Between Over & Next
Join Holli and Robert for a special Thanksgiving edition of ‘Between Over & Next’ as they celebrate nearly a year of engaging podcasting with their 46th episode. Reflecting on their journey since launching on January 16th, 2024, Holli and Robert express deep gratitude for their supportive podcast community. They delve into the powerful themes of gratitude, family traditions, and the importance of hosting gatherings that bring loved ones together. Throughout this Thanksgiving episode, Holli and Robert announce a well-deserved podcast hiatus, emphasizing the importance of taking a...
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Immerse yourself in this insightful episode of ‘Between Over & Next’ as Holli and Robert explore how foresight and hindsight can enrich and transform our lives. With their trademark humor and thoughtfulness, the couple emphasizes the importance of how learning from the past and living fully in the present can inform more intentional decision-making in the future.Holli and Robert discuss various life themes, such as career choices, parenting, health, financial decisions, and relationships, using foresight and hindsight as lenses to better understand them. They share personal anecdotes...
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In this episode of ‘Between Over & Next’," hosts Holli and Robert reconnect with Amy Wilkins, formerly of Martha Stewart Weddings, as she shares her journey from publishing exec to leadership coach. Amy shares her vibrant journey from the bustling world of publishing with giants like Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia and Smithsonian Media to becoming a sought-after leadership coach. Listeners will gain insight into Amy’s decision-making processes as she navigated career pivots, driven by her desire for growth and leadership empowerment. Her narrative weaves through deeply personal...
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In this engaging episode of 'Between Over and Next', listeners are taken on a metaphorical drive as hosts Holli and Robert interpret life's transitions through the lens of traffic lights and use the common symbols of red, yellow, and green traffic lights to illustrate the phases of life—between, over, and next. The discussion opens up on how we navigate the red (stop), yellow (proceed with caution), and green (go) moments in our personal and professional journeys. The episode encourages mindfulness and reflection at life's intersections, advocating for a balance between patience and...
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In this episode of 'Between Over and Next,' Holli and Robert delve into the art of blending business with pleasure, highlighting the importance of loving what you do. Their discussion emanates from a profound understanding of personal satisfaction and authenticity as pivotal elements driving their long-standing success. With anecdotes from their careers and examples from renowned personalities like Bruce Springsteen, they explore how passion translates into professional triumph, urging listeners to pursue what they love for a meaningful life. The couple underscores the significance of...
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In this touching episode of 'Between Over and Next', Holli and Robert celebrate a major life transition as they share the joy of becoming first-time grandparents. As they introduce their grandson, Holden Ray, they discuss the excitement and anticipation surrounding grandparenthood, highlighting the responsibilities accompanying this life stage. With humor and emotion, Holli and Robert explore what this new chapter means, offering listeners a glimpse into their experiences and the cherished moments that define their journey. Throughout the episode, Holli and Robert delve into the profound...
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In this thought-provoking episode of 'Between Over and Next', Holli and Robert explore how moments of pause can shape a more mindful and resilient approach to life's myriad transitions. Reflecting on their personal experiences and shared philosophies, they unravel the intricate dance between action and contemplation, urging listeners to embrace stillness amidst life's hustle and bustle. As Holli and Robert delve into the topic, their conversation touches on the importance of giving yourself the space to breathe, reflect, and embrace self-discovery underscoring how moments of pause...
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Join hosts Holli and Robert as they delve into the nuances of love and relationships across various life stages. From the thrills of young love to the contentment found in long-term partnerships, they discuss the evolution of feelings and the importance of nurturing relationships with patience, forgiveness, mutual respect, and fun. Throughout the conversation, they share personal anecdotes and insights on communication, vulnerability, and keeping romance alive. Discover engaging ideas to foster lasting bonds and prioritize emotional intimacy. Whether you're navigating new love or seeking...
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In this emotionally insightful episode of 'Between Over & Next,' Holli and Robert discuss the excitement and universal feelings associated with the anticipation of becoming grandparents for the first time. They share personal family stories, their own experiences with their grandparents, and how they plan to embrace their new role. They also explore the differences between young and older grandparents, the importance of proximity in grandparent-grandchild relationships, and their aspirations of being 'cool' and 'fun' grandparents. The couple reflects on how their parents and grandparents...
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Discussing the sandwich generation with depth and warmth, Holli and Robert share their experiences with their octogenarian parents and their now-independent children. Through reflections and insights into maintaining health and independence, they underline the significance of open communication and gratitude for meaningful relationships. The hosts also touch on the emotional and financial pressures, the evolving roles within families, the importance of creating multigenerational memories, and the benefits of learning from both older and younger generations. They bring to light the balancing...
info_outlineIn this episode of "Between Over and Next," Holli and Robert candidly share their journey through the empty nest stage of life. The episode serves as a soothing balm for parents grappling with the adjustment of their children leaving home for college, work, or to start their own lives. As a dynamic duo, they peel back the layers of emotions involved in this transition, offering an empathetic narrative that many listeners can relate to.
The hosts reveal their transition into empty nesting, interspersing anecdotes and reflections on their parenting journey. A considerable part of the discussion focuses on maintaining a healthy marital relationship, ensuring personal growth, and the complex interplay between parents and adult children. By exploring the benefits, challenges, and strategies to cope with the empty nest syndrome, the episode is embedded with wisdom, practical advice, and relatable sentiments. This episode is for anyone looking for encouragement and affirming that life holds plenty for them to look forward to. Holli and Robert's musings will leave you with a renewed perspective, equipped to handle the inevitable changes life throws your way.
In This Episode
0:00 Embracing Life's Transitions as Empty Nesters
4:42 Transitions: College, Home, and City Living
5:12 Navigating the Emotional Journey of Becoming Empty Nesters
9:28 Empty Nesters Reflect on Parental Transitions
12:22 Embracing the Empty Nest Stage in Marriage
16:38 Embracing Life Transitions and Maintaining Parent-Child Connections
22:25 Parenting Reflections and the Empty Nest Experience
24:23 Embracing Life's Next Stage: The Empty Nest Transition
30:18 Exploring Life's Transitions with Holli and Robert
Key Takeaways
- Embrace Transition: Viewing the empty nest stage as an opportunity rather than a loss can lead to personal and spiritual growth.
- Rekindle Relationships: This stage offers couples a chance to reconnect with one another and rediscover shared interests.
- Parental Reflections: Parents often introspect about their parenting effectiveness and their children’s future independence.
- Personal Rediscovery: This stage allows parents to explore new hobbies, education, or career options, leading toward self-discovery.
- Communicative Bonds: Maintaining open communication lines with adult children is vital for a supportive, ongoing relationship.
Holli & Robert Quotes
"Empty nesting is more of a pivot than a final stop. It's a process of shifting one's energy and focus. It's creating a new stage in life."
"If all your life, if everything you've done, if your whole focus has been your children and doting on them and taking care of them, and now, suddenly it's like losing a job, in a sense, you don't have those responsibilities anymore."
"You need to forge a new relationship with yourself and your adult children. Let it be a supportive relationship rather than a controlling one."
"It's a time to learn, to grow, to pursue personal goals."
"Investing in your fulfillment will not only bring you more freedom and joy but also serve as a model for your children."
Related "Between Over & Next" Podcast Episodes and Blog Articles
Blog Article: From Endings to Beginnings: Finding Fulfillment in Life’s Beautiful Transitions
Podcast Episode 4 with Holli & Robert's Adult Children: Celebrating Achievements Of The Parent-Child Journey
Podcast Episode 11: Charting New Territories: Strengthening Relationships Hand in Hand
Podcast Episode 19: Your Next Big Thing: Tips for Exploring, Discovering, and Launching