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Quiet The Clock

Release Date: 11/05/2025

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What happens when you freeze your eggs at 39, leave a high-pressure TV career, and finally stop forcing life to follow a script? In this episode of Quiet the Clock, Beth sits down with Julie LaPlaca, who went from producing The Bachelor to becoming a hypnotherapist, to explore fertility, fear, and the art of trusting yourself when society’s timeline grows louder. Julie opens up about her decision to freeze her eggs at 39, the emotional weight of age and societal expectations, and what it really felt like to step away from a career that looked “successful” on paper but no longer fit. She...

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Beth sits down with Amanda for a raw, honest conversation that goes far beyond the clinical side of fertility treatment. Amanda opens up about the emotional and physical toll of IVF, the unique heartbreak of unexplained infertility, and the quiet grief that follows miscarriage. This is the part of the journey most people carry alone. Together, they unpack why so many people feel unprepared for infertility, how little education and support actually exists, and why silence can make an already isolating experience feel unbearable. The conversation moves into the power of community, shared...

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IVF rarely makes room for men and this episode of Quiet The Clock changes that. Beth sits down with Brett Eaton for an unfiltered conversation about what IVF looks like through a male lens. The pressure to stay strong. The quiet grief. The awkward moments no one warns you about and the emotional weight men are expected to carry without a roadmap. Brett shares how fertility treatment challenged his sense of masculinity, and forced him to relearn what support and partnership really mean. Together, Beth and Brett talk about the gaps in fertility education for men, why silence can create distance...

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This episode drops you right into the real-life glow-up of Allie Egan, founder of Veracity Self Care, who went from fashion world chaos to health-world clarity after infertility and Hashimoto’s turned her life inside out. She breaks down what actually helped, what absolutely didn’t, and why so many women are stuck battling symptoms no one seems to connect. Beth shares her own thyroid saga, and together they map the emotional, hormonal, and “why is no one talking about this?” terrain so many women quietly walk. Think raw truth, smart strategy, and a few laugh-through-the-pain moments...

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This episode is incredibly special to Beth because Bijou isn’t just a guest—she’s someone who walked alongside Beth during one of the most pivotal and vulnerable chapters of her life. Bijou’s guidance, healing work, and deep intuition played a profound role in helping Beth reconnect with her body, soften into surrender, and ultimately open the door to her natural conception journey. Get ready for a truly one-of-a-kind conversation with Bijou Finney – The Mushroom Mamasita, Medicine Woman, and Integration Alchemist! In this episode, Beth sits down with Bijou to explore the...

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Get ready, because this episode of Quiet the Clock is a ride. I’m joined by the incredible Katie Bryan, founder of The Single Greatest Choice, and she brings the kind of honesty and “I’m doing life my way” energy we absolutely love around here. Katie opens up about her raw, very real journey to single motherhood by choice — navigating divorce, fertility challenges, miscarriage, and the emotional roller coaster that comes with pursuing motherhood on your own terms. She shares how she shifted from a mindset of scarcity to one rooted in radical self-trust, and how rebuilding her support...

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Male infertility is rarely talked about, but it plays a major role in the fertility journey. Beth sits down with Dr. Michael A. Werner, a leading urologist and expert in male infertility and sexual dysfunction, to break down everything couples need to know but aren’t hearing enough. Together, they dive into the real causes of male infertility, how lifestyle and testosterone therapy impact sperm health, why both partners should be evaluated early, and what modern treatment options actually look like. Dr. Werner sheds light on sperm banking, reproductive aging, and the science behind improving...

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Feeling stuck or pressured to have your life “figured out”? You’re not alone! In this episode of Quiet the Clock, Beth sits down with Ashley Stahl, CEO of Wise Whisper Agency, to shatter the myth of a “linear career.” From national security to career coaching and public speaking, Ashley shares her wild, inspiring journey and the lessons she learned about experimenting, trusting yourself, and leaning into uncertainty. Together, they dive into fear, societal expectations, and the inner work that actually leads to a life that feels authentically yours. You’ll hear how to embrace the...

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In this episode of Quiet The Clock, we’re diving straight into the wild world of modern dating — and trust us, you’re going to want to buckle up. Dating coach and founder of  , Erika Ettin, joins Beth for a refreshingly honest, laugh-out-loud, and seriously helpful conversation about what it really takes to date smarter in 2025. Erika spills her behind-the-scenes insights from the early days of online dating (yes, the glory days of awkward bios and blurry photos), and breaks down the biggest mistakes singles make today — from self-sabotage to mixed signals to the chaotic emotional...

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Beth sits down with Dr. Trish Leigh, a neuro coach, educator, and all-around brain expert, for a fascinating and honest conversation about how our screens are shaping the way we think, feel, and connect. From social media scrolling to online overload, Dr. Leigh breaks down what’s really happening in our brains and why it can feel so hard to unplug. They dive into how screen habits can impact our relationships, our focus, and even our happiness, but also how we can start to rewire our brains for more balance, calm, and connection.

Whether you’re looking to feel more present, cultivate more joy and connection, or simply create a healthier relationship with your devices, this episode offers practical tools and a refreshing perspective to help you find balance in an always-on digital world.

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Dr. Trish Leigh is a cognitive neuroscientist, board-certified neurofeedback practitioner, and certified sex addiction recovery coach. With more than 25 years of experience, she specializes in treating screen-based compulsions and executive dysfunction using brain-based diagnostics and neuroplasticity strategies. Her work draws on qEEG brain mapping, trauma-informed coaching, and addiction neuroscience to help individuals restore brain balance and behavioral integrity. Her latest book, Mind Over Explicit Matter, is a best-seller in the field of porn addiction recovery and digital dependency.

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We Also Talk About:

Neurological effects of screen time and explicit content on adults and children.

The concept of "strained brain" and its impact on mental health and well-being.

The role of dopamine in screen addiction and its effects on behavior and satisfaction.

The long-term consequences of early exposure to explicit material on brain development.

The challenges of behavior change and the importance of addressing neurological dysregulation.

The impact of hypersexualized social media on identity formation and self-regulation.

Parenting strategies for managing children's screen time and fostering healthy technology use.

The relationship between screen addiction and declining fertility rates.

The importance of intentional screen use and creating healthy habits to combat addiction.

The broader cultural implications of screen overuse on social skills, relationships, and emotional health.



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Chapters

Strained Brain & Screen Time Patterns (00:00:00)**  

Dr. Leigh explains "strained brain" patterns from screen time and explicit material, and how screens reinforce stress and exhaustion.

 

**Podcast Introduction, Guest Welcome & Dr. Leigh’s Mission (00:01:56)**  

Host welcomes Dr. Trish Leigh, introduces the podcast’s mission, and Dr. Leigh describes her neuro coaching, global work, and the measurable effects of screens on brain health.

 

**Neuroplasticity, Brain Recovery & Scientific Evidence (00:03:23)**  

Dr. Leigh discusses the brain’s ability to recover through neuroplasticity, and the scientific basis for the effects of screen time and explicit material.

 

**Insidious Nature of Screen Overuse & Behavior Change (00:04:41)**  

Dr. Leigh compares screen overuse to smoking, highlighting secrecy and normalization, and discusses the neurological underpinnings of addictive behaviors.

 

**Supernormal Stimuli, Dopamine Deficit & Real Life Impact (00:07:39)**  

Explanation of how supernormal stimuli like porn and screens create deep neurological changes, dopamine deficits, and reduce enjoyment of real-life experiences and relationships.

 

**Screen Exposure in Children, Parenting & Healthy Use (00:14:08)**  

Concerns about early screen exposure on developing brains, Dr. Leigh’s parenting approach, and advice on intentional, healthy screen use for children.

 

**Compulsion, Addiction, and Brain Dependency (00:21:00)**  

Explanation of the continuum from use to compulsion, how the brain becomes dependent on screen-based dopamine, and the impact on relationships and dating.

 

**Pandemic Effects, Porn-Induced ED & Signs of Problematic Use (00:28:17)**  

COVID-19’s impact on screen/porn use, scientific evidence of porn-induced ED, gender differences, and how to recognize misuse and addiction.

 

**Chronic Stress, Brain Miswiring & Life Consequences (00:39:46)**  

How chronic stress from screens causes cellular dysfunction, miswires children’s brains, and impacts identity, relationships, fertility, and family building.

 

**Neuroplasticity, Prevention & Balancing Screen Use (00:51:27)**  

How to rewire the brain’s pleasure pathways, the importance of prevention and co-regulation, five categories of harm, and challenges of balancing necessary screen use with healthy boundaries.

 

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