Ep25: Handling Disappointment - You can't always get want you want...
Release Date: 11/13/2020
Feel the fear and retire anyway! How exactly did Mark Curtis retire before 50?
Leadership & Life Chat
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In this episode, Garath Symonds, the founder of Reconnect Coaching, joins Mark and Becky to discuss his upcoming book, ‘The Anxious Leader’. They explore how anxiety impacts decision-making and leadership, the importance of rational thinking and ego reflection, as well as strategies for tolerating anxiety as opposed to rejecting it. They delve into the role of meditation and self-reflection for leaders, along with managing trauma's impact and the importance of vulnerability and psychological safety in top level roles, and ultimately, embracing life’s lessons. Tune in for fascinating...
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S8 Ep1 - It doesn’t have to be lonely at the top – with campaigner and award-winning leader, Nick Jonsson
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You might not think this topic applies to you – but it’s a conversation that might be important for someone you love. TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains mention of drug addiction, depression and suicide We open the LAST EVER series of the podcast with Mark and Becky chatting to Nick Jonsson in one of our most frank, honest and powerful episodes surrounding the often brutal reality of leadership and its toll. Nick opens up about his personal journey with executive loneliness and his own ‘rock bottom’, what led him to seek help, and his path to creating a safe space for...
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S7 E5. If music be the food of success, rock on?
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S7 E4. How not to be a bad boss, with coach and TEDx speaker Rob Kalwarowsky
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S7 E3. Chaos, in theory?
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In this episode we talk all things chaos theory. No, not the ‘interdisciplinary area of scientific study and branch of mathematics focused on underlying patterns and deterministic laws of dynamical systems that are highly sensitive to initial conditions’ (thanks Wikipedia). Rather, how our unpredictable behaviour can impact our work and those around us. Mark and Becky discuss how there’s a difference between chaotic and energetic, how the differences impact our productivity, and how the pros and cons of what can be perceived as chaos in the workplace impact our relationships. GET...
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S7 E2. What’s in your stress bucket? With solution-focused psychotherapist, Gin Lalli
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Psychotherapist, Gin Lalli, supports people in finding practical solutions for mental fitness when feeling out of control, and how to avoid negative thinking with the aim of limiting your stress. Stress is a consequence of negative thinking, and the responses come from the part of your brain that is designed to keep you safe – they were vital for survival in caveman days, but we don’t need them daily in 2024. We can retrain our brains to understand that thoughts and internal chatter are NOT facts. It takes time and commitment, but it is possible. Gin outlines the scientific role sleep...
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S7 E1. Should leaders be ruthless or rigorous? Examining the work of Jim Collins
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We are back for series 7! Loyal listeners will know that Mark and Becky are huge fans of Jim Collins, so they decided it was time to dive deep into his work, and look at the seven key questions he claims all leaders need to ask themselves. They outline how each question can help with recruitment and retaining our talented people! Jim once said leaders should be “rigorous, not ruthless.” Can this really be applied to success? GET IN TOUCH! We would love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode, email us at . We’d also love it if you could rate us 5 STARS on Apple...
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S6 E6. Silence your inner critic with coach Kamini Wood
Leadership & Life Chat
Do you think you’ve grown as a person, or as a leader, or have you allowed your challenges or failures to hold you back? Human Potential Coach Kamini Wood is passionate about helping people to understand their worth and grow their personal and professional paths, or as she puts it, “I mess with how people think!” Do you ever feel like you don’t belong? You don’t fit in? What do you allow your inner critic to tell you? Kamini started her journey into personal development after realising, as a mother of five, she needed to start adopting a more conscious parenting tactic, as she was...
info_outlineJames and Mark highlight the importance of handling disappointment, which is particularly relevant in the current climate with many people and businesses facing some challenging lockdown measures. As usual, they come up with 3 top tips, and along the way they make reference to Yale University studies, George Bush Snr and Mark's mildly impressive but slightly embarrassing lawn bowls career!
Mentioned links;
Changing Minds with Own Fitzpatrick
The Science of Wellbeing course
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Top tips:
Tip 1 – Sharpen the lens on your internal locus: skip to 04:04
Tip 2 – Articulate accurately: skip to 12:34
Tip 3 - Treat disappointments as a gift: skip to 16:56
(c) Larking Gowen