Fertility, Dating & Life Pressure — A Therapist Tells It Like It Is
Release Date: 11/12/2025
After The Bachelor: Julie LaPlaca on Fertility, Fear, and Starting Over
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What happens when you freeze your eggs at 39, leave a high-pressure TV career, and finally stop forcing life to follow a script? In this episode of Quiet the Clock, Beth sits down with Julie LaPlaca, who went from producing The Bachelor to becoming a hypnotherapist, to explore fertility, fear, and the art of trusting yourself when society’s timeline grows louder. Julie opens up about her decision to freeze her eggs at 39, the emotional weight of age and societal expectations, and what it really felt like to step away from a career that looked “successful” on paper but no longer fit. She...
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IVF Is a Rollercoaster No One Prepares You For
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Beth sits down with Amanda for a raw, honest conversation that goes far beyond the clinical side of fertility treatment. Amanda opens up about the emotional and physical toll of IVF, the unique heartbreak of unexplained infertility, and the quiet grief that follows miscarriage. This is the part of the journey most people carry alone. Together, they unpack why so many people feel unprepared for infertility, how little education and support actually exists, and why silence can make an already isolating experience feel unbearable. The conversation moves into the power of community, shared...
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The Unspoken Side of IVF: Men, Masculinity, and the Emotional Toll
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IVF rarely makes room for men and this episode of Quiet The Clock changes that. Beth sits down with Brett Eaton for an unfiltered conversation about what IVF looks like through a male lens. The pressure to stay strong. The quiet grief. The awkward moments no one warns you about and the emotional weight men are expected to carry without a roadmap. Brett shares how fertility treatment challenged his sense of masculinity, and forced him to relearn what support and partnership really mean. Together, Beth and Brett talk about the gaps in fertility education for men, why silence can create distance...
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The Fertility - Thyroid Connection Every Woman Needs to Hear
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This episode drops you right into the real-life glow-up of Allie Egan, founder of Veracity Self Care, who went from fashion world chaos to health-world clarity after infertility and Hashimoto’s turned her life inside out. She breaks down what actually helped, what absolutely didn’t, and why so many women are stuck battling symptoms no one seems to connect. Beth shares her own thyroid saga, and together they map the emotional, hormonal, and “why is no one talking about this?” terrain so many women quietly walk. Think raw truth, smart strategy, and a few laugh-through-the-pain moments...
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How a Guided Psychedelic Mushroom Experience Transformed My Fertility and Life
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This episode is incredibly special to Beth because Bijou isn’t just a guest—she’s someone who walked alongside Beth during one of the most pivotal and vulnerable chapters of her life. Bijou’s guidance, healing work, and deep intuition played a profound role in helping Beth reconnect with her body, soften into surrender, and ultimately open the door to her natural conception journey. Get ready for a truly one-of-a-kind conversation with Bijou Finney – The Mushroom Mamasita, Medicine Woman, and Integration Alchemist! In this episode, Beth sits down with Bijou to explore the...
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Single, Empowered, and Creating Family on My Terms
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Get ready, because this episode of Quiet the Clock is a ride. I’m joined by the incredible Katie Bryan, founder of The Single Greatest Choice, and she brings the kind of honesty and “I’m doing life my way” energy we absolutely love around here. Katie opens up about her raw, very real journey to single motherhood by choice — navigating divorce, fertility challenges, miscarriage, and the emotional roller coaster that comes with pursuing motherhood on your own terms. She shares how she shifted from a mindset of scarcity to one rooted in radical self-trust, and how rebuilding her support...
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How Men’s Health Impacts Fertility: What Doctors Wish You Knew Sooner
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Male infertility is rarely talked about, but it plays a major role in the fertility journey. Beth sits down with Dr. Michael A. Werner, a leading urologist and expert in male infertility and sexual dysfunction, to break down everything couples need to know but aren’t hearing enough. Together, they dive into the real causes of male infertility, how lifestyle and testosterone therapy impact sperm health, why both partners should be evaluated early, and what modern treatment options actually look like. Dr. Werner sheds light on sperm banking, reproductive aging, and the science behind improving...
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Stop Playing It Safe: How Experimenting Can Totally Transform Your Life
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Feeling stuck or pressured to have your life “figured out”? You’re not alone! In this episode of Quiet the Clock, Beth sits down with Ashley Stahl, CEO of Wise Whisper Agency, to shatter the myth of a “linear career.” From national security to career coaching and public speaking, Ashley shares her wild, inspiring journey and the lessons she learned about experimenting, trusting yourself, and leaning into uncertainty. Together, they dive into fear, societal expectations, and the inner work that actually leads to a life that feels authentically yours. You’ll hear how to embrace the...
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Naturally Pregnant at 44: How IVF Did Not Work For Me And What Did
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In this deeply moving episode, Beth opens up about her personal fertility journey, a path marked by heartbreak, hope, and unwavering determination. From multiple rounds of IVF and devastating miscarriages to unexpected health challenges, she shares the raw, unfiltered emotions behind the struggle to build a family. Now, seven months pregnant at 44, Beth reflects on the lessons learned along the way: the courage to advocate for herself, the healing power of surrender, and the incredible resilience required to keep going when hope feels distant. She candidly explores the gaps in fertility care,...
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Why You're Not The Problem - You're Just In Your Own Way With Dating Coach Erika Ettin
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In this episode of Quiet The Clock, we’re diving straight into the wild world of modern dating — and trust us, you’re going to want to buckle up. Dating coach and founder of , Erika Ettin, joins Beth for a refreshingly honest, laugh-out-loud, and seriously helpful conversation about what it really takes to date smarter in 2025. Erika spills her behind-the-scenes insights from the early days of online dating (yes, the glory days of awkward bios and blurry photos), and breaks down the biggest mistakes singles make today — from self-sabotage to mixed signals to the chaotic emotional...
info_outlineHave questions about fertility, dating, or the pressure to “have it all figured out”? Psychotherapist Beth Gulotta is here to answer them honestly, openly, and with her signature mix of humor and heart. In this new question-and-answer style episode, she dives into real questions from real viewers, offering professional insights you won’t hear anywhere else.
From navigating the emotional ups and downs of fertility struggles to figuring out how to date in a world full of expectations, Beth combines her personal stories, clinical expertise, and practical tips to help you live life on your own terms.
Get ready for a Q&A that’s full of laughs, surprises, and aha moments. Perfect for anyone tired of society’s timelines and ready to embrace their own path with confidence, curiosity, and a little bit of fun!
We Also Talk About:
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The power of personal narratives and self-reflection in overcoming challenges.
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The importance of pursuing education and new goals at any age.
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Strategies for handling judgment as an older mother and embracing personal journeys.
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The emotional and financial aspects of fertility struggles, including IVF.
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Support for embryo adoption as a valid family-building option.
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The influence of personal fertility experiences on professional therapy practices.
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The need for earlier discussions about fertility and societal expectations.
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Navigating age gap dating and the significance of emotional maturity over age.
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Managing dating burnout and the importance of taking breaks.
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The impact of life changes on friendships and the need for self-care in relationships.
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Chapters
**The Power of Self-Narratives (00:00:00)**
Beth discusses the importance of reframing self-talk and reflecting on patterns, especially regarding being single.
**Podcast Intro & Bracelet Promotion (00:00:26)**
Intro music and promotion of Little Words Project bracelets as inspirational reminders.
**Welcome & Audience Q&A Format (00:01:33)**
Beth introduces the episode’s Q&A format with questions from the audience, facilitated by Shelly.
**Is It Too Late to Start Over? (00:01:52)**
Beth reassures a 47-year-old listener that it’s never too late to go back to school or start again.
**Handling Judgment as an Older Mother & IVF Struggles (00:02:55)**
Beth shares her experience with judgment for becoming a mother in her 40s, normalizes losing hope during fertility treatments, and discusses financial planning for IVF.
**Thoughts on Embryo Adoption & Fertility Journey’s Impact (00:05:15)**
Beth expresses support for embryo adoption, references a guest’s story, and explains how her fertility journey has shaped her therapy practice.
**Openness About Fertility & Early Education (00:06:17)**
Beth discusses balancing privacy with openness about her journey and advocates for more education and open conversations about fertility earlier in life.
**Dating: Age Gaps, Burnout, and Shame (00:07:22)**
Beth addresses concerns about dating someone younger, reframes the idea of wasted time in relationships, and encourages self-reflection to overcome shame about dating later in life.
**Friendships, Culture Change, and Podcast Inspiration (00:12:13)**
Beth discusses grieving friendship changes due to life events, reflects on technological advances in fertility and dating, and shares what inspired her to start the podcast.
**Advice, Favorite Episodes, and Closing (00:14:26)**
Beth urges women not to feel behind, recommends browsing episodes by topic, and expresses gratitude for listeners.
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