FROM A SEXLESS MARRIAGE TO AN ORGASMIC LIFE
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Release Date: 05/29/2026
THE ORGASM - PLEASURE, DESIRE AND CONNECTION WITH DR RACHEL NEEDLE
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Are you searching for what it really takes to create satisfying, connected sex — how to communicate your needs without shame, get out of your head and into your body, and keep desire alive at any age? Join , from , as she chats with Sex Therapist. from the They dive deep into the world of orgasm and pleasure for both women and men — from women who struggle to reach climax to men dealing with finishing too soon (or not at all). They also tackle the myth that libido fades over time and look at how social media and technology are shaping our sexual confidence today. This episode is...
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HEDONISM - FIRST-TIMERS BARE ALL AT HEDO II
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Are you dealing with the effects of sexual trauma and body shaming? Do you feel stuck and afraid to venture too far into the realm of sexuality, trying not to trigger those unwanted memories? Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica, as we chat with a couple of first-timers who have been able to overcome some of their obstacles, building confidence and self-esteem as their week progressed, allowing them to experience a sexual awakening of sorts. By pushing boundaries and supporting each other, they are able to journey into a wider realm of sexual openness. Everyone loves a...
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TOPLESS TRAVEL - LIFESTYLE FOREVER FRIENDS AND SWINGING IN CALIFORNIA
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
If you are looking for ways to meet new friends and connect with them on such a deep level that you feel like you’ve known them forever, you might be ready to open yourself up to The Lifestyle? Join us at in Jamaica with as we chat with our old friends, Tangerine and Brian, whom we haven’t seen in almost a decade but somehow it feels like yesterday. We get into discussing Tangerine’s Dream and all the changes this event group has undergone since we last saw each other. TOPLESS TRAVEL When you choose , you’re choosing days filled with sun-soaked fun and nights pulsating with raw,...
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MILFS, SEXUAL ENERGY AND VULNERABILITY WITH ALLANA PRATT
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Have you ever had such a hard break up that it left you feeling embarrassed, ashamed and guilty about how you let this happen to you -- where you found yourself wondering how you will ever trust anyone in your life again? Join us with Intimacy Expert, Author, Host and Speaker, as we find out how she guides people to find their inner strength to start loving themselves first, so that they can, in turn, find the love of their lives… no matter what they’ve been through. GUEST: Allana Pratt BIO: Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt is a global media personality and go-to authority for those who...
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HOW TO REIGNITE YOUR SEX DRIVE AND TURN DISTANT INTO DELICIOUS
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Do you want to stop feeling broken in the bedroom? Does intimacy feel like another thing on your to-do list? Join Sexologist, Dr. Stacy Friedman from The Purple Passion Project with Relationship, Intimacy & Sex Therapist, SkyeBlu—aka the Pleasure Advocate—who’s made it her mission to help women reclaim their erotic power, as they share expert guidance on how to navigate mismatched sex drives, overcome bedroom anxiety, and transform a distant relationship back into a deeply connected, delicious partnership. Guest: SkyeBlu BIO: SkyeBlu is a Certified Relationship, Intimacy,...
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THE SEX AND INTIMACY REPAIR KIT - RESTORE PASSIONATE INTIMACY
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Do you feel stuck in your sexless relationship where neither of you are willing (or able) to break the communication barrier that has built up over time? Join us with Intimacy Coach, Xanet Pailet, Author of: T, as we get into discussing one of the most common toxic relationship loops, where one partner craves closeness and the other retreats. We’ll discover how couples can find resolution that leads back to intimacy, arousal, desire and great sex. GUEST: Xanet Pailet BIO: Xanet Pailet is a San Francisco based sex and intimacy coach, tantra teacher, sexological body...
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TOPLESS TRAVEL - FIT TO FUCK FOREVER
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Are you facing the physical challenges of aging but want to maintain a vibrant, uninhibited, and active sex life? Join us on location at Hedonism II in Jamaica with Topless Travel, chatting with fitness trainer and Hedo guest, Jen, as we explore the essential connection between physical wellness and a thriving sex life. Jen shares the details of her routine and lifestyle, including her plant-based nutrition, use of supplements, and the critical role of resistance training and cardio for mental and physical health as we age. By opening up about her personal journey into menopause, we get into...
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69 WAYS TO GIVE A MIND BLOWING HAND JOB
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Guys, do you ever dream of getting the best hand job ever… one that blows your mind and your load? Don’t you wish your partner could learn how to touch you like that? Join us with Erotic Massage Coach, Lee Jagger, from Rock the Bedroom, as we talk about her 69 different ways to make a happy ending even happier. From manual manipulation techniques that will make his cock squirm until he explodes, to taking control of your sexy play time. We cover it all! GUEST: Lee Jagger BIO: Lee Jagger is the CEO and founder of Rock The Bedroom — the only sex education community of its kind. She helps...
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FROM A SEXLESS MARRIAGE TO AN ORGASMIC LIFE
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Do you find it difficult to surrender to pleasure and just let go? Does your erotic-self seem alien to you? Then, it might be time for some sexual healing. Join us with Sex & Intimacy Educator, Xanet Pailet, as we discuss our relationship with sex at different times in our lives - from the hot & horny 20’s to the stale and boring 40’s, and how it’s never too late to find your path and re-awaken your sexuality so that you can have a better relationship, juicier sex and more passion in your love life. GUEST: Xanet Pailet BIO: Xanet Pailet is a San Francisco based sex...
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THE REAL REASON YOU'RE NUMB DOWN THERE - AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT
The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Feeling numb “down there”? Emotionally checked out from your body? Disconnected from pleasure, even when you want to feel it? You are not alone—and you are not broken. In this raw and powerful episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy sits down with Ava Pikul—a sensual guide, transformational therapist, and tantric practitioner who helps women finally feel at home in their bodies again. Together, they explore why so many high-achieving, over-giving women find themselves burnt out, sexually shut down, and disconnected from their own desires. More...
info_outlineDo you find it difficult to surrender to pleasure and just let go? Does your erotic-self seem alien to you? Then, it might be time for some sexual healing.
Join us with Sex & Intimacy Educator, Xanet Pailet, as we discuss our relationship with sex at different times in our lives - from the hot & horny 20’s to the stale and boring 40’s, and how it’s never too late to find your path and re-awaken your sexuality so that you can have a better relationship, juicier sex and more passion in your love life.
GUEST: Xanet Pailet
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Xanet Pailet is a San Francisco based sex and intimacy coach, tantra teacher, sexological body worker and holistic pelvic care practitioner who has worked in the health care field for over 25 years. She is the author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure. She works with individuals and couples using a variety of modalities to help them explore different paths of pleasure within the body, increase their libido, and helps to heal emotional and sexual wounds. Xanet is a Certified Sexological Body Worker, Certified Tantra Educator (Charles Muir’s Source School of Tantra), Certified Somatica® Practitioner (Somatica Institute), Certified Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Sky Dancing Tantra Teacher (Ecstatic Living) and Somatic Experiencing Trauma Practitioner.
My Story
On the surface, I was living the perfect life….my own successful career as a corporate healthcare executive and Broadway producer, married to a successful attorney, two fabulous children, a beautiful home in New York City, and all the trappings that go along with it. But underneath the surface was a woman sexually shut down from carrying years of sexual trauma in her body who was living in a sexless marriage for more than 15 years. Orgasms were so not in my vocabulary. I put 100% of my energy into my kids and my career. By age 45, I had pretty much decided that I was done with sex.
My sexual awakening occurred when I turned 50. Several loving men lit fires underneath me and one fanned the flames by introducing me to Tantra and sacred sexuality. Finally, I was able to experience sex as a union of the physical, energetic, and spiritual body and reveled in the notion of not having a goal and simply enjoying the experience. Sexual healing was not far behind. This awakening was so profound that it completely changed the course of my life. I moved across the country to live in a more sex positive city and study sexuality with renown Tantra and sex educators. I have dedicated the rest of my professional life to helping others awaken and explore their own sexuality and to heal the wounds that keep us from experiencing our true sexual selves.