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Ep 86: Leading at Home and at Work: How I Balance Being a CEO, Father, and Husband

Money On My Mind

Release Date: 11/19/2025

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Money On My Mind

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Episode Description
 
What does leadership really mean when you're running both a household and a business? The truth is, I'm not just the CEO and founder of a growing brand I'm also the CEO of my household. I'm leading my team at work and my daughters at home, and while the stakes look different at the office versus the dinner table, the responsibility is equally high on both sides.
 
In this episode, I dive deep into the traits, values, and daily behaviors that help me lead effectively in both spaces without sacrificing who I am as a person. I share the weight of dual leadership, the tension of being the same father and husband after a tough day at work, and why winning in business means nothing if you lose at home.
 
From consistency and vision-casting to decisiveness and humility, the same character traits that make someone a great CEO also make them a great parent and spouse. I'll break down how we apply business frameworks like EOS to our family life, why your family needs vision just as much as your team does, and how saying "no" to protect your mission is one of the most powerful leadership tools you can master.


Episode Timeline & Highlights
 
[0:00] – Introduction: Leading both business and household
[0:35] – The weight of dual leadership and serving in both spaces
[1:12] – Why winning at business but losing at home means you ultimately lose
[1:53] – Trait #1: Consistency 13 years without missing an investment
[2:54] – Trait #2: Vision casting quarterly vision for team and family
[3:26] – Our family's "Foundations First" theme after overcoming major challenges
[4:50] – Leading by example: Why your actions speak louder than words
[5:23] – Trait #3: Decisiveness making hard calls with limited information
[6:08] – Trait #4: Humility—the power of admitting when you're wrong
[7:01] – Protecting the mission by saying no to distractions
[7:57] – Leadership ROI: What real dividends look like
[8:16] – Why work-life balance is silly go 110% on what matters most

Key Takeaways
 
Leadership Is About Stewardship: Whether you're leading 50 people or a family of five, it's about carrying weight well when nobody claps.
Same Traits, Different Settings: Consistency, vision, decisiveness, and humility work equally well in boardrooms and living rooms.
Protection Through Boundaries: The more you invite into your life, the more complex it gets. Simple scales, fancy fails.

Quotables
 
"If I win in business but lose at home, I lose ultimately."

"Your family doesn't need grand gestures or huge home runs. They need consistency."

"Work-life balance is silly you're focusing on being mediocre at everything versus putting 110% into the things that matter."


Links & Resources

Learn more about Budgetdog Academy: https://budgetdog.com
My book, The Roadmap to Financial Freedom: https://budgetdogacademy.com/order-now
Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/budgetdog

If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who's juggling leadership roles at work and home. Leadership isn't about the spotlight, it's about stewardship, and that applies whether you're in a boardroom or at the dinner table.