5 – Why Being “Good” Doesn’t Bring Love: The Cinderella Relationship Scenario
Dasha Savage · Psychology for Women
Release Date: 04/20/2025
Dasha Savage · Psychology for Women
This is a new series on my podcast: Your questions, my answers :) Feel free to send your questions to my email – Today we talk about Jillian's story of her relationships. *** Follow for more episodes on relationship dynamics, healing the father wound, and learning to live from self-worth, not survival. Come say hi on Instagram: My YT – Whatsapp channel – Threads –
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This is the last letter in our little series about fathers. Maybe this will inspire you to write yours. *** Follow for more episodes on relationship dynamics, healing the father wound, and learning to live from self-worth, not survival. Come say hi on Instagram: My YT – Whatsapp channel – Threads –
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Here I am sharing real letters from real people. They wrote those as a part of therapeutical exercise. Maybe this will inspire you to write yours. *** Follow for more episodes on relationship dynamics, healing the father wound, and learning to live from self-worth, not survival. Come say hi on Instagram: My YT – Whatsapp channel – Threads –
info_outlineDasha Savage · Psychology for Women
Here I am sharing real letters from real people. They wrote those as a part of therapeutical exercise. Maybe this will inspire you to write yours. *** Follow for more episodes on relationship dynamics, healing the father wound, and learning to live from self-worth, not survival. Come say hi on Instagram: My YT – Whatsapp channel – Threads –
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Last week, we started talking about father figures in our lives. Here I am sharing real letters from real people. They wrote those as a part of therapeutical exercise. Maybe this will inspire you to write yours. *** Follow for more episodes on relationship dynamics, healing the father wound, and learning to live from self-worth, not survival. Come say hi on Instagram: My YT – Whatsapp channel – Threads –
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In this episode, we explore the deep and often unnoticed impact the father figure has on our inner development and the choices we make later in life. Even when a father was physically present but emotionally distant or cold, the imprint of that relationship can remain hidden until adulthood. We look at how early experiences with a father shape our self-esteem, sense of safety, and ability to form close relationships. Why do so many women choose partners whose behavior unconsciously mirrors familiar traits of their fathers, even when those choices bring pain? Why do men who grew up with absent...
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What does it actually mean to feel resourced, and how do we find our way back when we’ve drifted far from that place? In today’s gentle and personal episode, I’m sharing one of my favorite concepts from Russian: “being in your resource.” It’s that grounded, steady inner state that helps you meet life’s chaos without being consumed by it. We’ll explore the two kinds of resource: Global resource: the big-picture safety nets that hold you Local resource: the small, daily rituals that either drain or restore you I’ll also walk you through a simple mindfulness...
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We talk a lot about “being in your resource”, but what does that actually mean? And why is it that sometimes, even after sleep, rest, or a weekend away, you still feel… empty? In this episode, I explore the deeper meaning of internal resource: not just self-care routines, but your actual capacity to show up in life with presence, joy, and energy. We’ll talk about: - why your ambitions and your energy levels might be at war with each other - how to recognize the subtle signs that your inner tank is running low - why what we call “rest” often isn’t rest at all - and how to begin...
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In this episode, we’re talking about something most of us quietly wrestle with: life transitions. Why do our 30s, 40s, 50s feel like turning points no one prepared us for? We’ll talk about: What age-related crises really are (spoiler: they’re not a tragedy) Why your 30s are full of questions, and your 40s might be the most powerful decade yet The crisis of results at 50 (and how to reinvent yourself) Why ignoring change leads to burnout, anxiety, and feeling stuck What to do when you feel like you’re too late This is a gentle but honest invitation to stop...
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Some women carry a quiet, lifelong tension in relationships, not because they don’t want closeness, but because somewhere deep inside they learned that love isn’t safe. In this episode, I talk about the Enchanted Princess, a pattern that often forms in childhood when a girl experiences emotional rejection, disconnection, or a lack of consistent support, especially from her father. As adults, women with this script often find themselves entering relationships where they feel invisible, emotionally muted, or constantly on edge. They may expect abandonment even when nothing suggests it, or...
info_outlineThis is for you if you’ve ever found yourself overgiving in relationships, afraid to set boundaries, or quietly hoping someone will finally see your worth.
We talk about:
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Why the “good girl” role forms in childhood
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How emotional disconnection from the father shapes this dynamic
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What it looks like in adult relationships (spoiler: it often involves emotional limbo and self-blame)
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The key steps to healing: building your own inner compass, saying no, and choosing what’s good for you
You’ll learn how to move from Cinderella to sovereign woman — someone who no longer waits to be chosen, but chooses herself.
This episode is gentle, personal, and deeply validating. Come as you are — especially if you’re tired of earning love.
Listen now and share it with a friend who always tries to be “the good one.”
Follow for more episodes on relationship dynamics, healing the father wound, and learning to live from self-worth, not survival.
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