You don't have to hide away until you are "perfect" in order to be loved
Release Date: 04/03/2024
Pussy Whispers
"Why does it feel like a year lasts a lifetime when you're in the thick of a 'Tower Moment'?" In this episode of the Pussy Whispers Podcast, I’m joined by my dear friend and intuitive tea leaf reader, Michaela. We dive deep into the messy, beautiful reality of learning a "new state of being"—moving from the "I’ve got this" survival muscle into the soft, vulnerable power of receiving care. If you’ve ever felt frustrated by your own timeline or wondered why your intuition seems "blocked" during seasons of grief, this conversation is for you. We explore how to maintain boundaries as a...
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In this episode I look back two years since my breakup and share what I learned, how I thought it was going to go, and how it actually went. Plus, here are three earlier episodes if you want to listen before or after this episode to experience the entire healing arc of the heartbreak process. One month after breakup: Conscious Uncoupling interview with my friend Ann: One year later: If you liked this episode and want to see more raw and intimate episodes, please consider giving me a review and supporting my podcast in anyway that feels true to you.
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In this episode, I spill the T on my Burning Man story, which I call my "EpeePhany." Enjoy me sharing the inside scoop on my shame healing journey that led me to becoming a specialized shame healer! Turns out, peeing on forbidden places can be liberating AF! If you want to book a session with me, you can do so on my website www.tareaselixir.com Don't forget to subscribe to my channel and hit the like button. This helps support me and my content.
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Tarea spills the T on her second queer awakening and what that is like as an intimacy coach to go from hetero to queer sex, what she notice was different and what was the same. "Honestly, I feel SO shy to share this episode" Why? Because I'm actually quiet sassy and blunt in it and very raw and uncensored. It was one of the few episodes I made that was less about teaching you (although it's still very educational) And more about "spilling the T" out of pure joy and aliveness for this topic I share on. The topic of my second queer awakening, hetero to queer sex, and...
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Welcome back to season 2! In this episode, I walk you through the in-depth process of an inner child healing session using the tools: parts work, felt sense, and gestalt theory. I offer clarity and insight into inner child healing and some of the terms you might hear in the therapeutic world, to give you a greater understanding and an informed lens for your own inner child healing process. My intention in this episode is also to offer a space rooted in love so that your inner child can feel heard, seen, and understood. I hope this video offers you a path forward and an opportunity to...
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What does it truly mean to listen to your intuition and trust yourself through life's most difficult transitions? I, your host Tarea, take you through the messy, powerful, and heart-wrenching realities of my own personal grief, heartbreak, and courage to rebuild. AKA surviving the hardest year of my life. What does it take to release control, toss out the script, and trust that life will catch you even when you’re freefalling? I’m not gonna lie — it’s terrifying AF. Raw. Uncomfortable. But it’s also the most liberating thing I’ve ever done for myself. Leaving that...
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Unlock the sacred power of your heart and pussy Learn how to align your intuition with your pleasure, creating a connection that fosters self-love, healing, and authentic expression. In this episode, I share tips, guided reflections, and practices to help you step into your divine pussy energy and reclaim your inner wisdom. This wisdom is channeled for all pussy bodied beings and those with the energy of pussy. All of my work is trans-inclusive and a safe space for my rainbow community. I work to create a more secure, safe, and pleasure-filled world that is rooted in love. It is my great...
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To work with me you can book a free call or session by going to my website If you struggle with feelings of shame and guilt that hold you back from liking who you are or making choices, this system is designed to disrupt old trauma patterns of shame to help you enjoy who you are and trust yourself to make decisions. Identifying your North Star can help shed the weight of shame and so you can have access to your full potential. In this video, we'll explore the concept of a North Star and how it can help you overcome shame, build confidence, and cultivate a more...
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Fashion is more than just clothing; it’s an expression of who you are and what you stand for. When you dress intuitively, you tap into your inner self, allowing your wardrobe to reflect your true essence. You’re not just picking clothes; you’re curating a visual representation of your passions and purpose. Intuitive fashion empowers you to make choices that resonate with your spirit. Choosing your expression items more intuitively can lead you many places. It could help heal your inner child. It could reclaim a lost part or your power. It could even lead you to a hobby or new career that...
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In weeks episode I talk to you about energetic hygiene and the value and importance in having energetic boundaries. If you are a highly sensitive person, emotional person or if you just don't fit into "normie" boxes, you may find yourself feeling even more sensitive and I want you to know that you can use this sensitivity as a superpower and have more aliveness for life. You have a gift and I want to help you harness your energy and take care of yourself. This is going to help you to keep going every day without feeling so heavy, without feeling stuck, and without feeling like you...
info_outlineThis weeks episode I talk to you about the struggle of the spiritual perfectionist mindset and how debilitating it can be to feel constantly not good enough and not worthy of your desires.
Whether that is romantic desires or life passion & purpose.
I speak about ways to integrate this so you can start to crawl out of that cave of having to be perfect before you have the romance and life you want.
When you feel perpetually afraid to be rejected and not accepted as you are it creates this massive inner turmoil that blocks you from sharing your authentic self in relationships which has you feel left alone or prevents you from sharing your medicine with the world and feeling alone in that as well.
Let me know what you think and share any moments that inspired you so I can celebrate and love you in your vulnerability.
I want to also acknowledge that if you have been afraid most of your life and are not yet sure how to feel safe as you are, it's going to feely normal and you do not have to do it alone. I am here to support you.
If you want to learn about working with me you can find me on IG @tareaselixir and on my website www.tareaselixir.com