I Don’t Get Anything Out of It: Rethinking Why We Go to Church
Release Date: 10/29/2025
Not Yet Christian
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In this episode, Jennie shares the heart behind Immeasurably More 3:20 (IM3:20) and why this nonprofit exists in the first place. IM3:20 was created to meet people in everyday moments with hope, prayer, and accessible emotional and spiritual health resources especially for those who may feel overwhelmed, disconnected, or not quite ready for church. Jennie breaks down the four core pillars that make up IM3:20: our website at IM320.org, where people can connect, join the family, and access free resources; the IM3:20 App, which offers daily Bible verses, practical application, and emotional...
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This episode takes on one of the most common reasons people stop going to church: “I don’t get anything out of it.” Many walk through the doors expecting to be filled, inspired, or entertained—only to leave feeling unchanged. But what if church was never meant to be about what we get? Drawing from Philippians 2:4, this episode challenges the mindset of consumer Christianity and explores how fulfillment comes not from being served, but from serving others. Research on purpose and well-being shows that people who give, volunteer, or contribute regularly experience greater happiness and connection than those who focus solely on personal gain. When we shift from asking “What did I get out of it?” to “What did I give?”, we transform the entire experience. Church becomes less of a spiritual vending machine and more of a living community where encouragement, service, and humility open the door to genuine joy. This episode invites listeners to see Sunday not as a transaction, but as an opportunity—to show up with an open heart, give of themselves, and rediscover the true purpose of gathering together.
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