Ep. 2 - Beyond Apologizing: Redefining Success and Security with Sandra Soriano
Release Date: 11/27/2024
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info_outlineHook: What if everything you’ve been told about success is actually keeping you stuck? In a world where 70% of midlifers feel trapped in roles that don’t align with their true selves, it’s time to rewrite the rules. In this inaugural guest episode of Beyond the Quo, host Stacey Luces sits down with Sandra Soriano, founder of the lifestyle brand Unapologetic, for an honest and powerful conversation about breaking free from societal expectations and redefining what success looks like in midlife.
For too many midlifers, the stats speak volumes: over 70% of adults feel stuck in roles that don’t align with their true selves, more than 50% of single parents cite financial independence as their biggest challenge, and nearly 60% of women in midlife feel pressured to conform to outdated definitions of success and stability.
Together, Stacey and Sandra explore themes that resonate deeply with anyone questioning the status quo—feeling stuck, navigating major life transitions, and balancing personal growth with external pressures. Sandra shares her transformative journey from a 23-year marriage to becoming a single parent and entrepreneur, offering raw insights into resilience, authenticity, and building a life that truly feels like your own. Sandra’s story, rooted in her personal experiences and her mission through Unapologetic, inspires midlifers to take small, meaningful steps toward creating a life of freedom, empowerment, and joy.
This conversation is more than just inspiration—it’s a roadmap for midlifers who are ready to break free from the constraints of “should” and “must.” Sandra’s story reminds us that transformation doesn’t happen all at once; it’s built through courage, small decisions, and unapologetic living.
In this episode:
• 00:24 | Common Midlife Concerns: Why so many feel stuck and disconnected in midlife.
• 02:45 | Challenging Traditional Success: Breaking free from external definitions of success.
• 05:47 | Financial Confidence and Single Parenting: Sandra’s journey to independence and building a business.
• 16:17 | Embracing Self-Care and Empowerment: The crucial role of boundaries and self-love.
• 27:48 | Living Unapologetically: How Sandra’s brand and philosophy inspire resilience.
• 30:00 | The Importance of Support Networks: Building communities that lift us up.
• 31:37 | Defining Friendship Tiers: Rethinking relationships and priorities.
• 42:04 | Challenging the Status Quo: A call to redefine life on your own terms.
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• Website: https://unapologetic808.myshopify.com/
• Instagram: @808unapologetic