Episode 18: Conscious Discipline
The Masculine Code
"Men… the day you only do what you feel like doing… is the day you sign your own death sentence as a leader.” Too many men worship at the altar of their feelings. “I’ll go to the gym when I feel motivated.” “I’ll connect with my wife when I feel in the mood.” “I’ll have that hard conversation when I feel ready.” And then they wonder why their body is soft, their marriage is cold, and their life feels like a slow death by comfort. Today we’re going to talk about The King’s Discipline—the ability to act on what must be done, regardless of how you feel. Because...
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Episode 17: The Journey To Being A Better Man With Dave Parrott
The Masculine Code
This episode we dive into a conversation with my buddy and mens coach Dave Parrott. We talk about his favorite non negotiable habits, also his biggest lesson learned. If you are man out there that is ready to grow take a moment and check this podcast out.
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Episode 16 :Why Your Wife Feels Distant (Even Though You Think You're Doing Everything Right)
The Masculine Code
“You’re doing everything ‘right’... You provide. You show up. You don’t cheat. You grind. You protect. But your wife still feels distant. Disconnected. Closed off. You’re wondering: What the hell am I doing wrong? Brother, this episode is the wake-up call. Not to shame you—but to free you from the lie that provision is presence. Let’s go deeper. APPLY FOR THE MAN SCHOOL
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Episode 15 : Your Word Is Law
The Masculine Code
A mans integrity is the pillar his trust is built on.
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Episode 14: Leadership When It’s Hard: Why Pressure Is the Path to Power
The Masculine Code
Pressure Is a Sign, Not a Problem We’ve been trained to think pressure means we’re doing something wrong. But in reality? Pressure is the signal that your soul knows you’re ready to lead more, carry more, and become more."
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Episode 13: I Built an Empire… But Lost MY Woman in the Process. Here’s What He Did to Get It All Back.
The Masculine Code
How I stopped using my success as a reason why my wife should love, appreciate, and Respect me. I shifted to being a man who solved his own internal lacks and then received external abundance.
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Episode 12: Don't Make Your Partner Your Purpose
The Masculine Code
𝐀 𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐏𝐔𝐑𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐄 𝐈𝐒 𝐀 𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐄𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐀 𝐅𝐈𝐑𝐄... To often in today’s society Men have stripped themselves of their PURPOSE in the name of LOVE. We give to “please “ our ladies We pretend to lose ourselves in work We act like our family is the source of all of our happiness We numb ourselves through drugs, alcohol, porn etc so we don’t hear the pull of our soul everyday. All the while our life has lost the fire Our Soul Is Yearning For More. & Our partner is dying...
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EPISODE 11: You’re Leading at Work — But Are You Leading at Home?
The Masculine Code
Today, we’re cutting straight to the core. No fluff. No sugar-coating. Because what we’re about to unpack could be the difference between thriving at home… or slowly watching everything slip away while you tell yourself “it’s fine.” You’re leading at work — but are you leading at home? Yeah, you’ve built the business. You’ve stacked the wins. You’re making money, driving the car, living in the house. From the outside, it looks like you’ve got it all figured out. But inside? Your marriage feels cold. Your kids feel distant. You’re going through the motions at home —...
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Episode 10: The Truth About Courage: Acting Despite Fear
The Masculine Code
You’ve heard the quote before: ‘Courage is not acting without fear, courage is acting despite fear.’ But let’s be real—how often do you let fear control your choices? How many times have you hesitated, overthought, or avoided something you knew you needed to do? Tune into todays podcast to learn different .
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Episode 9: The Myth Behind Why High Performing Men Don't Ask For Help?
The Masculine Code
In this episode of the Masculine Code Podcast, Jim Vance discusses the challenges high-performing men face when it comes to seeking help and mentorship. He explores themes of distrust, self-reliance, and the fear of exposing weaknesses. Vance emphasizes the importance of mentorship not just for those who are broken, but for anyone seeking growth and improvement. He encourages men to embrace change, seek help, and develop skillsets that can enhance all areas of their lives, ultimately leading to a more balanced and fulfilling existence. takeaways High-performing men often...
info_outlineHappiness is closer than it appears… STOP THE SEARCH…
What I see a ton in people is a misperception of what happiness is!
Searching
Looking
Seeking
In things
In things outside of themselves
In people outside of themselves
In situations outside of themselves
I see a lack of happiness
I see a search for things that isn’t of you.
Its disheartening
Its bewildering
To see people lie to themselves to get the approval of other people
To see people chasing and striving for things that they will never arrive to in their lives
To see people give up everything in order to find happiness in something that doesn’t exist..
3 principles to happiness. (Master one at a time)
Happiness is the state of peacefulness, love, acceptance, forgiveness, respect, appreciation of yourself
- Stop identifying yourself as something that your not…. A lot of people identify as unhappy things… victim, unloved, fat, overweight, not cool, not happy etc….. All of the nots as you can think of ..
The story you focus on that’s what multiplies in your life…
If you look for the greatness in who you are
If you look for what God made you to be…
God created me in perfect love
God created me to be happy
God didn’t mess up
We fuck it up..
2. Be Authentic….
a. When you try to please everybody. You please nobody..
b. People that aren’t true
c. People who lie to have their needs met
d. We often hide behind the mask to fit in
e. We lie to ourselves to please other people
f. When you can’t be you … you be can’t be happy
GOTTA LOVE ME SOME ME…
g. We are so inauthentic because we don’t accept ourselves for who we are.
h. Love yourself first for someone to find you and love you back
I .seeking love to feel love will make you empty
- Fall back in love with you.
a. God Made Us IN Perfect Love
b. I can always return to that fact
c. I am always that.
d. Until I choose Love of me Love from the world will alwa