Ep. 6 - Beyond Others' Judgment: Redefining Movements, Beauty, and Authenticity with Violette de Ayala
Release Date: 12/25/2024
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info_outlineWhat if redefining success means embracing imperfection, challenging societal expectations, and building a legacy of connection, empowerment, and purpose?
In this episode of Beyond the Quo, host Stacey Luces sits down with Violette de Ayala, Cuban-American serial entrepreneur, founder of FemCity®, international best-selling author, and advocate for women’s empowerment. Together, they explore the transformative power of authenticity, the challenges of stepping into leadership as a woman of color, and the evolution of beauty, identity, and legacy.
Stacey and Violette dive into what it means to challenge the status quo by showing up unapologetically, embracing the beauty of aging, and creating spaces for women to thrive. From personal anecdotes about navigating leadership to the lessons learned from imperfect beginnings, this episode offers practical insights and heartfelt moments to inspire anyone ready to live boldly and beyond the quo.
In this episode:
01:43 The Power of Vulnerability and Authenticity
04:17 Navigating Personal Challenges and Growth
08:24 Parenting and Individualism
13:44 Redefining Success and Wellness
17:59 Embracing Change and New Beginnings
25:07 Perception of Age in the Industry
26:58 Discovering Personal Journeys
29:09 The Power of Femcity/Challenges and Resilience for Women Entrepreneurs
41:42 Leaving a Legacy and Final Thoughts
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Connect with Violette de Ayala: With over a decade of experience empowering women through FemCity®, Violette has created a community that blends collaboration, education, and inspiration. As a business strategist, speaker, and advocate, Violette continues to redefine leadership and support women in stepping into their full potential.
• Instagram: @VioletteDeAyala
• Website: FemCity.com
You’ve already done the quo—now it’s time to go beyond.