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Ep 69: When Winning Isn’t Worth It: Lessons from a Hyper-Focused Life

Release Date: 07/22/2025

Ep 74: You Don’t Need More Discipline, You Need This

Money On My Mind

We’ve all told ourselves we just need more discipline—wake up earlier, spend less, invest more—but here’s the truth: discipline isn’t the real problem. In this episode, I reveal why discipline is overrated and why the real game-changer is building systems that do the heavy lifting for you. I share the exact framework I’ve used in my own life and with thousands of BudgetDog Academy students to eliminate decision fatigue, rewire limiting beliefs, and set up automated systems that drive lasting results. If you’ve been white-knuckling your way toward financial goals only to...

Ep 73: The Scarcity Script: Where It Comes From and How to Rewrite It

Money On My Mind

“If I just made more money, everything would be fine.” Sound familiar? The truth is, your financial challenges likely have nothing to do with your income and everything to do with the scarcity script that was programmed into you long before you ever touched a dollar. In this episode, I unpack how childhood lessons, cultural beliefs, and even well-intentioned advice can plant deep-seated money scripts that keep you stuck in fear, lack, and limitation. I share my own journey of breaking free from these beliefs—and the exact steps you can take to rewrite your financial story...

Ep 72: From CPA to Creator: The Hardest Part of Reinventing Myself

Money On My Mind

I thought I had it all figured out—steady career, financial security, and a clear path as a CPA at Deloitte. But deep down, I knew I was living someone else’s dream. In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of my biggest career pivot: leaving the corporate world to build BudgetDog from scratch. I share the surprising way I fell into accounting, the turning point that pushed me to walk away, and the emotional and financial hurdles I faced starting over from zero. This isn’t just about career change—it’s about identity, courage, and redefining success on your own terms. If...

Ep 71: Sharing Logan's Journey

Money On My Mind

In this heartfelt guest episode, my wife and I are hosted by Josh Madsen as we share the deeply personal journey of our daughter Logan’s battle with Dravet Syndrome, a rare and challenging seizure disorder. We open up about the emotional rollercoaster we’ve experienced as parents, the frustrations of traditional medical advice, and the incredible transformation we’ve seen through alternative therapies. From discovering toxic mold in our home to seeing Logan climb rock walls and slide down playgrounds for the first time, this conversation highlights the power of persistence, hope,...

Ep 70: How to Define Your "Enough" Number

Money On My Mind

In this episode, I open up about one of the most complex and personal aspects of wealth building—understanding when enough is truly enough. After achieving every financial milestone I once dreamed of—paying off six-figure debt, reaching millionaire status, and building a $4M+ net worth—I still found myself chasing the next number. Why? Because “enough” kept changing. I share insights from deeply personal experiences, pivotal conversations with my mother-in-law and behavioral psychologist, and journal prompts to help you define your own version of success. Whether you’re...

Ep 69: When Winning Isn’t Worth It: Lessons from a Hyper-Focused Life

Money On My Mind

Ever chased success so relentlessly that everything else blurred into the background? In this raw and deeply personal episode, I pull back the curtain on the hidden costs of hyperfocus and high achievement. From my early days grinding at Deloitte to building a business from a hospital room, I share the real stories—both the highs and the hard lessons—that shaped my journey. This one’s not about tactics or checklists. It’s about the internal tug-of-war between ambition and presence, and what it truly means to win. Join me as I reflect on what I’ve learned about balancing the drive for...

Ep 68: We Grew Our Net Worth by $310K in Q2: Here’s How and the System We Used

Money On My Mind

We just had our biggest financial leap ever, a $310,000 increase in our net worth in just one quarter. In this episode, I take you behind the curtain to reveal exactly how we did it. But this isn’t just about our win—it’s a blueprint for how you can do it too. I’m sharing the exact system we use (and teach inside Budget Dog Academy) that’s changing lives and stacking net worth gains for hundreds of our students. I’ll show you how simple financial tools—like a balance sheet, budget, and roadmap—when automated and aligned with your values, can completely transform...

Ep 67: How Being a Dad Made Me Rethink Financial Freedom

Money On My Mind

I used to think financial freedom was a number. Then I became a dad—and everything changed. In this episode, I share my personal journey from the hustle-and-grind definition of success to a more meaningful, family-centered vision of financial freedom. You’ll hear how my daughter Logan’s health challenges made financial freedom not just a goal, but an urgent mission. I dive into the emotional shifts, the mindset changes, and the practical steps that helped my wife and me build a life that gives us the time and presence our family needs—right now. If you’re a parent who wants...

Ep 66: How Money Mindset Shapes Financial Freedom

Money On My Mind

Hey everyone! In today’s episode of Money on My Mind, I’m bringing you a special treat: my recent interview on Self Improvement Daily with Brian Ford. We dug deep into one of the most powerful—and often overlooked—parts of your financial journey: your money mindset. You’ll hear us unpack how your subconscious beliefs about money shape your financial outcomes, why many of us unknowingly hold ourselves back, and what you can do to break through old patterns. We also explore practical steps to take control of your finances by automating your plan and surrounding yourself...

Ep 65: Building Budgetdog

Money On My Mind

In this special episode, I’m sharing a powerful conversation I had as a guest on the Two Comma Club podcast with Jonathan Marsh. We got real about what it means to break free from the traditional 9-to-5, the mindset shifts that changed my financial future, and how I turned my personal finance struggles into a mission-driven business helping thousands of others. You’ll hear my full journey—from crushing $300K of debt to building Budgetdog Academy into a thriving brand. We also dive into the practical tools that helped me, the challenges I faced leaving corporate life, and the...

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Join me as I reflect on what I’ve learned about balancing the drive for financial and professional greatness with the priceless value of being fully present for those you love. If you’ve ever struggled with feeling like success still leaves something missing, this episode is for you.

Episode Timeline & Highlights

[0:00] - Introduction

[0:41] - The start of hyperfocus: from Deloitte intern to ultra-driven adult life

[2:35] - National bestseller moment and the reality behind the “success”

[4:14] - What behavioral psychology reveals about high achievers

[5:22] - When progress makes loved ones feel like obstacles

[8:00] - A call that changed everything—and the fear of becoming too ambitious

[10:09] - The struggle to be physically present and mentally available

[14:17] - A revealing ChatGPT prompt and its powerful message

[19:30] - Redefining fitness, success, and what “winning” really looks like

[21:18] - Three key lessons every high achiever needs to hear

[24:16] - Practical framework: auditing your time and relationships

[25:37] - Final thoughts on chasing dreams without sacrificing what matters most

Key Takeaways

Obsession Isn’t a Superpower – When tunnel vision takes over, success can feel empty if you’ve sidelined the people who matter most.
Presence Beats Achievement – Your family doesn’t need your results. They need you. Being physically there isn’t the same as being mentally present.
Recalibration is Essential – You can still build big things without burning out. Long-term wins require reflection, balance, and a healthy mindset.

Quotables

“If your definition of success doesn’t include peace, connection, and health, it’s not success. It’s just an addiction with a nice label.”

“Your family doesn’t need your results. They need your presence.”

“You don’t have to prove your greatness by suffering harder or scaling faster.”

“The view from the top isn’t worth it if you’re standing there alone.”

Links & Resources

The Roadmap to Financial Freedom – National Bestseller

Visit: https://budgetdog.com
Connect with me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/budgetdog

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