Gardens, Grit & Growing Up

In this uplifting episode, we’re celebrating two powerful books that help kids grow—both in the garden and in their character.

First, Jed welcomes Sharon Rose, landscape designer and debut picture book author of Through the Garden Gate. Sharon shares how her lifelong love of gardening began with her dad and the neighbors who mentored her in their San Jose backyard. Those intergenerational friendships inspired Miss Mary, the neighbor in her book who invites bored, screen‑tempted Miles into her garden. As Miles helps with “weeding” he doesn’t want to do, he discovers curiosity, problem‑solving, and the magic of plants. Sharon and Jed talk about getting kids outside, the healing power of nature, creating pollinator gardens instead of endless lawn, and how gardens can connect neighbors and families.

Then Jed talks with David Farkas, author of the middle grade novel Can’t Never Could: A Child’s Guide to Perseverance. David explains the family saying behind the title—every time he said “I can’t,” his parents replied, “Can’t never could!”—and how that simple idea shaped his life. In the book, a boy is followed by a stubborn little sprite who appears whenever he says “I can’t,” pushing him to keep trying. David and Jed dive into why kids need to hear “I can’t…yet,” the dangers of quitting too quickly, and how youth sports, music, and other activities can build real confidence. They also take on participation trophies, cross‑training, and the importance of finishing a season—even when it’s hard.

It’s a heart‑warming conversation about getting kids outdoors, helping them stick with challenges, and using stories to grow resilient, joyful humans.