64. Femme Domme Part 2
2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex
In this episode, Ams and Kat report back on their sexy homework with Femme Domme power play. A Femme Domme is a woman who takes the dominant role in a BDSM power play experience. A Dominatrix is "in charge" in the bedroom, but are we all just dressing the part and not actually taking control? But first, mix up this episode's Canna-cocktail, the Apple Pie Float, while Kat shares her Hot Tale: The Kats take a trip to Desire Riviera Maya in Mexico where they meet up with Mr. Kat's Doppleganger. Twi Mr. Kat's at once?!?! That's too sexy by half! Next, Ams and Kat report back on...
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63. Femme Domme (aka: I may be bad, but I'm perfectly good at it)
2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex
In this episode, Ams and Kat take control in the bedroom by exploring domination, including an interview with professional Dominatrix, Queen Lo. A Dominatrix, or Femme Domme, a woman who takes the dominant role in a BDSM power play experience. A Dominatrix is "in charge" in the bedroom, but are we all just dressing the part and not actually taking control? But first, mix up this episode's Canna-cocktail, the Rosemary Grapefruit Fizz, while Ams shares her Hot Tale: during the Barbarella-themed house party, Ams slips away with six of her favorite guys for a seven-minute, Alien...
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62. Pornography Part 2
2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex
How did the Wives do with their sexy pornography homework? Tune in to find out. But first, check out this episode’s Canna-cocktail, the Cherry Blossom Smash: a yummy combination or cherries and blood orange juice with just a dash of cannabis tincture. Sip on this delicious cocktail listening to this episode's Hot Tale: the Wives host a Barbarella-themed house party and they get up to no good, with flogging, blindfolded kissing, eight-handed massages, and more! Next, the Wives report back on their sexy homework: who's ready for a week-long, porn-o-thon? The Wives were...
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61. Pornography (aka: I know it when I see it)
2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex
In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Pornography, focusing on ethical porn and feminist porn. Pornography is sexual content designed to arouse, and let's face it, pornography is everywhere. If you've written off pornography as not your thing, check out this episode for a fresh, feminist take on porn. But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why not try this Canna-cocktail, the the Lemon Blackberry Mule. Mix one up while listening to this episode’s hot tale: Ams gets the best birthday present from Mr. Ams, a year of...
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60. Tantric Sex Part 2
2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex
How did the Wives do with their Tantric Sex homework? Tune in to find out. But first, check out this episode’s Canna-cocktail, the Orange Berry Tea with a new . Sip on this delicious cocktail while Kat shares her Hot Tale: a professional massage gets a BDSM vibe with cupping and scraping. Next, the Wives report back on their sexy homework, inspired by Barbara Carrellas' book, Urban Tantra. Kat shares her tantra ritual with Mr. Kat, while Ams explored solo tantra, including a no-hands, . Finally, the Wives give their tips on exploring tantric practices. ...
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59. Tantric Sex (aka: She's Magik, Sex Magik)
2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex
In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Tantric Sex. Tantra is a complex and multifaceted spiritual and philosophical tradition that originated in ancient India. Tantric sex is the practice of using Tantric principles, such as mindfulness, breathwork and energy connection, to sexual experiences. But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Hot Buttered Cider. Mix one up while listening to this episode’s hot tale: Ams, Mr. Ams and their friends have a grown-up sleepover, complete with Seven Minutes in...
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58. Boudoir Part 2
2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex
How did the Wives do with their Boudoir photography sexy homework? Tune in to find out. But first, check out this episode's Canna-cocktail, the Winter Berry Smash. Thanks to a listener tip, Kat found a tincture that uses nano-technology for quicker absorbtion and a faster experience. Then, Kat brings it home with her Hot Tale: a threesome with the Wives and Mr. Kat. Is he the luckiest man on the planet? You decide. Then, the Wives took a field trip to Photography Studio in Easton, Maryland. Building on their experience taking boudior shots at Desire...
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57. That's Hot
2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex
Do you need to be "hot" to be successful in the lifestyle? In this episode, the Wives explore aesthetics and attraction in ENM relationships, including an interview with Coach April from Naughty Gym. This bonus episode was inspired by a number of listener questions that the Wives have received, where listeners have shared their concerns and insecurities about looks in the lifestyle. So, do you need to be hot? The answer is not simple. On the one hand, lifestyle dating is a lot like vanilla dating, and looks are a big part of attraction. So, yes, looks play into success...
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56. Boudoir Photography (aka: Click, click, boom!)
2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex
In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Boudoir Photography. Boudoir photography is a style of intimate photography that captures individuals in a tasteful and empowering way, often in lingerie or semi-clothed, celebrating their unique beauty and sensuality. Boudoir photography can be a powerful tool for promoting self-love, body positivity, and empowerment. It challenges beauty standards and encourages women to embrace their uniqueness. But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Pumpkin Spice (or, if you...
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55. Unicorn Threesomes Part 2
2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex
How easy is it to line up a threesome as a unicorn? How about going to a sex club as a solo woman? How did Ams and Kat do on their sexy homework for Unicorn Threesomes? Tune in to find out. A Unicorn is a single woman in the lifestyle. She may enjoy meeting and playing with other couples (i.e. - a Unicorn Threesome) or she may engage in all sorts of social and sexual activities with other people in the lifestyle. Don't fence her in! Even though Kat and Ams are not single women, they are both curious to explore the dynamic of a Unicorn Threesome and wanted to...
info_outlineGet ready for the hottest homework of this season!
In this episode, the Wives report back on their sexy homework with Bondage.
But first, if summer shenanigans are making you feel run down, check out this episode's cocktail: the Bourbon Elixir. And trust us, you will want a drink in hand when you listen to Kat's hot tale, steamy foreplay with not one, not two, BUT THREE men.
Then, the Wives share their sexy homework with bondage, including a sexy foursome, Dom/sub play and the kink that cannot be named (...pssst, between you and I, it's a GANG BANG!!!)
Finally, it’s Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore bondage and restraint play.
Four popular types of restraints are: rope, binders, bondage tape and shackles.
Shackles/Cuffs– a great place to start.
Shackles refer to cloth, leather or metal ankle or wrist restraints.
They are easy to put on and do an excellent job of keeping your partner immobilized.
Rope– is super versatile, but a little tricky to use.
The material and type of rope matters. Cotton rope may be a good starting point, because it’s softer on skin.
It can involve suspension. It can be paired with all kinds of other erotic play.
Can change the position of your body so you experience sensation differently.
Binders- Not for Bondage newbies.
The most common form of binders are arm binders, which completely immobilize the wearer’s arms (unlike handcuffs which still give them a little bit of wiggle room).
Another option are leather leg binders, which keep the wearer from bending their knee or moving on their own.
Bondage Tape- If you are looking for sometime quick and pretty.
Unlike regular tape, it only sticks to itself. Not skin or hair Bondage tape can be used to create makeshift hand or ankle cuffs, to secure someone’s hands, legs or almost any body part.
Safety note: with tape play, you need to be careful of nearby candles or heat of any kind. Some adhesives will become too sticky when heated, pulling the top layer of skin off when you go to remove the tape.
To get the low-down on all things Bondage, listen to Part 1 where the Wives interview Kayla Lords, cohost of the podcast Loving BDSM.
A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode! You can check out Abbey’s podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/.
WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT BONDAGE
Check out our Season 1 episode on Impact Play
Our two-part episode on Dungeons (Part 1 and Part 2)
And our BSDM Articles:
Your Sweet, Kinky, Embraceable You
Essential Items for a Home Dungeon.
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