie and documentary recently. [15:50] - We got an email recently regarding an interesting response about REM sleep and sleepwalking. [18:07] - How do I actually follow through with goal-setting? [21:44] - I sometimes think we look at what someone else has set as a goal and we think that's the only way that goal setting works. [22:25] - Start with one simple goal. [23:52] - Pick a goal that excites you. [26:56] - It's not enough to just set a goal. Here's what to do next... [28:52] - Make sure you are celebrating the mile markers. [31:04] - One good habit can breed into another good one. Books by Gretchen Rubin Special Mentions , a movie , a movie , documentary App Ep 174 Other Resources (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/24218052

175. Raising Emotionally Strong Boys (with David Thomas) 08/23/2022

175. Raising Emotionally Strong Boys (with David Thomas) Do you struggle with kids who get easily irritated or have angry outbursts? If so, you don't want to miss this episode of The Crystal Paine Show where I interview David Thomas, therapist, dad of three, and author of . In this episode, he shares some of the biggest struggles boys are dealing with right now and how we can best walk with them through these. He gives so much practical advice and strategies you can start using immediately. I have mulled over this episode again and again after we recorded it and have changed how I approach a number of interactions with my kids as a result. This 30-minute episode is packed with inspiration, encouragement, and hands-on tools for all parent -- or anyone who interacts with kids! In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [03:15] - David shares how he got started as a therapist and what led him down that path. [05:34] - Since you've been doing this for a long time, have you seen a shift in what parents are struggling with and what teens are struggling with? [06:38] - Do you feel there is a reason for that? What's at the root of that? [13:09] - What does it mean to be emotionally strong? [20:09] - How do we, as parents, set an example for our kids when we're feeling so frustrated? [23:46] - Moms often feel like, "If I admit to my child that I don't have it all figured out, I'm somehow failing them." [27:42] - I would love for you to speak to that mom right now. She is feeling like it's too much, it's too overwhelming. She feels she doesn't have what it takes. She doesn't know what to do with her child. [31:36] - There are so many tools in this book, not just tools for your son, tools for you as well. Links & Resources Books by David Thomas by David Thomas by Sissy Goff Special Mentions Other Resources (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/24142158

174. Teaching Your Kids to Set Goals 08/16/2022

174. Teaching Your Kids to Set Goals Christina wrote in and asked: "I was wondering if your older children set their own goals and if they do, what does that process look like? I have a 9 and 6 year old and I would love to help them define small and large goals for themselves but I'm not sure how to translate my personal and business goal setting process to something that is exciting for younger children." In this week's episode of the podcast, we share some of our thoughts on helping our kids set goals, inspired by Christina's question. We share how we've approached goal-setting with our kids and some ways to help them be inspired to set goals and ideas to help them take ownership of their goals and follow through with them. We also share about books we're reading, something new we learned this past week related to sleep, and something that helped fix a skin issue I was having. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [01:14] I taught Jesse something new this week. Have you heard of this? [08:12] Blistex’s medicated lip balm is what is saving my life this week. [08:22] Jesse's book update. [10:50] A book I've been loving. [15:33] - Today’s podcast inspiration comes from a listener. [16:19] - The first step to helping your children set goals is to model it for them. [19:56] - We had lots of conversations involving them and talking about it conceptually. [21:44] - Recognize their interest, their personality type, and what is going to motivate them. [25:41] - Sometimes it's just like a little bit of challenging them and providing encouragement that you think they can do more. [26:51] - And finally, be their cheerleaders. [27:30] - Celebrate the progress that they make. This can fuel their desire to do even more. Links & Resources Books by Brad Thor by David Thomas Special Mentions Other Resources (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/24069207

173. Our Fitness, Family, & Personal Goals for the Fall 08/09/2022

172. Micah's Birth Story 08/02/2022

172. Micah's Birth Story This is the podcast episode so many of you have been waiting for! We not only share about Micah's birth -- which ended up being my easiest, least-eventful, and quickest birth of all of my births -- but about some of the unexpected events leading up to the birth and the eventful day of the birth (including a toddler poop explosion and half the family leaving for a baseball tournament!) Jesse and I didn't talk about what we were going to share ahead of time, because I wanted this episode to be very raw and unedited so we could have a record of our fresh thoughts about the birth to share with Micah someday when he's older. So we hope this is like just sitting in our living room and chatting with us as we share our thoughts and feelings and perspectives on this big occasion in our family. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of The Crystal Paine Show. [00:57] We are sharing Micah's birth story today. [02:43] - I had multiple sonograms, leading up to the birth and we made the decision for me to be induced. [04:47] - Jesse and I both prayed a lot in the two weeks leading up to my induction date that I would naturally go into labor. [04:54] A week before the induction, baby D got really sick. [09:22] Another reason we prayed I would go early was because of an upcoming tournament. [11:16] I have a highlight on my Instagram profile about the whole experience before and during called “My Birth”. [13:54] My hope was for it to be as natural as possible and to be fully present. [16:36] Always advocate for what you need at the hospital. [18:40] - I was present, aware of everything that was going on, talking in between contractions. [19:29] - It felt like natural contractions versus Pitocin contractions. And that was such a gift because in between contractions, there was almost zero pain. [21:51] I was trying to focus and rely upon the Lord through some intense contractions. [22:20] Jesse and I joke about the men’s perspective of birth. [23:27] I still didn’t feel ready to push. [25:04] My preferred birthing method is always on hands and knees. [27:20] - It was this surreal moment when he came out because I was thinking, I didn't feel like he was ready to come out and there he is. [29:59] - So instead of us admiring our beautiful brand-new baby, we're trying to figure out what to do about this poop explosion. [31:20] It was such a wonderful birth experience, especially after a rough pregnancy. Links and Resources: (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/23940783

171. My Unexpected Hospital Stay 05/31/2022

171. My Unexpected Hospital Stay In the middle of May, I went in for what I thought was just a routine weekly ultrasound, but there were some significant concerns about the baby’s movements/activity. Within an hour, they were prepping me for the very real possibility of a c-section that day. (Starting steroid shots, no eating/drinking, admitting me to the hospital, etc.) I was by myself and it felt very surreal. So many things to process all at once. So many details to try to work out. And so much concern for our sweet baby. This whole pregnancy has been a real test of faith and endurance for me. There have been many unexpected bumps in the road. Many things I’ve never experienced (so much bleeding and spotting, so much more nausea, low-lying placenta, the possibility of placenta previa, transverse baby, fibroids, etc.). Over and over again, I’ve had to stop and release my desire for control and my need to have a plan. It’s required me to continually open up my hands and say, “God, help me to trust You and walk by faith — even though there is so much uncertainty for what the future holds.” By the grace of God (and many answers to prayer!), baby started moving much more normally and after 24 hours of monitoring + a lot more testing, I got to go home from the hospital to keep the baby inside for a few more weeks. (My OB and specialist believe baby was just in a really deep sleep cycle during the initial ultrasound but we are monitoring and testing very closely to make sure baby continues to move/act normally and not in distress). I don’t know what the future holds for this pregnancy. Our goal is for me to make it to my scheduled induction at 39 weeks (just two more weeks!). But I’m just living one day, one week at a time right now — seeking to make the most of it, continuing to release my desire for control to the One Who knows the end from the beginning. We never know what a day might hold, but I’m grateful to know the One Who holds the whole world in His hands. Jesse and I sat down and recorded a podcast about this experience sharing more details, things we learned, blessings in the middle of it, and also what you can expect for the next two months for the podcast. Click on the link above to listen to it. P.S Thank you to for staying the night at the hospital with me so Jesse could be at home with our littles! And to for coming to keep us company! /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/23284190

170. Making Sabbath Rest a Priority (with Bob & Linda Lotich) 05/17/2022

170. Making Sabbath Rest a Priority (with Bob & Linda Lotich) “Start where you are.” Such a short statement but it has such a huge impact. In this episode of The Crystal Paine Show, Bob and Linda Lotich, authors of their new book talk about how they’ve made Sabbath a priority in their home and lives and how to just start where you are. In this age of busyness when we all have a lot on our plates, is Sabbath rest even possible? If so, what would that look like? We delve into what it looks like for Bob & Linda and how we all can find ways to practice it in our own lives — even if we have a very full schedule. We also talk about how this practice is more about our hearts and releasing our sense of control and micromanaging our lives and instead resting in Jesus. Bob and Linda share their experiences, what they’ve learned, how this practice has deeply impacted them, and struggles they have encountered along the way. I hope this episode inspires you with ideas for how you, too, can implement a regular practice of Sabbath in your own life and what that might look like for you. In This Episode [00:34] – Welcome to another episode of . [01:28] – Bob & Linda introduce themselves. [04:57] – How did you recognize there was a need for Sabbath? [05:57] – Bob talks about how hard it was to take a break for a week the first time. [07:05] – Did it shift something in your soul when you took time off? [09:20] – Bob and Linda explain how they set up and delegate when taking off time. [10:45] – What can someone do if they don’t have the luxury of taking a full month off or even a week off? [13:05] – Linda shares that what you can do is make your time count and be intentional. [14:28] – I read a snippet from . [16:42] – How do you practice Sabbath when you have young kids to take care of? [18:20] – Bob and Linda share what Sunday Family Day looks like. [20:12] – We talk about the advice they would share with a couple who may not be on the same page. [23:40] – The question to ask is, “What does this look like for each person?” [24:12] – How have you invited and talked to your kids about Sabbath? [26:12] – Linda and Bob unpack what it means to live the lifestyle of the Sabbath. [29:19] – We discuss one practical step that you can take to help you rest in Jesus. Links & Resources Links & ResourcesBob & Linda Lotich, Books by Bob Lotich by Crystal Paine (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/23139821

169. Helping our teens deepen their relationship with Jesus (with Angela Perritt) 05/10/2022

169. Helping our teens deepen their relationship with Jesus (with Angela Perritt) I hear from so many moms who ask for suggestions on how to help their teens develop a closer relationship with Jesus. So I'm excited to have Angelia Perritt joining me in the studio for this conversation. She has three daughters and she just released a beautiful new bible called, . In this week's episode, we start by talking about how we can cultivate a relationship with Jesus ourselves as moms. Angela and I discuss some practical ways for us to study the Bible and take what we read and apply it to our daily lives. What if you have questions or doubts? Angela addresses that, too. We then talk more about ways to encourage our teens to trust in God's faithfulness and that following Jesus doesn't mean they'll always get everything right and how we can show grace as they wrestle through what they believe. I especially loved what Angela shared about creating a safe space for our kids in our homes and in our relationships. I hope this episode inspires you with ideas and encouragement. And I'd love to hear what tips or advice you would add! In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [01:12] – Angela shares a little about her background and family and talks about putting together this Bible [05:46] – I think there are so many teens right now who are really questioning the existence of God and also the goodness of God. [06:35] – How do you wrestle with this, with your girls? [09:06] – Could a girl who has no exposure to the Bible pick this one up and understand it? [13:16] – Have you always known how to study scripture? [15:37] – Angela shares how she is instilling the love of God in her home and with her family. [17:31] - Angela gives advice on taking the time to reading God’s word. [21:00] – What encouragement do you have for a mom, who is seeing her teenager struggle? [24:40] – How do you cultivate that safe space? [26:30] – What is the one thing you would want to tell the mom who has heart for God? [29:40] – You can connect with Angela on her website, . Links & Resources Links & Resources Books by Angela Perritt & Thomas Nelson by Crystal Paine (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com Sponsor Spotlight: Do you have kids who love science, technology, or STEM-related activities? If so, you might want to check out — an online program that teaches kids ages 5-9 how to code and use critical thinking skills. is the #1 learn-to-code app, teaching kids the ABCs of coding and basic computer programming skills — all without having to know how to read! Based on research-backed curriculum from MIT and Princeton, this features hundreds of activities and games designed to teach kids the fundamentals of computer science and introduce them to the world of STEM. In additional to learning how to code, this app also teaches basic problem-solving and logical thinking skills, encourages profound creativity, instills persistence and resilience, and boosts confidence in kids. Better yet, the games are so fun to play, most kids won’t even realize they’re learning while playing! When you , you get: Unlimited coding challenges New skills every week Hundreds of educational puzzles Unlimited access to their creativity suite Free CodeSpark Academy 30-Day Trial Right now CodeSpark Academy is offering our readers/listeners an exclusive deal to ! Typically, you only get a free 7-day trial, so this is a really great opportunity for your kids to try it out and see if they like it! Note: When you take advantage of this offer, you’re signing up for auto-renewal at the regular price of $9.99 per month. If you love the program after your free trial, you can continue. If you want to cancel after your free trial, just be sure to cancel the auto-renewal in your account to avoid getting charged. /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/23068397

168. Helping your kids fight less & get along better 05/03/2022

168. Helping your kids fight less & get along better Last week on the podcast, we mentioned our daughters going to prom and how they wanted to go with their dates together. We talked about how their relationship has developed and some of the different seasons they have walked through. A number of people wrote in and asked how our daughters developed such a close relationship. Well, it definitely wasn't always like that! In fact, the girls are SO different than I never, ever expected they'd one day be best friends. For years, they were constantly frustrated and irritated with one another. We asked them for input and thoughts on what made a difference and changed their relationship. In this episode, we shared three keys that Kathrynne shared that she felt were a big part of the change in their relationship. Jesse and I close out this podcast episode with a few more thoughts from our perspective, including loving your kids right where they are at instead of being frustrated at them for not being where you wish they were. We also discuss how important it is to talk positively about them -- not only to them, but to others, as well. In addition to talking about our kids' relationships, I have a book update and we share something fun we've been doing as a family. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [01:45] – I asked for the girls input on deepening their friendships. [02:22] – I have a reading update to share with you. [05:35] – What’s saving our life this week? This week is something fun. [11:38] – How did our daughters become best friends? [12:24] – Don’t force your kids to be best friends. [14:44] – Learn emotional language. [17:29] – When the girls started to learn to say, “When you did that, it made me feel like this”, it changed their relationship. [21:21] – Jesse brings the aspect that may encourage your kids to be friends, if they see that in your marriage. [21:55] – Give it time. [25:57] – How to foster a sense of family togetherness. Links & Resources Links & Resources Books by Dane C. Ortlund by Crystal Paine (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com Sponsor Spotlight: Do you have kids who love science, technology, or STEM-related activities? If so, you might want to check out — an online program that teaches kids ages 5-9 how to code and use critical thinking skills. is the #1 learn-to-code app, teaching kids the ABCs of coding and basic computer programming skills — all without having to know how to read! Based on research-backed curriculum from MIT and Princeton, this features hundreds of activities and games designed to teach kids the fundamentals of computer science and introduce them to the world of STEM. In additional to learning how to code, this app also teaches basic problem-solving and logical thinking skills, encourages profound creativity, instills persistence and resilience, and boosts confidence in kids. Better yet, the games are so fun to play, most kids won’t even realize they’re learning while playing! When you , you get: Unlimited coding challenges New skills every week Hundreds of educational puzzles Unlimited access to their creativity suite Free CodeSpark Academy 30-Day Trial Right now CodeSpark Academy is offering our readers/listeners an exclusive deal to ! Typically, you only get a free 7-day trial, so this is a really great opportunity for your kids to try it out and see if they like it! Note: When you take advantage of this offer, you’re signing up for auto-renewal at the regular price of $9.99 per month. If you love the program after your free trial, you can continue. If you want to cancel after your free trial, just be sure to cancel the auto-renewal in your account to avoid getting charged. /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22990979

167. How I Found Time to Write a Book 04/27/2022

167. How I Found Time to Write a Book Today’s topic is fresh on my mind because I just turned in the second round of edits for the manuscript of my next book. It comes out in early 2023 and I’m so excited about it! In this episode, we “pull back the curtain” on publishing and share what I’ve learned about writing books, the mistakes I’ve made, and how I found time to write this book. Whether you have dreams of writing a book one day, are a published author, or need some inspiration to tackle a big project, I hope you find this episode helpful and encouraging. I share how I approach writing, why an outline is key, how I break the project down into bite-sized pieces, how I use Google calendar to keep me on track, the amount of time I spent on writing each day, and a number of tips that helped me to stay on task and be really thrilled with the (almost) finished product! The strategies I employed to make the time to write this book are ones you could implement with many different big projects — even if you never, ever plan to write a book or truly despise writing. In This Episode [0:35] – I announce that I just turned in the second draft of my new book! [1:16] – Today’s tips can be applied to any large project, not just a book. [2:39] – Our girls had prom last night! We share some of our favorite parts of the experience. [8:19] – I just finished reading by Tori Hope Petersen. [11:20] – I recently got a and totally understand why people love them! [14:40] – Today’s episode is sponsored by . [16:44] – I dive into how I found time to write a book. [19:38] – How a book about time management came to be. [21:50] – One of my biggest time management secrets is streaming and simplifying. [23:54] – I was my own case study about time management while writing this book. [25:52] – How I use Google calendar to keep me on track. [27:34] – Reading the manuscript out loud is one strategy I’ve found to be so helpful. [29:27] – I describe the challenge of writing a book while pregnant. [30:57] – Jesse touches upon why it was easier for me to make changes to this book. [33:26] – I can’t write well for longer than 45 minutes. [35:45] – Jesse offers insight into why my time block method is better than a word count method. Links & Resources Links & Resources Books by Crystal Paine by Tori Hope Petersen by James Clear (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com Sponsor Spotlight: Do you have kids who love science, technology, or STEM-related activities? If so, you might want to check out — an online program that teaches kids ages 5-9 how to code and use critical thinking skills. is the #1 learn-to-code app, teaching kids the ABCs of coding and basic computer programming skills — all without having to know how to read! Based on research-backed curriculum from MIT and Princeton, this features hundreds of activities and games designed to teach kids the fundamentals of computer science and introduce them to the world of STEM. In additional to learning how to code, this app also teaches basic problem-solving and logical thinking skills, encourages profound creativity, instills persistence and resilience, and boosts confidence in kids. Better yet, the games are so fun to play, most kids won’t even realize they’re learning while playing! When you , you get: Unlimited coding challenges New skills every week Hundreds of educational puzzles Unlimited access to their creativity suite Free CodeSpark Academy 30-Day Trial Right now CodeSpark Academy is offering our readers/listeners an exclusive deal to ! Typically, you only get a free 7-day trial, so this is a really great opportunity for your kids to try it out and see if they like it! Note: When you take advantage of this offer, you’re signing up for auto-renewal at the regular price of $9.99 per month. If you love the program after your free trial, you can continue. If you want to cancel after your free trial, just be sure to cancel the auto-renewal in your account to avoid getting charged. /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22932227

166. Raising Teens: Answering your burning questions 04/19/2022

166. Raising Teens: Answering your burning questions I used to be afraid of having teenagers. The thought of raising kids into adulthood felt like such a huge and overwhelming responsibility. I worried I would totally mess things up, miss the mark, and make mistakes. But then Jesus radically transformed my heart. He opened up my eyes to how deeply I am loved by Him and helped me move from chasing after others’ approval to resting in His love — and it changed everything about the way I parent. I don’t have to parent out of fear of the future anymore; I can trust God with tomorrow and live faithfully today — knowing that I will make mistakes, but that’s why there’s Jesus. I don’t have to mother from a place of overwhelm anymore; I can look to God’s spirit Who is in me and ask for His help and strength when I don’t know what to do — and trust Him to help me lean in and love my kids, on the good days and on the hard days. My kids don’t need a mom who is perfect. They need a mom who points them to the only Perfect One — Jesus. Today, I truly love parenting teens — and they bring so much joy and depth and laughter into my life. I can embrace each day as a gift... not because I’ve got it all figured out, but because I can entrust my kids and their lives to the One Who has the whole world in His hands. Motherhood is still hard, but it is also holy and heartwarming and even super hilarious many days. It shines a light on my own need for Jesus like nothing else does... and it also allows me the opportunity to see Him be Enough like nothing else does. In this week's episode of The Crystal Paine Show, Jesse and I sit down and answer your burning questions about raising teenagers. We share lessons we've learned, struggles we've had, challenges we've faced, and things we've learned the hard way -- and what has helped us to build stronger relationships and better communication with our teens. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [00:55] - You all have been asking for more teen-related content and submitted so many great questions! [04:01] - Q: How do you decide when to push your kids versus letting them fail? [07:22] - As much as possible, we try to say yes and we try to keep our no’s to a minimum. [10:48] - There is a fine line between helping and enabling. You don’t want to stand in the way of lessons that need to be learned. [11:57] - Q: At what age did they get a first job for real money, and how to help them do that? [14:23] - Encourage them as soon as they are able to withe gentle nudges. [19:49] - There were a lot of questions about technology and social media, see the show notes for previous podcast episodes. [20:47] - Q: How do you talk to your kids about the birds and the bees? [25:00] - Prepping them and giving them the tools on how to respond in an uncomfortable/awkward situation. [25:46] - Q: How do you deal with teens who don’t want to share with their dad? [26:45] - One of the best things that we did years ago was asking our kids flat out, “What do we do that makes you feel loved? And what do we do that makes you feel unloved?” [28:22] - Parents, pay attention to how much time we are correcting and how much time we are connecting. [31:10] - Be in their world and let them see that you care about them. [34:10]- Being truthful with them about our struggles, and asking for their forgiveness. Links & Resources (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com Sponsor Spotlight: Do you have kids who love science, technology, or STEM-related activities? 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When you , you get: Unlimited coding challenges New skills every week Hundreds of educational puzzles Unlimited access to their creativity suite Free CodeSpark Academy 30-Day Trial Right now CodeSpark Academy is offering our readers/listeners an exclusive deal to ! Typically, you only get a free 7-day trial, so this is a really great opportunity for your kids to try it out and see if they like it! Note: When you take advantage of this offer, you’re signing up for auto-renewal at the regular price of $9.99 per month. If you love the program after your free trial, you can continue. If you want to cancel after your free trial, just be sure to cancel the auto-renewal in your account to avoid getting charged. /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22838111

165. Wisdom from a mom of 14 (with Nicole Homan) 04/12/2022

165. Wisdom from a mom of 14 (with Nicole Homan) “Home is for learning and not for perfection.” In this week's must-listen-to podcast episode, Nicole Homan -- author of -- shares lessons she's learned as the mom of 14 kids. She tells the story of their unexpected journey to growing their family to 16 (14 kids + parents), what it's really like to have such a full house, how she finds time for quiet, mantras that carry her through, the pain of failed adoption, and how to have the courage to say yes to God's call -- even when it completely scares you. This episode is so packed with truth and inspiration. I came away from this interview so encouraged and motivcated as a mom. I think every mom should listen to it (and even if you're not a mom, you'll get a lot from her words of wisdom!) In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [02:01] - Nicole introduces herself. [03:39] - When you first got married, were you planning on having kids right away? [05:50] - Nicole found out she was pregnant right before their first adoption. And their family quickly then grew to 10 -- in unexpected ways. [09:00] - What advice, what encouragement would you have for someone who, they want to step out but fear is holding them back? [11:11] - Were there moments when you were thinking, “what did we say yes to”? [13:13] - What do you do when you feel overwhelmed by the mess and the noise? [15:08] - How do you cultivate stillness in your heart? [16:48] - Nicole shares super practical tips for moms to get quiet time when you have lots of littles. [19:23] - Nicole shares the unexpected story of how they went from 10 children to 14 children. [23:10] - The pain of a failed adoption. [25:05] - If you could go back and talk to yourself 20 years ago, what would you say? Links & Resources Books Other Links Nicole Homan, (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22766348

164. How to Stop Fearing the Future & Live in Hope Today (with Nicole Zasowski) 04/05/2022

164. How to Stop Fearing the Future & Live in Hope Today (with Nicole Zasowski) I found Nicole Zasowski through her book, and it hit me in some really deep places. I didn't expect a book about celebration would have me uncovering such unexpected things I need to process through in my life. In her book and this podcast episode, Nicole shares her story of having five miscarriages and how those struggles caused her to stop hoping and just constantly live in fear and dread of the unknown. She shares candidly what it looked like to lose hope and feel so overwhelmed with discouragement. She then shares practical suggestions for how to pursue joy and find the courage to hope again. Whether you are in a dark pit of despair right now or just would love to experience more joy and celebration and hope in your life, I think this episode will really encourage you! In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [01:28] - I’m just getting to know Nicole Zasowski and I ask her to introduce herself to our audience. [02:03] - I ask Nicole what inspired her to write this book. [04:24] - How did you go about recognizing that you were not allowing yourself to experience joy? [06:00] - I ask Nicole to speak to the woman who is going through a miscarriage or difficult time and feeling without hope. [08:48] - How did you handle the, “everyone else is getting what I want” season? [12:13] - What does it look like, practically, to delight in the present moment [19:18] - The difference between feelings feeling true and being true. [21:29] - How do you live in that moment and see the beauty, when it just feels like you’re in the fog and it's dark? [28:28] - Nicole closes us out by encouraging the woman who wants to find a way to enjoy the here and now. Links & Resources Books by Nicole Zasowski by Nicole Zasowski Other Links Nicole Zasowski on Nicole Zasowski on (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22686788

163. What We Wish We Have Known Before Having Kids 03/29/2022

163. What We Wish We Have Known Before Having Kids If we could go back and tell our 23-year-old and 24-year-old selves something when we had our first child, what would we say? In this episode, we share some candid thoughts on What We Wish We Had Known Before Having Kids. We discuss how I went into parenting thinking I could control our kids and I've had to learn the hard way that I can't control the outcome or choices of our kids -- especially as they are getting older. We also share about how we wish we had known that loving our kids was so much more important (and effective!) than lecturing them. And we close by sharing how we wish we had focused more on building a relationship with our kids from the very beginning and how we had no idea how FUN it would be to have teenagers (contrary to what we thought). I give an update on what is saving my life, and it just happens to be a special moment with one of the kids. I also give an update on the book I am currently listening to. Jesse and I discuss how different it must be to live in certain situations and how to function during difficult times. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [01:10] - I share something special that has been so meaningful to me recently. [03:48] - I am also listening to a really fantastic book right now. [05:47] - It is a quiet unfolding of the story that is really important. [08:53] - Jesse reads the temporary rules in 1941 for the Richmond Golf Club in London England. [11:12] - Sometimes the best thing is, instead of living in fear, put your head down and do the next best thing. [11:55] - What we wish we knew, before having kids; this was a request that came in from someone and she asked if we would talk about it. [13:00] - The biggest thing for me, I wish that I knew ahead of time that I couldn't control them. [14:58] - As parents we would take the responsibility of those bad decisions, when that is not our responsibility to bear as well. [16:04] - I think there’s a fine line balance between recognizing our responsibility but also God's sovereignty. [16:30] - Loving them is more important than lecturing them. [18:06] - The relationship is so much more important than the end result. [20:55] - I wish I had known how much fun they would be and to just enjoy them. [22:18] - Choose your perspective and choose your mindset. Links & Resources Books by Madeline Martin Programs , free public library app Other Links (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22607534

162. Making Time for Romance When You Have Kids 03/22/2022

162. Making Time for Romance When You Have Kids If there was one question we are asked to answer the most often, it's likely, something along the lines of, "How do you prioritize your marriage when you have kids?" In this week's podcast episode, we share some of our best suggestions to make time for romance when you have kids. We share things we have learned, what works for us, and how we've improved our communication over the years. We also talk about some exercise-related things that are saving our lives, what we are currently reading, conspiracy theories, and how I applied something from a book I'm reading to a hard conversation recently. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [02:00] - Jesse tells us what is saving his life and explains some of the exercises. [05:50] - The mystery is solved as to why the treadmill has been moved in some odd way. [06:50] - The weather has been really nice and I have been itching to be outside. [07:55] - I share an update on what I am reading. [09:35] - I received an upset message on instagram from a follower and I shared my honest response. [11:30] - I think so often that people just want to be heard. [12:20] - Jesse has an update on a book that he has been listening to. [15:39] - Let's talk about for romance when you have kids. [16:25] - The number one key to making time for romance is prioritizing it. [17:04] - One of the greatest gifts we can give our kids is a strong marriage. [18:45] - Be intentional; you can’t just assume it will happen without effort and thought. [21:22] - Getting creative with the time and schedule you have. [24:15] - The glue that holds our marriage together is laughter. [26:22] - We love to exercise PDA in front of our kids. [27:20] - We talk a lot. Or maybe Jesse listens and I talk! [30:25] - Learning to communicate about communication has been helpful. [32:27] - Having things that we do just the two of us has been really special. Links & Resources Books edited by Becky Keife by Brant Hansen by Brad Meltzer Special Mentions , free public library app Other Links (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22533419

161. Unexpected Lessons from Down Syndrome 03/15/2022

161. Unexpected Lessons from Down Syndrome A little over a year ago, we started fostering Baby D. In this episode, Jesse and I reflect on what we have learned and how we have grown this past year -- especially as it relates to parenting a child with Down syndrome and special needs. We share things we wish we had known, how our perspective has changed, and how we've seen God's faithfulness over and over again. We talk about the gift that this sweet boy has been in our lives and how he has taught us to slow down, savor life, and celebrate the little things. If you know someone who has a child with special needs, we hope that this episode will give you some insight into how to love them and walk with them better. In addition, Jesse and I talk about how he saved me out of a thunderstorm recently, a simple practice that makes such a difference in my days, some out-of-the-ordinary things our kids have been doing at school, and a book I've been listening to. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [01:40] - It's been a year since we said yes to Baby D! We want to share some of our reflections on this past year. [03:04] - Jesse sort of saved my life this week. [06:50] - It was an interesting week at our kids' school... [08:18] - This simple practice makes such a difference. [12:31] - I have been listening to the new book by Katherine Reay. [15:45] - Reflecting on one year with Baby D. [22:04] - How he has taught us so much about having empathy and compassion. [25:22] - Show value, even if it feels awkward or uncomfortable. [29:10] - Give your kids opportunities to interact with people who are different than them. Links & Resources Books by Katherine Reay by Katherine Reay Programs , free public library app Special Mentions Other Links (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22454003

160. 5 Things I Do Every Morning (Part 2) 03/08/2022

160. 5 Things I Do Every Morning (Part 2) "What does your morning routine look like right now?" "How are you able to fit in the 5 things you do every morning?" We got a number of questions and followup responses to the episode we recorded recently on , so we did a followup episode this week answering your questions and sharing more details on what our morning routine looks like right now. Also on today's episode, I talk about my mixed feelings on a book I finished, Jesse shares about something that he did this past week that really impressed me, and I share about something we've been using for Baby D that has been so helpful! In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [01:25] - What dates look like sometimes at this season of life. [02:54] - Today we are talking about mornings and some follow up questions from a previous podcast episode. [03:33] - I just finished a book that kind of goes along with today's topic. [06:09] - I don’t need the motivation to get more done, I need the reminders to slow down. [07:02] - Jesse did something this past week that really impressed me. [09:44] - It just reminds you of how much we have to be grateful for. [10:38] - I share what has been saving my life. [12:27] - Little things sometimes, that can make a big difference. [15:45] - Let’s talk about what our mornings look like. [16:50] - We have had many different renditions, and just get creative every season. [18:18] - Jesse suggests habit stacking to help set up your routine. [21:46] - But what does it actually look like? [23:42] - It helps that we do this divide and conquer thing. [24:38] - Your nights can set your days up for so much success. A successful day begins the night before. [25:20] - Jesse shares explains why I consider sleeping in until about 6:45 in the morning. [28:20] - This is an easy season for us, but you have to make it work for whatever season you are in. Links & Resources Books by Mark Batterson by Mark Sullivan Special Mentions Pre-Spoon: or , free public library app Other Links (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com Sponsor Spotlight: Do you wish you could pay less for your phone service? Wishing you could figure out how to get access to great service/coverage without having to break the bank? I highly recommend checking out Twigby! is a company dedicated to providing fantastic phone service at great prices and they are the perfect option for budget conscious families because they are so affordable! They also offer great coverage from the nation’s largest and most reliable network (yep — Verizon!) and have many different options for phone plans. Twigby has for just talk and text. And ! Even a cell phone plan with unlimited talk and text and 10 GB of data only costs you $35 per month — which is a lot less than you’ll usually pay! With these kinds of prices, it’s worth checking to see if Twigby might save you money each month on your family cell phone bill — even if you’ve been on a family plan with a provider for a decade! Get this: The average family that switches to Twigby saves $80 on their cell phone bill, which equates to an annual savings of $960! See how much you could save with (click on “compare us” up top!) Want to give Twigby a try? If so, you’ll currently ! Wow!! But that’s not all! On top of this already amazing Twigby discount, when you use code FAMILY at checkout during sign-up! Note: This $15 credit will be applied to your account when you purchase a new phone, get a free SIM card from Twigby with a new service, or bring your own phone to use. Valid through March 31, 2022. (And if you’re not completely satisfied within 30 days of activating your service, you’ll get a full refund!) /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22384757

159. I got caught in the comparison trap! 03/01/2022

159. I got caught in the comparison trap! Recently, I was scrolling on my phone and came across the social media account of someone I used to follow years ago. They are in a similar niche as me and back when I followed them, they had a lot fewer followers than me. But in the last few years, their account has clearly blown up and they had hundreds of thousands more followers than me. Plus, as I was scrolling through their account, I saw that they had super high engagement numbers and interaction. Instead of being immediately excited for them, I confess I started thinking about how I’m really dropping the ball in being strategic and creative in what I’m posting & that I need to step up my game so I can be growing more online and seeing more engagement like this other person. And then it hit me: God has called me to be building into and growing other things the past few years — my home, growing as a person, nurturing and loving on the people in my home (and even growing tiny humans!) I might not have seen a huge increase in followers the past few years, but I’ve spent hours and hours rocking little babies and speaking life to them... and that is very important work. I might not have seen the crazy engagement numbers that other people have, but I’ve spent the last few years building deep relationships with my older kids and loving two birth mamas and their babies... and that is very important work. The work that God has called me to right now might not be measurable in numbers that society and experts would consider important (such as accolades, income, awards, product sales, follower count, etc.)... but it matters far more than any of those measurable numbers. No matter what we’re doing (or not doing), it’s easy to look around and compare our lives to others. But God hasn’t called you or me to her life. He’s called us to our life. We’re not supposed to do what she’s doing. We’re called to be faithful where God has us — even if no one sees or notices or thanks us. He sees. He notices. That’s what matters. All the awards and applause and accolades, all the numbers and name recognition, all the income and opportunities in the world... they don’t hold a candle to faithfulness. In this episode, we also share about books we're reading, a Spotify playlist I've been loving, and a meal-service we've been loving. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [01:15] - We talk about books we're reading and one I recently read that I just don't know what I think of it. [06:44] - A Spotify playlist I recently put together with Truths to Remember. [09:30] - Switching to Spotify and listening to podcasts has freed up a lot of Jesse’s phone space. [10:17] - Jesse shares about a meal service he's been enjoying. [16:13] - My experience with comparison. [17:58] - I should have been excited and celebrating this person's success, instead I went to a negative space. [20:43] - It was just such a reminder to me that no matter what we're doing, or not doing, it’s easy to look around and compare our lives to others. [22:30] - A seemingly small thing done in love, faithfulness, and consistency -- it's not small! Links & Resources Books by Kate Moore by Kate Moore by Vince Flynn Special Mentions , Spotify Playlist , meal plans (use coupon code MSM to save 20% off your first order) , free public library app Other Links (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com Sponsor Spotlight: Do you wish you could pay less for your phone service? Wishing you could figure out how to get access to great service/coverage without having to break the bank? 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But that’s not all! On top of this already amazing Twigby discount, when you use code FAMILY at checkout during sign-up! Note: This $15 credit will be applied to your account when you purchase a new phone, get a free SIM card from Twigby with a new service, or bring your own phone to use. Valid through March 31, 2022. (And if you’re not completely satisfied within 30 days of activating your service, you’ll get a full refund!) /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22296962

158. When you feel hurt and offended... 02/22/2022

158. When you feel hurt and offended... Have you noticed how in this modern age of social media, people are so easily hurt, upset, and offended? I know that I’ve fallen prey to knee jerk reactions when scrolling online. In this episode, Jesse and I talk about this book I’m reading by Brant Hansen called Hansen challenges us to ask the question, “How would it change my life if I chose not to be offended by others?” Some of you may be thinking, “But how do I even do that? You don’t know what this person has done or said (or not done or not said).” I don’t, but I do know this: We get to choose how we respond. We can’t choose how other people treat us or respond to us or what they say to us or do to us, but we can choose our response. This doesn’t mean that we let people walk all over us or that we don’t set boundaries, but it does mean that we can choose to either be a victim or a victor. We can choose to either be offended and hurt and upset, or we can acknowledge our feelings, grieve our loss, and choose to forgive. In this episode, we dive into this topic + we talk about Silas’ recent Science Fair, an early preschool curriculum we started with Kierstyn and are loving, and what’s saving our lives. In This Episode [00:34] – Welcome to another episode of . [01:03] – Today is the first time we have recorded a podcast — in PJs! [05:58] – Speaking of PJ’s, we are excited to finally be sleeping through the night again! [08:07] – But that has come with some crazy dreams for me. [10:11] – What’s saving our life. [11:31] – Yesterday we made , if you haven’t done that with your kids it is so much fun. [12:28] – We have been getting a lot of kind feedback from our audience. [12:54] – I read a couple of notes from our audience. [15:50] – There are no perfect families, no perfect parents, and no perfect children. [16:29] – Sponsored Ad: [18:46] – Today’s topic is inspired by Brant Hansen’s book, . [20:47] – Years and years of being on the internet has confirmed this: it’s hard to say anything without offending someone. [22:41] – I feel like there is some much that we can learn from people on the internet. But it’s so easy for a little thing to turn into a really big thing. [25:43] – We get to choose how we respond. [27:58] – It’s okay to acknowledge anger, but it’s what we do with it. [28:08] – Before rashly reacting, stop… take a breath, and really ask God to help us love others well. [31:31] – Jesse shares a concept about backing away from an issue when you have an immediate emotional response. Links & Resources Books by Brant Hansen Special Mentions , preschool curriculum Other Links (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com Sponsor Spotlight: Do you wish you could pay less for your phone service? Wishing you could figure out how to get access to great service/coverage without having to break the bank? I highly recommend checking out Twigby! is a company dedicated to providing fantastic phone service at great prices and they are the perfect option for budget conscious families because they are so affordable! They also offer great coverage from the nation’s largest and most reliable network (yep — Verizon!) and have many different options for phone plans. Twigby has for just talk and text. And ! Even a cell phone plan with unlimited talk and text and 10 GB of data only costs you $35 per month — which is a lot less than you’ll usually pay! With these kinds of prices, it’s worth checking to see if Twigby might save you money each month on your family cell phone bill — even if you’ve been on a family plan with a provider for a decade! Get this: The average family that switches to Twigby saves $80 on their cell phone bill, which equates to an annual savings of $960! See how much you could save with (click on “compare us” up top!) Want to give Twigby a try? If so, you’ll currently ! Wow!! But that’s not all! On top of this already amazing Twigby discount, when you use code FAMILY at checkout during sign-up! Note: This $15 credit will be applied to your account when you purchase a new phone, get a free SIM card from Twigby with a new service, or bring your own phone to use. Valid through March 31, 2022. (And if you’re not completely satisfied within 30 days of activating your service, you’ll get a full refund!) /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22215986

157. Why Your Prayers Might Not Be Answered 02/15/2022

157. Why Your Prayers Might Not Be Answered I recently in answer to a woman's question about praying to change her husband. I got so many responses from what I shared and many followup questions, that I wanted to focus this podcast episode on that topic. First off, I think we often have a false sense of what prayer is. It's not about bringing our laundry list of things we want changed and fixed to God; it's about a relationship with Him. It's about releasing our desire to control and micromanage life and give it to our Heavenly Father and entrusting our struggles and stresses to Him. Ultimately, prayer isn't about changing and fixing other people or situations; it's about changing us. I love this quote by Mark Batterson (above) that I recently read in his book, . In this week's podcast episode, we dive more into what prayer is, what it looks like, and why your prayers might not be getting answered (or maybe they are, but you just don't realize it!). In addition, Jesse and I update you on his anniversary gift that finally arrived, I share two things that are saving my life, we talk about caffeine and teens, and I share about a book I recently finished reading with Kierstyn. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [00:48] - Jesse and I talk about decaf coffee and caffeine... and teens! [02:34] - I introduce today’s topic: prayer. [03:03] - The thing that everyone is asking about: did Jesse get his anniversary gift? [04:05] - I share how peanut butter and jelly is saving my life. [06:57] - We're loving the Water Wow books by Melissa and Doug! [08:31] - I have a book update for the young kids. [10:54] - This week's podcast sponsor: [12:48] - Let’s talk about prayer and what inspired this topic. [13:38] - I don’t believe the purpose of prayer is about changing our circumstances or changing people in our life. [14:44] - We think of answered prayer as in “we got the thing that we wanted, we got the outcome that we wanted”. But "no" or "wait", is also an answer. [15:29] - I read a quote from the book by Mark Batterson. [18:31] - I have really been convicted about how I pray for other people. [20:00] - Sometimes God doesn’t answer the prayer in the way we want Him to because He has plans for us years and years down the road. [21:10] - Why are we praying what we’re praying? So often when I pray now, I am not praying for an end result. I am praying for right here and now. [23:58] - Prayer is one side of a two-sided conversation. View it as a conversation and this can change the way you approach it. Links & Resources Books by Sally Lloyd-Jones by Mark Batterson Special Mentions by Melissa and Doug Other Links (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com Sponsor Spotlight: Do you wish you could pay less for your phone service? Wishing you could figure out how to get access to great service/coverage without having to break the bank? I highly recommend checking out Twigby! is a company dedicated to providing fantastic phone service at great prices and they are the perfect option for budget conscious families because they are so affordable! They also offer great coverage from the nation’s largest and most reliable network (yep — Verizon!) and have many different options for phone plans. Twigby has for just talk and text. And ! Even a cell phone plan with unlimited talk and text and 10 GB of data only costs you $35 per month — which is a lot less than you’ll usually pay! With these kinds of prices, it’s worth checking to see if Twigby might save you money each month on your family cell phone bill — even if you’ve been on a family plan with a provider for a decade! Get this: The average family that switches to Twigby saves $80 on their cell phone bill, which equates to an annual savings of $960! See how much you could save with (click on “compare us” up top!) Want to give Twigby a try? If so, you’ll currently ! Wow!! But that’s not all! On top of this already amazing Twigby discount, when you use code FAMILY at checkout during sign-up! Note: This $15 credit will be applied to your account when you purchase a new phone, get a free SIM card from Twigby with a new service, or bring your own phone to use. Valid through March 31, 2022. (And if you’re not completely satisfied within 30 days of activating your service, you’ll get a full refund!) /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22140215

156. A Different Perspective on Foster Care (with Jamie Finn) 02/08/2022

156. A Different Perspective on Foster Care (with Jamie Finn) I first found when we were beginning our foster care journey. As I started watching her stories and reading her posts, God used her words to really change my heart and perspective on foster care. When we started fostering, I was really focused on helping kids and I honestly had a critical attitude toward birth parents. But Jamie's words convicted me that I needed a heart change. A Gospel-centered approach to fostering wasn't about rescuing children but about walking alongside families with the ultimate goal of restoration. It was such an honor to get to meet Jamie in person recently and record a podcast interview with her. In this episode, Jamie shares her a different perspective on foster care than you often hear -- one that is focused on families, not just children. She also shares very practical encouragement for stepping out and saying yes -- to anything in your life that might scare you. she shares the lessons she's learned and how God has changed her heart over the years. Plus, she gives fantastic advice for those who feel like they can't foster but they want to be involved in some way. Whether you are a long-time foster family, someone just considering fostering, or someone who has no interest in fostering at all, I think this episode will encourage you in surprising ways. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . I am honored to have Jamie Finn in the studio today. [02:37] - A little introduction for Jamie. [04:13] - "I really appreciate that you don’t sugarcoat things. You share the beautiful and the brutal.' [05:35] - Do you feel like you have had a shift in your viewpoint of what foster care is? [07:54] - I hear from many people, “We’re interested in foster care but we’re afraid of how it will affect our family.” Have you ever had those feelings? [09:39] - How do you respond when someone’s like, “I can never do this, but that’s amazing what you’re doing”? [12:08] - How do you even know when to take that first step? [14:28] - What can we practically do? Where do we start? [19:47] - Could you talk about just some of the really hard things that you have walked through? [22:56] - If you could go back 8+ years as a brand new foster parent and talk to that woman, what would you say to her? [25:41] - What is foster care from a Gospel-centered perspective? [26:41] - I share what I love and recommend Jamie Finn’s new book, . [28:56] - What do you say to that person who feels like, “Is God still good, even when this feels so hard”? Links & Resources Books by Jamie Finn Other Links (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/22060682

155. 3 Questions to Ask When Your Child is Frustrated 02/01/2022

155. 3 Questions to Ask When Your Child is Frustrated One of the kids woke up really frustrated recently. In all honesty, I wanted to respond back in frustration... because it felt like a really “silly” thing for them to be upset by. But if I’ve learned anything in over 17 years of mothering, it’s this: responding in frustrating to a child who is frustrated never ends well. Just trust me on this. So instead, I took a deep breath, leaned on the Holy Spirit, and asked them to share what was wrong. They had a lot to vent out right then & I purposely just listened. I wanted to try to come up with some quick fixes or solutions, but I could tell that’s not what they needed. They just needed a listening ear that said: “I care. You are valued. What matters to you, matters to me.” After they had poured out their big feelings, I asked how I could help. There wasn’t much I could do, but I could tell that just that simple question brought some relief to them. It communicated that they weren’t alone. That I was *with* them. That they didn’t have to shoulder this all on their own. And then I asked them what they could do about it. Instead of me trying to swoop in and fix things, I wanted to let them process through what they were feeling and come up with next steps. We didn’t tie everything up with a neat bow, but my posture of leaning in and loving and seeking to walk beside de-escalated the situation so that by the time they walked out the door to leave for school, they were feeling much calmer and less stressed. Mamas: we set the tone for our home. We can’t fix all our kids’ struggles. We can’t solve all our kids’ problems, but we can walk with them. We can communicate to them, “I’m here. I love you. I’m FOR you. And I’m not going anywhere.” There might need to be some hard conversations or consequences or addressing heart issues in days to come — after a child/teen is in a better headspace — but in the moment when our kids are feeling overwhelmed & frustrated, they just need to know we are there. They don’t need our lectures; they just need our presence. “What’s wrong?” “How can I help?” These two questions and the willingness to listen well can make a huge difference in our relationship with our kids. In this episode, Jesse and I share more about how to respond when our kids (or anyone in our life!) is frustrated. Plus, I share a crazy travel story from my recent trip, and we talk about books and reading. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [01:15] - What to do when your child is frustrated. [02:00] - I have a travel "horror" story to share today. [04:02] - While I was stuck in Charlotte for four hours, my phone was starting to run out of battery. [07:46] - Word to the wise: if there is wet carpet in the airport don’t assume that it’s water spilled. [08:41] - What I recently finished listening to. [09:57] - A letter from a listener about Jesse’s advice on reading. [12:05] - Are you making progress over who you were yesterday? [12:35] - Jesse shares his book update. [13:49] - How to help a child who is frustrated... [16:02] - Ever been frustrated at someone for being frustrated (oh! the irony!) [17:52] - Instead, stepping back and asking for God’s help [19:13] - Question #1: “What is wrong?” [21:23] - Question #2: “How can I help you?” [22:39] - Question #3: “What can you do about it?” [23:53] - Practice the art of asking questions versus telling someone how they should feel or respond. Links & Resources Books by Francine Rivers Other Links (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/21990272

154. 5 Things I Do Every Morning 01/25/2022

154. 5 Things I Do Every Morning What is one thing you do every morning to start your day well? How you begin your days sets up the foundation for how you live your life. Here are 5 things I do every morning to start my day with intention: 1. Create a simple plan — I . (If that feels like a lot, you could just do 3-5 things you want to accomplish in order of priority.) Making a plan helps me live with much more focus and use my time well. 2. Write down blessings — I take a minute every morning to jot down a few lines of things I’m grateful for from the past 24 hours. Gratitude reframes my perspective. 3. Get my heart pumping — I walk on the treadmill for 25-30 minutes. While walking, I read a few chapters from an encouraging book, think, and pray (see ). This jump-starts my energy and settles my soul. 4. Pray over my day — while on the treadmill, I pray through the details of my day, handing the known and unknown over to the Lord, asking for His help, for His love to flow through me, for patience, kindness, wisdom, and for any specific areas where my heart is feeling weary or heavy. 5. — taking a little time to shower, dress in clothes that I love, fix my hair, and do my makeup gives my energy and helps me feel more cheerful and productive (I can’t really explain it, but it works!) What about YOU? What’s one thing you do every morning to start your day well? Tell us in the comments! Jesse and I discuss these 5 things more in-depth on this week's episode of The Crystal Paine Show. We also talk about what is saving our lives, an update on our reading, reminisce about how I used to try to read while mowing the lawn, and more! Listen to it a the link above or wherever you listen to your podcasts. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . Today’s topic is about mornings. [01:26] - Let's talk about what is saving our life: hot water. [03:20] - There’s nothing like ice cold water. [05:25] - I share something that has been really helpful for me, especially with pregnancy. [07:58] - Jesse has been reading 20 minutes everyday. [09:54] - I date myself as we reminisce when I listened to cassette tapes books when I mowed the lawn. [11:08] - I share the book that I finished reading. [14:24] - I read an email from one of our listeners, Tiffany. [17:07] - So let’s talk about mornings, here are the five things I do [17:23] - First, I create a simple plan. [19:50] - Then, I write down my blessings. [21:48] - Next, I get my heart pumping. [25:05] - And while I'm doing that, I pray over my day. [27:00] - Jesse talks about how little things can be big wins and shares one of his accomplishments. [28:24] - Finally, I dress for the day I want to have. [30:45] - Recap of my morning routine and we would love to hear what your routine is if you have one. Links & Resources Books by Nicole M. Homan Special Mentions Other Links (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/21888416

153. 8 Ways I Simplify My Life 01/18/2022

153. 8 Ways I Simplify My Life It’s so easy to over-complicate life. To completely miss simple solutions because they are, well, just too easy! Now, hear me out: I’m not saying you should be lazy or lax. What I am saying is that there’s no point in wasting a lot of time and energy on making life more complicated or difficult than it needs to be. The more we pare down to what matters most, the more time we have to intentionally invest in what’s important. Two questions I ask regularly as I come up against a problem or just go throughout normal life are: 1. How can I make this easier? 2. What can I do to simplify this? I firmly believe that simplicity is a superpower. And while I have always focused on keeping things simple, the last three years of two pregnancies and fostering two other babies has caused me to simplify even more! In this episode, I share 8 ways I simplify my life. Jesse and I also talk about a favorite TV show, a documentary we're watching, what we're reading, and what's saving our lives. In This Episode [00:34] - Welcome to another episode of . [01:45] - It has been an eventful week, with a pretty significant amount of snow. [02:45] - One of our favorite shows on TV has returned. [03:43] - We talk about a documentary that Jesse and I are watching. [06:54] - What has been saving my life for some time now. [08:00] - Jesse jokes about what is saving his life. [09:21] - I finished an audible book that was recommended by a listener. [13:15] - Let's talk about simplifying our lives instead of over-complicating them. Here are 8 ways I do this... [13:24] - I wear the same outfit over and over again. [14:09] - My make-up and hair routine. [16:00] - We keep meals really simple. [16:42] - We don’t have many toys. [17:55] - We have the older kids be in charge of many aspects of their lives. [20:33] - We have a donation bin. [21:18] - I avoid work related meetings and phone calls. [22:37] - Systems for organizing emails and piles of paper. [23:40] - Some of these may not work for you but I want to challenge you: how can you simplify? Links & Resources Books by Christina Suzann Nelson Special Mentions Links for Simplifying Your Life Other Links (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com /episode/index/show/thecrystalpaineshow/id/21810011

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