Ep 134 Safe to Love Again with Dr. Gary Salyer

Safe to Love Again

Divorce is expensive and life altering. It's important we spend time and effort making sure our relationships with our spouse are growing and improving. What do you do each weak to improve your relationships? Listen in as Dr. Salyer shares his expertise in how to create lasting love. 

 

Take away: Our beliefs are created in childhood and we may need to go back and reprogram them. 

 

Action step: Ways I can notice I am worthy of love.

 

Money Learnings: There was a time in Gary's childhood when they were homeless. His mom offered him money to take out the trash, but she never paid him. That taught him that money was never going to show up. 

 

Bio: After Dr. Gary Salyer’s first divorce, he vowed that his next marriage would be different. So when his second marriage crumbled almost a decade later for nearly the same reasons he was devastated. He felt like an utter, complete failure.

 

But rather than give in, he was determined to find another way. He committed to not being that guy who bounced from marriage to marriage, never really learning anything. So he dedicated himself to doing the deep research about all things love. He read, researched, furthered his education in the field, talked to experts and to people he loved. Most of all he did the deep transformation work that unlocked his heart and released his soul to love as he had always imagined.

 

Love — and how to make it lasting – became his life’s highest calling—not just for himself, but others. In so doing, he has developed a powerful and effective methodology to make it “Safe to Love Again” for those who may have even given up hope.

 

Because of his innovative new approach that rewires brains for secure love, singles and couples experience deep, lasting shifts that happen in easy, natural ways. Therapists are even saying his new approach will ‘change the way therapists do therapy.’

 

The author of Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve, Dr. Salyer also offers experiential, interactive programs through his Safe to Love Again™ Workshop, and Extraordinary Couples™ and Extraordinary Singles™ Retreats. He is also a highly sought after guest on various podcasts, TV and radio shows such as The Aware Show on Hay House Radio and Coast to Coast AM.

 

Highlights from this episode: Link to the episode page

 

• How money helps Gary get his soul's message out. 
• The test that predicted his divorce.
• Our childhood security beliefs cause issues in adult life.
• How to upgrade our thought patterns. 
• Attachment theory.
• The book - Safe to Love Again
• The story of Paul and why he got divorced.
• Creating a secure base in our children. 
• Daniel's story of being cut off. 
• Stephanie's story of how her love life and business life were tied together. 
• How do we learn to love and to be loved?
• The questions to ask your significant other every week. 
• How do we transform ourselves?

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