My Birthday // Dying to Live, Part 3
A Different Perspective Official Podcast
Release Date: 04/02/2025
A Different Perspective Official Podcast
Imagine just for a moment that you’re blind and all of a sudden, your sight is restored. What would that be like? How would it feel? As a young man I used to have 20/20 vision but like just about everyone else, when you get to your late 30s and early 40s the old vision gets a bit blurred, and I needed glasses. These days I wouldn’t even think of driving a car or reading a book without the old multifocals. When you think about it, little by little without us even noticing, our vision becomes distorted. It’s like that with glaucoma too, little by little people lose their sight and by the...
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It must be an amazing feeling for a prisoner to be set free after years of incarceration. I wonder when they step out of the prison – what that freedom looks like, tastes like, smells like. I’m not sure if you every saw that movie in the mid 90’s called The Shawshank Redemption with Morgan Freeman. But it’s about two men essentially who find themselves in jail, one played by Morgan Freeman is there because he committed murder, the other one is there because he’s been framed. Anyhow there’s a scene in the movie where the Morgan Freeman character finally gets parole after decades,...
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Most of us like to watch the news, or listen to it on the radio, or read the newspaper. But really, there’s precious little good news these days. It all seems to be bad news, especially for the poor. But Jesus said that He had good news for the poor. So what did He mean? One of the little rituals that I love to perform every night is to watch the evening news on television. It’s just, I don’t know, my way of unwinding for the day and I guess it’s my way of finding out what’s been going on at home and around the world. But have you noticed whether you watch it on TV or listen to it on...
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Believe it or not, God has this edgy, amazing plan to change us on the inside through His love and mercy and grace ... and then for that to work its way to the outside – in what we say and do. That’s the plan. I love meeting people where what I see is what I get. The person that I see on the outside is the person who they are on the inside even, you know, if they're a bit abrasive on the outside at least you know what you're getting. It's the people who pretend to be one thing to your face and then they go around behind your back and tell other people what they really think, they're the...
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Sometimes what we do on the outside reflects what’s happening on the inside. Other times, we try to hide what’s happening on the inside by behaving differently on the outside. And in the long run – that just doesn’t work. Something we love to do, it comes pretty naturally, is to have a disconnect between our spirituality or our faith on the one hand and our lives on the other. Maybe we go to Church on a Sunday, that sacred zone over there, you know you go there and you sing songs and you worship God. "Oh God, you're so wonderful, I love you so much, I exalt you above all. Lord, I...
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Some people are so busy doing stuff, they don’t have time for relationships. Other people are so relationship-focused that they never actually get anything done. So, which one is better? Most of us understand the concept of smelling roses. We're so busy, so flat out running around doing stuff that we don't take the time to smell the roses, to stop and pause and wonder and think and enjoy God’s creation. How many husbands take the time to woo their wives? How many fathers these days take the time to go to their son’s football game or their daughters dance concert? How many people take the...
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Love is something that begins in the heart. So is hatred. In fact, just about everything we say and do on the outside, begins with what’s happening on the inside. The same holds true for – worship. One of the things that we all kind of know is that the great achievements that we have on the outside all start on the inside. Somewhere deep in her heart a little girl dreams of being a great athlete. She nurtures that dream. Every morning she's up at 4.00 am to go to training, day after day, month after month, year after year. It's that thing that's been going on in her heart that sustains...
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It turns out that we all worship something. Success. Money. God – whoever that might be. There’s invariably something that dominates the way we feel, think and live. I'm not much into religion per se, you know the whole structured ritual thing but one of the great spiritual concepts that sometimes gets tagged with religious baggage is this idea of worship. Well when you hear the word worship, what does it mean to you? People who don't have any particular faith in God might see it as something that religious people might do in Churches or temples, maybe candles and incense or chanting and...
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If only. If only she’d want to hold my hand still. If only she’d touch my cheek like she used to. It’s funny how as we get busier in life, we become less and less intimate in our marriage. Here’s a cold, hard, statistic – depending of course in which country you live in. Somewhere between 30 and 45% of all marriages end in divorce. In California the registry of births, deaths and marriages is now known as the registry of births, deaths, marriages and divorces. Is it because people don’t set out wanting to love one another? No! Is it because 30 to 45% of...
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She’s flat out running the kids around, cleaning, cooking, all the stuff she thinks she should do. And he’s just lonely. She never has time for me. He never helps me! This week on A Different Perspective we’re taking a bit of a look at what it means to communicate our love for one another in the context of marriage. You know I believe that marriage is just one of the most amazing gifts that God can bless us with, but sometimes husbands and wives get so frustrated because they don’t know how to love one another. And that is just so frustrating because you’re doing your best. You think...
info_outlineA few weeks ago, I celebrated one of those milestone birthdays. So what. We all have a birthday. Easy though to get self-absorbed about things – to imagine somehow that we’re at the centre of the universe. Easier it turns out, than many of us think.
As I said, a few weeks ago, I celebrated one of those milestone birthdays ... 66 years since I breathed my first breath. So I was thinking … whoa, stop, don’t turn it off! I’m not going to talk about myself for the next ten minutes; I was just trying to make a point.
You know those people in life who only ever talk about themselves? Their life, what’s going on in their world, they never stop. They never even think to ask you, “How are you going, what’s going on in your world, how are you feeling?” No, no, they're so utterly self absorbed it wouldn’t even enter their mind. Sure it’s my birthday today, that’s nice, happy birthday Berni, but sometime in the next three hundred and sixty five days you’re gong to have a birthday too. And it’s the same with everyone else that you and I know. Contrary to popular belief the universe does not revolve around you or me.
Let me introduce you to a young polish astronomer called Nick. He came up with a radical theory, in fact so radical that he was branded a heretic by the church. Nick’s last name is Copernicus. Now young Nick, between about 1517 and 1530 wrote a treatise called, “On the Revolution of Celestial Spheres”. Up until then people basically believed that the earth was in the centre of the universe and that all the other heavenly bodies, all the stars and the sun and the moon, everything else revolved around the earth. And Copernicus thought about this and he looked at how the other planets were moving and he deduced that the sun was at the centre of our solar system, and that the earth was just one of the planets revolving around the sun.
Now, a full century later in the ecclesiastical trial of Galileo, (that means that the church tried him for heresy) here’s another great scientist who believed in the Capernaum theory. They officially suppressed Copernicus’s idea that the earth wasn’t in the centre of the universe, that in fact the sun was in the centre of our solar system. So the church was geocentric, the earth is in the centre, and the scientists were heliocentric, the sun is in the centre and they were called heretics.
Now, today any 7 year old kid knows that the earth revolves around the sun. It rotates on its axis, the axis is tilted at 23 ½ degrees, that’s why we have the seasons. But in the 16th and 17th Centuries that kind of thinking was heretical.
"Berni, why the history lesson?" Because in a sense it’s exactly the same today. The more affluent a society becomes the more entrenched becomes the theory that I or you are in the centre of the universe. You challenge that; you say I don’t think it's working that well. You dare to suggest that there’s a God who sent His Son to die for you and me, and the world will call you a heretic. But we know that this self-centric thing doesn’t work any better than the earth-centric view of the universe explains the movement of all these bodies in the sky. Just doesn’t work!
And people end up living a lie that is self absorbing. We talked about those people at the beginning of the program. You know the sort of people who only ever talk about themselves. We know it doesn’t work because they’re boring. You can’t stand hanging around those people for more than ten minutes.
There’s a sea called the Dead Sea, and the reason that it’s called the Dead Sea is because it has the Jordan River flowing into it, but it doesn’t have any outflows, so all this water is flowing in, nothing flowing out. It’s seven times saltier than the ocean, its twenty seven per cent solid substances in the water. It supports no life whatsoever, none! Because for there to be life there needs to be an inflow and there needs to be an outflow. But unfortunately the Dead Sea only has an inflow, and the same is true of people. If you put yourself at the centre and expect everything to flow in there’s no life at all. That’s why!
We’re not designed to be like the Dead Sea, it’s a paradox. The world’s saying put yourself at the centre let everything flow in, it doesn’t work! People are dying to live an exciting, people are dying to have a life that’s just worth living. We all want a great life, but in a sense we have to die to live, in a sense we have to accept that there’s got to be an out flow, that life has to be about things flowing out rather than things just flowing in.
Jesus said, “Come to me, come to me and drink, come to me and drink this living water.” He wasn’t talking about the Dead Sea! And then he said:
Out of your belly will run rivers of living water.
Rivers! Not a trickle, not a stream, not one river, RIVERS of living water. Let me ask you something, is your life one of those lives where you try and pour stuff in, but you never give anything out and if it is how satisfying is that? How much, let me be really direct here, how much does your life represent the circumference of the Dead Sea? Where we expect everything to flow in, we’re not prepared to give anything out, we wonder, we wonder why life isn’t worth living. We wonder why this doesn’t support abundant life.
Who or what is at the centre of your universe? Are you at the centre of your universe? Am I at the centre of my universe? Because if that’s the model that we have dumped on our head it’s how we live our life, it’s going to be like the Dead Sea. It’s not going to support abundant life, in fact it won’t support any life, it will be devoid of any satisfaction – that’s the paradox.
You try and stuffing stuff in but it never satisfies. Are we at the centre of our universe or is God at the centre of our universe? There are people who will say, “Berni, you’re a loony, you know, talking about God in this day and age, come on!” God is no less real than the sun that the earth rotates around, and it doesn’t matter how much they tried to suppress Copernicus' theory, it doesn’t matter how much they said he was a heretic, it doesn’t matter how much they gave Galileo a hard time for believing it – it was still true. The sun is at the centre of our solar system and we are one of the planets that revolve around us.
God has a Son … God has a Son called Jesus and it doesn’t matter how much people say, “Oh yeah that’s all old fashioned, I’m not going to listen to that, you’re a fundamentalist.” Doesn’t matter how much they say that, it doesn’t change the truth, that Jesus Christ is the Son of God.
And when we look at this model of putting ourselves in the centre, when we look at the Dead Sea approach, does it work? Does it work, is it any better than someone who says that the earth is at the centre of the universe, just look around, does it work? Look around at the wars that are being fought, look around at the intolerance, look around at the greed and the selfishness, look around at the government systems that promote the notion of the only thing that matters in government is improving financial wellbeing. Does it work? Do we feel any better off?
Who’s at the centre of your universe? Is it you or is it God? Is it you? Is it Jesus? Who do you want to have at the centre of your universe? What sort of life do you want to have? A Dead Sea life or the life that Jesus gives? The life that has rivers of living water flowing from God into you and from you out to other people? What sort of a life do you want? Tomorrow on "A Different Perspective" we’ll take a look at how to make the transition.