YMM 189 ... The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage!
Your Marriage Matters
The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage! Hey gang ... Welcome to Your Marriage Matters episode 189 - The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage! Since we are doing a new YouTube channel. we felt like it was important to go back to the fundamentals as a reset for everything we are going to be covering in the days and weeks ahead! The fundamentals we are going to be covering during this episode are simple but powerful! They are: Create a "shared vision" for creating a compelling life together! Master the critical skill of communicating effectively!...
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YMM 188 I Am NOT the Enemy ... The Power of Solving Problems As A Team!
Your Marriage Matters
Problems, struggles, and conflict are signs of a healthy relationship! Two imperfect people working to build a life together in an imperfect world are bound to face struggles. This is due to the mere fact that they: Are male and female Grew up in different households Have different personality styles Have different views on sex, money, household roles and responsibilities, parenting, and a dozen other subjects. All of this, and more, means there will be conflict! What matters is how we handle it!!! This entire month, we will be following the theme of "I Am NOT the Enemy" (thanks Ben and...
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YMM 187 ... 3 Life Lessons From the Road!!!
Your Marriage Matters
Join Jim & Christie Jacobus on episode 187 of Your Marriage Matters as they delve into the profound lessons learned from their adventurous journey as full-time RV travelers. In this insightful episode, 3 Life Lessons From the Road, they explore: Beauty Everywhere: Explore the breathtaking landscapes of America through the eyes of seasoned travelers. Discover how every corner of this country holds its own unique charm and beauty, reminding us to appreciate the world around us. People's Splendor: Dive into the heartwarming experiences of connecting with diverse communities across...
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YMM 186 ... The Trust Factor: 5 Essential Keys for a Thriving Relationship!!!
Your Marriage Matters
Welcome back to Your Marriage Matters with Jim & Christie Jacobus! In this episode, we delve into the crucial topic of trust in marriage and why it's the cornerstone of a strong, enduring relationship. Trust isn't just a nice-to-have; it's the foundation upon which emotional connection, communication, stability, and growth thrive. In this episode, we discuss: Foundation of Emotional Connection: How trust lays the groundwork for deep emotional intimacy. Enhances Communication: The role of trust in fostering open, honest communication. Promotes Relationship Stability: How trust contributes...
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YMM 185 ... The 5 R’s of Spring Cleaning Your Marriage!
Your Marriage Matters
🎙️ Join Jim and Christie Jacobus on Your Marriage Matters as they dive deep into "The 5 R’s of Spring Cleaning Your Marriage"! 🌷 In this episode, they discuss practical strategies to revitalize your relationship and create a stronger bond this spring. From reorganizing your time together to renovating your finances, refreshing appreciation, revitalizing shared goals, and renewing your commitment, Jim and Christie provide actionable tips for couples to strengthen their marriages. Tune in to discover how to: Prioritize quality time for bonding activities. 2. Align your financial goals...
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YMM 184 ... This 1 Idea Can Be A Game Changer In YOUR Marriage!
Your Marriage Matters
In this episode of Your Marriage Matters podcast with Jim & Christie Jacobus we talk about the one habit that can change your marriage. We are going to introduce couples to the idea of having a weekly meeting. Doing so is a great habit and can help get couples on the same page in a busy day to day life. Weekly meetings can ,,, Improved Communication: Regular meetings provide a dedicated time for couples to discuss important matters, express their feelings, and share updates about their lives. This fosters open and honest communication, leading to better understanding and...
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YMM 183 ... Avoid These 5 Relationship Pitfalls or Risk Losing Your Marriage!!!
Your Marriage Matters
Join Jim & Christie Jacobus as they dive deep into the crucial topic of the 5 things that can slowly erode the foundation of your marriage. In this eye-opening episode, they discuss: Communication Issues: Uncover the secrets to effective communication that can transform your relationship. Lack of Appreciation: Discover the power of showing gratitude and appreciation to reignite the spark in your marriage. Ignoring Conflict Resolution: Learn practical strategies to resolve conflicts constructively and strengthen your bond. Neglecting Quality Time: Explore the importance of carving out...
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YMM 182 ... Unlocking the Secrets of a Thriving Marriage Through Worship!
Your Marriage Matters
Join Jim & Christie Jacobus on a transformative journey in this episode of Your Marriage Matters. Discover the profound truth that a great marriage is deeply rooted in worship, illuminating three essential facets of worship: Worship God as Creator: By acknowledging God as the creator of all things, including your marriage, you unlock the door to understanding the divine design behind your relationship. Worship God as Sovereign: Embrace the sovereignty of God in your marriage, recognizing His authority and wisdom in orchestrating every aspect of your journey together. Worship God as...
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YMM 181 ... The Heart of Marriage: Insights from the One Night For Oneness Conference
Your Marriage Matters
Tune in to this episode of Your Marriage Matters, where we reflect on our recent participation at the One Night For Oneness Marriage Conference. Delve into the profound lessons we shared, including the significance of the apple tree analogy in understanding marriage dynamics. Explore why conventional approaches like threats, manipulation, and guilt fail to address the core issues in relationships, and how focusing on the heart is the key to lasting change. Gain valuable insights into recognizing and addressing your own role in marital challenges. 🔊 Key Takeaways: Unpacking the apple tree...
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YMM 180 ... Love's Echo: Insights from One Night For Oneness Marriage Conference!
Your Marriage Matters
In this highly anticipated episode, Jim & Christie Jacobus take you on an enlightening journey through the heart of marriage. Fresh from their engaging presentation at the One Night For Oneness Marriage Conference, they delve into profound truths that form the bedrock of enduring relationships: Romance as a Result, Not a Cause: Discover why Jim & Christie believe that romance isn't just a spark but the radiant outcome of a robust foundation in marriage. Accountability in Communication: Join the discussion on how embracing accountability for our words and actions fosters deeper...
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Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode YMM #036 ... How To Make YOUR Spouse Feel Loved! Understanding Relational Needs In Marriage!
We have a great show for you this week as we dig into being intentional about building strong, vibrant marriages and learning what our relational needs are and how they give us the keys to making our spouse feel loved!
We have a Relational Needs Survey you can download at ...
- Our Your Marriage Matterz Facebook page - Click Here
- Or, go to our podcast blog page - Click Here
- Or, e-mail Jim and put SURVEY in the subject line and he will send it to you ... [email protected]
In this survey we measure 10 different relational needs ... Acceptance, Affection, Appreciation, Approval, Attention, Comfort, Encouragement, Respect, Security and Support. Here are some things you will learn:
- Doing the survey will provide a lot of clarity around the mystery of how do I make my wife/husband happy!
- Why doesn't he/she respond when I (try to make them feel loved with what makes me feel loved)?
- Some great ways to communicate what you want from your spouse and learn what they want from you!
- Clear up a lot of sources of frustration in your marriage you may never have even known existed!
- A great plan moving forward for being intentional in your marriage1
We know you will enjoy this week's podcast so download the survey, complete it and let's get started!
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