Ep. 74 Living Alcohol-Free: 10 Things We Wish Someone Had Told Us About The First Year
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
Release Date: 04/29/2024
Ep. 76 Redeeming Hope: Overcoming Alcohol and Postpartum Rage with Rina Bowring
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
Join us for a deeply moving episode as we welcome our dear friend Rina Bowring to the podcast. As a fellow alcohol-freedom coach, Rina brings a wealth of wisdom and vulnerability to our conversation, sharing her unique journey of overcoming alcohol addiction and postpartum rage. Rina recounts her early struggles with alcohol, using it to feel liberated and accepted. However, as she transitioned into motherhood, her relationship with alcohol spiraled into a destructive cycle, prompting her to confront the harsh reality of her addiction. With unwavering determination, Rina embarked on a...
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Ep. 75 Embracing Suffering, Building Hope: Where Neuroscience and the Bible Intersect with Special Guest, Dr. Curt Thompson
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
In this episode, we are honored and humbled to present our conversation with psychiatrist, speaker and author Dr. Curt Thompson. Known around BJDW as, “the teacher Meade is most-likely to reference on the podcast for the depth and breadth of the impact his work has had on her life,” Curt, connects our intrinsic desire to be known with the need to tell truer stories about ourselves — showing us how to form deep relationships, discover meaning and live integrated creative lives. Join us for a profound exploration of the intersection between neuroscience and the biblical...
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Ep. 74 Living Alcohol-Free: 10 Things We Wish Someone Had Told Us About The First Year
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
We hear you, our dear readers, that our list episodes are among your favorites and they happen to be favorites of ours too. For today’s insightful conversation, we are diving deep into the transformative journey of living alcohol-free, sharing our lists of the ten invaluable lessons we wish we’d known in our first year of “sobriety.” 1. Friendship Shuffle: We candidly explore the challenges and blessings of reshaping friendships and social circles after embracing sobriety, highlighting the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals. 2. Temporary Nature...
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Ep. 73 Peace Amidst Chaos: Unpacking 'The Gospel of John' with Melissa Spoelstra
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
We are thrilled to announce our very first BJDW Community book, "The Gospel of John: Savoring the Peace of Jesus in a Chaotic World." To kick off this exciting venture, we've invited the brilliant author Melissa Spoelstra to join us on the podcast, where she shares her wisdom on how we can learn more about anchoring ourselves in peace amidst life's chaos. Together, we explore the rich tapestry of John's gospel, delving into its profound significance and uncovering hidden treasures within its pages. We look closer at the transformative narrative of the wedding at Cana,...
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Ep. 72 Broken Crayons Still Color with Toni Collier
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
This week’s episode is a heart-to-heart with the inspiring Toni Collier, founder of Broken Crayons Still Color, a global women's organization dedicated to guiding individuals through brokenness toward healing and hope. Toni is a seasoned speaker, podcast host, and author who shares her profound insights on navigating life's challenges with grace and resilience. In our chat, Toni gets real about the struggles we all face. She dives into the truth that hiding our pain only prolongs our healing journey, stressing the importance of opening up and finding support in our communities. Toni...
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Ep. 71 Celebrating Booze-Free Firsts: The Power of Presence & Connection
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
In this episode we dive into the realm of alcohol-free experiences, sharing personal anecdotes and insights into navigating various social situations sans alcohol. We talk about the many milestone alcohol-free firsts, such as date nights, weddings, birthdays, sporting events, vacations, concerts, and theater/ballet performances. We discuss the joys and benefits of alcohol-free date nights, highlighting enhanced connection and presence. We share our experiences attending weddings without alcohol, focusing on celebration and connection over intoxication. From intimate...
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Ep. 70 Free of Me: Discovering Liberation from Self-Preoccupation with Sharon Hodde Miller
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
From the moment we cracked open the pages of her book, “Free Of Me, Why Life Is Better When It's Not About You,” we knew we needed Sharon Hodde Miller's wisdom on this pod, and we're incredibly grateful she accepted our invitation. In a world saturated with the "me" mentality, Sharon shines a light on the pervasive impact of self-centeredness across every facet of our lives. It's a message that infiltrates our friendships, marriages, and even our faith, fracturing each in unique yet profound ways. Pursuing self-improvement often leaves us joyless, our souls diminished, trapped in the...
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Ep. 69 Drinking in Secret | Conversations on the Unseen Pour and Spiritual Growth
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
Today, we delve into the complex dynamics of secret drinking, shedding light on the underlying desires for relief and connection in the face of life’s demands. Together we share our experiences of feeling constantly needed by others yet yearning for moments of solace and self-reconnection. Through our reflections, we highlight the transformative power of curiosity and self-compassion in navigating the journey toward freedom from hidden struggles. Meade vulnerably shares her struggle with constantly feeling needed by others, highlighting the desire for moments of solace and...
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Ep. 68 The Bob Goff Effect: Tapping into a Spirit-Filled Life
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
Get ready for an incredible episode as we sit down with the one and only Bob Goff, a true inspiration in living life to the fullest. Bob, the adventurous soul behind “Love Does,” “Everybody Always,” and “Undistracted," joins us to share his wisdom on embracing the journey, dreaming big, and showing yourself some grace along the way. Get ready to be uplifted, inspired, and ready to tackle your dreams head-on! In this heartfelt conversation, Bob encourages us to take that first step, even if we're not fully equipped. With personal anecdotes from his adventures, he...
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Ep. 67 Connections Beyond Cocktails: Nurturing Meaningful Friendships in an Alcohol-Free World
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
Fresh off of Meade’s in-person Atlanta AF (alcohol-free) gals meet-up, we are talking all about the transformative power of meaningful connections. Providing avenues for support and camaraderie, both in-person meetups and online communities can foster meaningful connections. We discuss how prayer serves as a valuable tool in both finding and nurturing friendships, guiding individuals towards like-minded relationships and strengthening existing bonds. Being genuine and true to oneself is paramount in attracting compatible friends and cultivating deep, meaningful relationships. We expand on...
info_outlineWe hear you, our dear readers, that our list episodes are among your favorites and they happen to be favorites of ours too. For today’s insightful conversation, we are diving deep into the transformative journey of living alcohol-free, sharing our lists of the ten invaluable lessons we wish we’d known in our first year of “sobriety.”
1. Friendship Shuffle: We candidly explore the challenges and blessings of reshaping friendships and social circles after embracing sobriety, highlighting the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals.
2. Temporary Nature of Cravings: We discuss the temporary nature of cravings and discomfort in the initial stages of sobriety, emphasizing that these feelings do pass and are worth enduring for the long-term benefits.
3. Embracing Emotions: We underscore the importance of allowing oneself to feel emotions fully, recognizing that numbing feelings with alcohol only delays true healing and growth.
4. Understanding Moderation: We share insights into the realization that even those who appear to moderate their alcohol consumption may be struggling internally, challenging common perceptions of moderation.
5. Heightened Awareness and Appreciation: We reflect on how sobriety brings about a heightened awareness and appreciation for life's simple joys, fostering a deeper connection with oneself and the world around them.
6. Impact on Children: We discuss the profound impact of our choices on our children, inspiring us to lead by example and prioritize health and well-being.
7. Absence of Desire: We discuss the eventual absence of desire for alcohol, highlighting the freedom and empowerment that come with breaking free from dependency.
8. Expanding Lives: We share how their lives have expanded and become more fulfilling without alcohol, embracing new opportunities and experiences with open arms.
9. Importance of Vulnerability and Connection: We emphasize the power of vulnerability and connection in the journey of sobriety, advocating for honest communication and support networks.
10. Navigating Relationships: We also touch on the challenges of navigating relationships with partners who still drink, offering insights on fostering understanding and compromise.
We hope to encourage you to approach sobriety with openness and curiosity, embracing the transformative possibilities of an alcohol-free life. Through our shared experiences and wisdom, we hope to inspire others to embark on their own journey towards a healthier, more fulfilling lifestyle.
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00:00 Introduction to the Podcast: Exploring Freedom from Alcohol
01:08 Diving into the 10 Things I Wish I Knew in My First Year Alcohol-Free
02:10 The Friendship Shuffle: Navigating Relationships in Sobriety
06:44 Embracing the Challenges and Joys of Sobriety
10:35 The Transformative Power of Sobriety on Perception and Relationships
13:32 Moderation Myths and the Journey to True Freedom from Alcohol
18:20 Feeling More Alive: The Emotional Awakening of Sobriety
21:56 The Observant Eyes of Children: Learning and Growing Together
24:52 Embracing Vulnerability and Connection in Sobriety
26:01 The Surprising Space and Time Sobriety Unlocks
27:54 Expanding Your World Beyond Alcohol
31:38 The Transformative Power of Sobriety on Personal Growth
35:49 Navigating Relationships in Sobriety
37:50 Finding Ease and Joy in a Sober Life
40:41 The Struggle with Sobriety: A Path to Learning and Growth
45:43 Closing Thoughts: The Journey of Sobriety
The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.
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