Back to School with Jim Jacobus and Your Marriage Matters!
Your Marriage Matters
This week we’re reminding couples that the best marriages are built by those who never stop learning. We’re inviting you to become a student of marriage — and of your spouse — with three incredible resources: 📘 The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman — Learn how to speak the unique “love language” of your spouse, whether that’s Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Quality Time, Physical Touch, or Gifts. Discover why love often gets “lost in translation” and how to fix it! 📝 The Relational Needs Survey by David Ferguson — A practical tool that helps you identify...
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Class Is in Session: Learning from Matt & Julie Barnhill!
Your Marriage Matters
Our Back to School series concludes with a very special interview featuring Matt & Julie Barnhill. These two are not only gifted counselors, they are also dear friends and incredible role models. Spending time with them is like being in the presence of master teachers. In this episode, they unpack timeless lessons for marriage, family, and faith—leaving us encouraged, inspired, and equipped to live with greater intentionality. This is one you won’t want to miss. Jim & Christie Jacobus
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Back To School ... The ABC's of A Successful Marriage!
Your Marriage Matters
Marriage is the most important class you’ll ever take! In this solo episode of Your Marriage Matters, Christie Jacobus, Licensed Professional Counselor and Registered Nurse, takes you ‘Back to School’ to learn the ABC’s of a Successful Marriage. With practical wisdom and heartfelt insights, Christie shares how appreciation, beliefs, and commitment can transform your relationship. Tune in and take home tools that will help you and your spouse graduate your marriage with honors!
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Our #1 Marriage Flex: Why Learning Together Is a Gamechanger!
Your Marriage Matters
Hey gang ... We’re back—and it feels good to be “Back to School”! In this kickoff episode of Your Marriage Matters, Jim and Christie share their #1 marriage flex: never stop learning. After 38 years of marriage, they’ve discovered that growth—personal and relational—is the foundation for a vibrant, resilient, and joy-filled marriage. Together, they unpack 10 powerful reasons why a growth mindset is essential for couples, from keeping the marriage dynamic to modeling something transformative for kids and grandkids. You’ll also hear about their reset of the podcast, YouTube...
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YMM 189 ... The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage!
Your Marriage Matters
The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage! Hey gang ... Welcome to Your Marriage Matters episode 189 - The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage! Since we are doing a new YouTube channel. we felt like it was important to go back to the fundamentals as a reset for everything we are going to be covering in the days and weeks ahead! The fundamentals we are going to be covering during this episode are simple but powerful! They are: Create a "shared vision" for creating a compelling life together! Master the critical skill of communicating effectively!...
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YMM 188 I Am NOT the Enemy ... The Power of Solving Problems As A Team!
Your Marriage Matters
Problems, struggles, and conflict are signs of a healthy relationship! Two imperfect people working to build a life together in an imperfect world are bound to face struggles. This is due to the mere fact that they: Are male and female Grew up in different households Have different personality styles Have different views on sex, money, household roles and responsibilities, parenting, and a dozen other subjects. All of this, and more, means there will be conflict! What matters is how we handle it!!! This entire month, we will be following the theme of "I Am NOT the Enemy" (thanks Ben and...
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YMM 187 ... 3 Life Lessons From the Road!!!
Your Marriage Matters
Join Jim & Christie Jacobus on episode 187 of Your Marriage Matters as they delve into the profound lessons learned from their adventurous journey as full-time RV travelers. In this insightful episode, 3 Life Lessons From the Road, they explore: Beauty Everywhere: Explore the breathtaking landscapes of America through the eyes of seasoned travelers. Discover how every corner of this country holds its own unique charm and beauty, reminding us to appreciate the world around us. People's Splendor: Dive into the heartwarming experiences of connecting with diverse communities across...
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YMM 186 ... The Trust Factor: 5 Essential Keys for a Thriving Relationship!!!
Your Marriage Matters
Welcome back to Your Marriage Matters with Jim & Christie Jacobus! In this episode, we delve into the crucial topic of trust in marriage and why it's the cornerstone of a strong, enduring relationship. Trust isn't just a nice-to-have; it's the foundation upon which emotional connection, communication, stability, and growth thrive. In this episode, we discuss: Foundation of Emotional Connection: How trust lays the groundwork for deep emotional intimacy. Enhances Communication: The role of trust in fostering open, honest communication. Promotes Relationship Stability: How trust contributes...
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YMM 185 ... The 5 R’s of Spring Cleaning Your Marriage!
Your Marriage Matters
🎙️ Join Jim and Christie Jacobus on Your Marriage Matters as they dive deep into "The 5 R’s of Spring Cleaning Your Marriage"! 🌷 In this episode, they discuss practical strategies to revitalize your relationship and create a stronger bond this spring. From reorganizing your time together to renovating your finances, refreshing appreciation, revitalizing shared goals, and renewing your commitment, Jim and Christie provide actionable tips for couples to strengthen their marriages. Tune in to discover how to: Prioritize quality time for bonding activities. 2. Align your financial goals...
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YMM 184 ... This 1 Idea Can Be A Game Changer In YOUR Marriage!
Your Marriage Matters
In this episode of Your Marriage Matters podcast with Jim & Christie Jacobus we talk about the one habit that can change your marriage. We are going to introduce couples to the idea of having a weekly meeting. Doing so is a great habit and can help get couples on the same page in a busy day to day life. Weekly meetings can ,,, Improved Communication: Regular meetings provide a dedicated time for couples to discuss important matters, express their feelings, and share updates about their lives. This fosters open and honest communication, leading to better understanding and...
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Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode YMM #036 ... How To Make YOUR Spouse Feel Loved! Understanding Relational Needs In Marriage!
We have a great show for you this week as we dig into being intentional about building strong, vibrant marriages and learning what our relational needs are and how they give us the keys to making our spouse feel loved!
We have a Relational Needs Survey you can download at ...
- Our Your Marriage Matterz Facebook page - Click Here
- Or, go to our podcast blog page - Click Here
- Or, e-mail Jim and put SURVEY in the subject line and he will send it to you ... jim@teamjacobus.com
In this survey we measure 10 different relational needs ... Acceptance, Affection, Appreciation, Approval, Attention, Comfort, Encouragement, Respect, Security and Support. Here are some things you will learn:
- Doing the survey will provide a lot of clarity around the mystery of how do I make my wife/husband happy!
- Why doesn't he/she respond when I (try to make them feel loved with what makes me feel loved)?
- Some great ways to communicate what you want from your spouse and learn what they want from you!
- Clear up a lot of sources of frustration in your marriage you may never have even known existed!
- A great plan moving forward for being intentional in your marriage1
We know you will enjoy this week's podcast so download the survey, complete it and let's get started!
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