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37. Rest Feels Unsafe

The Body Grievers® Club

Release Date: 12/30/2022

96. Bri's 7 Steps to Move Through Body Grief show art 96. Bri's 7 Steps to Move Through Body Grief

The Body Grievers® Club

In this episode of The Body GrieversⓇ Club, Bri reframes body trust as secure attachment to the body and explains that body grief is unavoidable because bodies change, get sick, and experience discomfort and loss. She shares a seven-step, trauma-informed acronym—GRIEVER—as a tangible roadmap for shifting body image work from cognitive fixes to somatic practice, emphasizing that there’s no final “arrival,” only learning to tolerate and manage distress safely. Using the example of trying on clothes that don’t fit, she distinguishes physical discomfort from the emotional story,...

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95. You Can Do Everything Right and Still Get Breast Cancer with Jenna Werner show art 95. You Can Do Everything Right and Still Get Breast Cancer with Jenna Werner

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In this episode of The Body GrieversⓇ Club, Bri talks with registered dietician and private practice founder Jenna Werner about body grief, body image, and self-trust after Jenna’s recent breast cancer diagnosis. Jenna shares how a baseline mammogram required before a planned breast augmentation revealed stage zero DCIS that couldn’t be felt, leading to a double mastectomy, reconstruction with expanders, lymph node testing, and ongoing discussions about estrogen-suppressing medication due to recurrence risk. She describes moving through the stages of grief, the loss of feeling...

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94. Fat People Can Do Pilates, Too with Dr. Danica Harris show art 94. Fat People Can Do Pilates, Too with Dr. Danica Harris

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In this episode of The Body Grievers® Club, Bri is joined by Dr. Danica Harris, a counseling psychologist turned somatic experiencing practitioner and co-owner of a trauma-informed group therapy practice, to explore how Pilates can support body-based healing, strength, and mobility. They discuss rebuilding a relationship with movement after burnout, chronic pain, hypermobility, and the pandemic, including grief around changing body size, lost privilege, and internalized ableism. Bri and Danica encourage listeners to get curious about what their body needs today—even if it’s rest.  ...

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93. Body Neutral with Jessi Kneeland show art 93. Body Neutral with Jessi Kneeland

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In this episode of The Body GrieversⓇ Club, Bri interviews body image coach and "Body Neutral" author Jessi Kneeland about why body positivity and self-love often feel inaccessible and ignore social context, and how body neutrality focuses on moral neutrality by stripping false, inflated meaning from appearance. Using examples like having a zit, they discuss how body shame spirals come from learned beliefs about worth and failure, and how “health” is frequently used as a socially acceptable cover for body hatred, disordered eating, and orthorexic behaviors. They explore the head-to-heart...

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92. Body Confidence Has Nothing To Do With Your Body show art 92. Body Confidence Has Nothing To Do With Your Body

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In this episode of The Body Grievers® Club, Bri challenges the idea that confidence comes simply from “doing the thing,” arguing that without thought awareness and body connection, change won’t stick. She reframes confidence as self-assurance: not the absence of discomfort. Brie shares her history with dieting, bariatric surgery at 19, and the ongoing body image pain that persisted even at a smaller size, leading to a 2015 breaking point to start living her life. She discusses dating fears, fetishization, and values alignment.  03:59 Health And Weight Loss Trap 05:18 Bariatric...

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91. Body Trust, Weight-Inclusive Fitness, and Intersectionality with Ashantis Jones show art 91. Body Trust, Weight-Inclusive Fitness, and Intersectionality with Ashantis Jones

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In this episode of The Body GrieversⓇ Club, Bri interviews Ashantis Jones, a counselor and ASM-certified personal trainer, about healing body image and movement through an intersectional, weight-inclusive lens. Ashantis shares how her eating disorder recovery, later neurodivergence diagnoses (ADHD/autism traits and ARFID), and experience with fibromyalgia shaped her approach to care, emphasizing that diagnoses can be useful but aren’t always required to provide support. They discuss body positivity as a social justice movement, how privilege and systemic oppression—including racism,...

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90. Is it an Eating Disorder or Disordered Eating? With Monica Freudenreich show art 90. Is it an Eating Disorder or Disordered Eating? With Monica Freudenreich

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In this episode of The Body Grievers® Club, Bri joins therapist/social worker Monica Freudenreich to discuss eating disorders versus disordered eating, emphasizing that most people with eating disorders often go unrecognized or dismissed by providers who lack specialized training and may be influenced by diet culture trends. They describe how diagnostic labels can shift, how insurance and treatment systems affect care, and why focusing on functioning and quality of life matters more than whether someone meets a specific DSM threshold. They critique applying abstinence-based addiction models...

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89. Parenting Intuitive Eaters and Healing Generational Body Image Wounds with Keri Baker show art 89. Parenting Intuitive Eaters and Healing Generational Body Image Wounds with Keri Baker

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In this episode of The Body GrieversⓇ Club, Bri interviews licensed clinical social worker and parent Keri Baker about body image, food, and raising kids—especially when both parent and child live in larger bodies. Keri shares her history of early dieting, years of chronic dieting, likely undiagnosed eating disorder symptoms, and finding intuitive eating and anti-diet care through supportive providers. They discuss parenting a child with ARFID (avoidant restrictive food intake disorder), how it’s often mistaken for picky eating, and the added difficulty of seeking medical care when...

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88. How I Healed My Relationship to Movement show art 88. How I Healed My Relationship to Movement

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In this episode of The Body GrieversⓇ Club, Bri shares her five-year movement journey from having no exercise practice to building an intuitive, consistent, feel-good relationship with movement. She traces how the pandemic disrupted her gym routine, triggered body image distress when back pain arose on a short walk, and revealed deeper body grief tied to internalized ableism rather than weight loss. Bri outlines five needs for healing and answers questions about “enough” movement, limited mobility with others, pushing vs listening to the body, and much more. TIMESTAMPS: 03:12 Pandemic...

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87. Understanding Type II Diabetes and Body Image show art 87. Understanding Type II Diabetes and Body Image

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In this episode of The Body GrieversⓇ Club, Bri interviews dietitian and certified diabetes educator Kristie Messerli (The Type 2 Diabetes Nutritionist) about type 2 diabetes, insulin resistance, medication, and the shame and fear that often follow diagnosis. Kristie explains diabetes in lay terms, emphasizing insulin resistance as the underlying issue, genetics as a major driver, and the nuance beyond “cut carbs, lose weight, exercise more,” especially for women already dieting and exercising. They discuss complications as largely tied to unmanaged diabetes, the reality that medication...

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In this episode, Bri hot seat coaches herself through her fear of REST.  When we dig into our body image narrative - we often find places where narratives like to hold on to.  Check out this episode to explore where even Bri feels like she gets stuck in productivity narrative.