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Episode 073: Herb Stevenson

The EVRYMAN Podcast

Release Date: 01/30/2019

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“How old do you have to be before you give yourself permission to be who you fully are? Not who you’ve been told you are, but who you really are.”

This week’s guest Herb Stevenson is an author, management consultant and executive coach with over twenty years of experience. Herb runs a twice monthly men's circle, plus a year long Natural Passages program. “Much of who men are is often closed-off at an early age. Natural Passages creates a safe container for each men's journey back to his full self.”

In this conversation:

  • The challenge of getting close to our fathers. “Most fathers want a relationship with their sons, but don’t know how the hell to do it.”
  • Shifting parental relationships from Child-Adult to Adult-Adult by being direct and clear about what you want.
  • How to answer the most important question: What do I really want?
  • Gaining a sense of self through being in nature.

Seeking a challenge? Try the father/son hand-holding challenge!

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