130 Listen Analytically & Don’t Be Fooled - Dianna Booher
Release Date: 12/04/2018
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info_outlineCommunication, Listening, Relationships, Business, Persuasion
Summary
Don’t allow yourself to make decisions out of another person’s frame. We’ll look at that in our Thought of the Day. And in our interview segment, award-winning author and master communicator Dianna Booher shares how to listen analytically to persuasive appeals … and NOT be tricked. That and more on today’s show.
Bob's Thought of the Day
We’ll explore:
- The value of setting a frame of kindness, cooperation, win/win, and benevolence.
- An example of a presenter setting a frame that was questionable.
- A key principle: when someone states something as fact, and in such a way that you suddenly feel compelled to believe it, consider whether or not they might have an agenda.
Interview with Dianna Booher
You’ll discover:
- Why all our relationships in life are based on our conversations, stacked end to end.
- Why it is harder to tell when advertisers are not being truthful with us today.
- The difference between listening empathetically and listening analytically.
- Examples of “word tarnishing” and labels that stick.
- The importance of listening to the other side of an issue or argument.
Fundamentals You Can Apply in Order to Think Analytically and Productively.
#1 Overcome your OWN personal biases in order to gather some insight
#2 Beware the Bandwagon
#3 All-or-Nothing
#4 The Generalization
#5 Like One, Like ‘Em All
#6 Word Tarnishing
#7 Card Stacking
#8 Evangelism
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Interview Links
Communicate Like a Leader: Connecting Strategically to Coach, Inspire, and Get Things Done by Dianna Booher
What MORE Can I Say? Why Communication Fails and What to Do About It by Dianna Booher
Creating Personal Presence: Look, Talk, Think, and Act Like a Leader by Dianna Booher
Communicate With Confidence: How to Say It Right the First Time and Every Time by Dianna Booher
Speak With Confidence: Power Presentations That Inform, Inspire, and Persuade by Dianna Booher
Booher’s Rules of Business Grammar: The 101 Most Common Errors and How to Correct Them by Dianna Booher
How to Listen Analytically to Persuasive Appeals –And Not Be Tricked! by Dianna Booher
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