17) PART ONE: Dr. Aubrey Carpenter on Disordered Eating, Why It's Not Your Fault, and Where to Find Quality Support
Release Date: 05/01/2024
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In this episode, I share two powerful strategies for overcoming perfectionism and inconsistency in fitness plans. The first strategy, which I call forecasting, involves planning for obstacles and life chaos to ensure your fitness goals remain achievable. The second strategy, which I call fitness Pomodoro, encourages short bursts of movement to build momentum and maintain commitment without the pressure of maximum output. I emphasize the importance of self-compassion and realistic planning in achieving fitness success and, you know what? IT WORKS. Just ask ALL 200+ women I've worked with. ...
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In this episode, I dive into the complexities of motivation, emphasizing the importance of awareness through the stages of motivation within my 90-day fitness program, Hypefit Method. Because my container is 90 days, I've been able to see many patterns and coach hundreds of women through these patterned milestones. I made my own 90-Day Motivation Map to organize this journey and share with my clients, that way we can pre-frame the experience and set realistic expectations. I'll discuss the honeymoon phase, the challenges of the first and second dips, and the significance of understanding...
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Today's episode is dedicated to the one liner I hear ALL the time as a Personal Trainer: "I get bored easily" or "I need more variation." Sound like you? PERFECT. Let's chat! While I fully understand the desire to spice things up AND believe it's possible to do -- I also wish more people understood HOW to do it in an effective way. Usually what I see are people who've made needing variety part of their fitness identity. They take many random classes, try out challenges, and program hop -- often times doing these things back -to-back or at the same time (GASP). Look, I WANT you to be able to...
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This weeks episode is a VERY personal, vulnerable share where I talk about how my husband and I have cultivated a loving relationship, despite my many "failures" in my past. Having grown up without learning how to regulate and honor my own emotions, I found relationships difficult. Not just intimate, but also with friends (which I don't talk about in this episode). Join me in a reflective breakdown of how I navigated the hard parts of my childhood and overcame patterns and behaviors that were not serving me in adulthood. All of this healing & development was difficult. It was...
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Follow Kishori on instagram @kishorigopiyoga Visit her website at: E-RYT 500 hr Bhakti Yoga Teacher, Master Reiki / Energy Healer, End of Life Doula Kelly Skinner, also known as Kishori Gopi (her devotional name) is a spiritual teacher who is a conduit of divine love and a vehicle for Divine grace to heal and awaken. In this lifetime, her medicine is to help beings live radiantly and die gracefully through the practices of Bhakti Yoga, Meditation, Reiki, and End of Life Doula Work. She approaches both life and work with awareness, aliveness, and compassion. When you see...
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Today's short episode is a personal share on my recent decision to give up alcohol. I had always had a positive relationship to alcohol and was good at not drinking for short periods or drinking very little. My decision to quit didn't come from me drinking too much, it came from me realizing I just wasnt enjoying my drinks the way I always had. I explain the reactions my body was having to alcohol, my lifestyle and mindset shifts that powered my sober-curiousity, and how I "flipped the switch" without any doubt in my decision. If you're sober-curious perhaps some of my story will...
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Buckle up and get ready to LEARN! Today we have Dr. Kaleigh Mulpeter on to tell us everything we need and want to know about the pelvic floor. Like, what even IS the pelvic floor? Do men have a pelvic floor? We talk about all the juicy, real, raw, honest, COMMON things people experience in a lifetime: pee, poop, sex, birth, kegels, pain in the body, toilet posture, and so much more. SO much more. Once you start listening you won't be able to stop. Interested in working with Kaleigh? Lucky for everyone she's got resources in-person AND online, meaning you can access her expertise and kindness...
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Today's episode is SO special! We have TIffany Lebano, a Registered Nurse of 10 years with a BSN from Hopkins and a BSN in public health. She has been a pediatric nurse from the start of her career and has worn many hats in that time -- She's been a doula, worked in the NICU and in the pediatric ER. Tiffany LOVES all the work she has done and continues to do, but her most important job is being a mama to 3 littles -- all under the age of 4! Tiffany became a Mama Coach after her second postpartum experience when she realized there was a huge lack of support and an abundance of misinformation...
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"But the thing is, even if I could go back, I wouldn't be there anymore." -CCZ In todays episode I get vulnerable about my own process and experience dealing with imposter sydrome, the surprising isolation that comes with changing, and other internal battles I've never shared about before. This is relevant to all parts of growth, healing, change: business, personal, emotional, mental, physical. When we decide to change and level up it's brave because it isn't free from problems. My hope is that this is relatable and helps even one person out there feel understood and NOT alone....
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This is a short episode PACKED with tips on utilizing one of my favorite business tools: preframing. I think we've all been in one of those professional situations where things get dicey and now you have to have an awkward conversation and you wish you had just done things differently earlier in order to avoid the situation. I give you some examples of this from my own experiences (laughs in nervous) AND all the ways I've resolved these issues so they won't happen again. Pre-framing & Setting Clear Expecations... shows what kind of leader you are, that people are in good, sturdy,...
info_outlineAll resources linked in the show notes -- this episode, part one of two, is PACKED with information, resources, support, comfort. Whether you're a coach wanting to elevate the way you support your clients, a person wondering if you're teetering on having an eating disorder, or you've recovered but a refresh of insight and resources will be helpful, this will be impactful.
Dr. Aubrey Carpenter is a licensed clinical psychologist who has spent over a decade working as a pediatric psychologist, educator, and researcher in child mental health and parenting support. She completed her PhD at Boston University, her predoctoral internship at Boston Children’s Hospital, and her postdoctoral fellowship at Massachusetts General Hospital before returning to her native Vermont to raise her family. Dr. Carpenter spent three years working at UVM Medical Center in the adolescent eating disorders clinic, and was involved in state-level advocacy that led to increased funding for eating disorder programming and training for Vermont providers.
She also recently started a private practice called It Takes A Village, where she is exclusively seeing parents and caregivers in need of support, after seeing firsthand that behind the youth mental health crisis is a widespread community of parents doing their best with limited resources.
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