EP46: How Do I Freaking Raise My Kids These Days

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Miss Amber delves into the heartfelt journey of parenting—balancing responsibilities, nurturing independence, and embracing the inevitable imperfections along the way. Whether you're a new parent, an experienced one, or preparing to start a family, this episode offers invaluable insights into raising confident, capable children.

Key Highlights:

[00:00 - 02:00] Introduction and Personal Reflection

• Miss Amber opens up about her journey in early childhood education and parenting five kids.
• The overwhelming information overload today versus relying on books in the past.

[02:01 - 03:00] The Weight of Parenting

• Discussing the normality of feeling overwhelmed as a new parent.
• The pressure of raising well-rounded human beings and making inevitable mistakes.

[03:01 - 05:00] Teaching Independence Early

• Miss Amber’s personal experience of teaching her kids to cook from a young age.
• How small responsibilities, like meal planning and cooking, helped her children become more self-sufficient.

[05:01 - 06:30] Embracing the Chaos of a Full House

• Sharing a heartwarming moment with her adult children cooking and interacting, reflecting on their growth.
• The joy of watching them thrive as independent adults.

[06:31 - 07:30] Parenting is Lifelong Learning

• How each phase of parenting—from early childhood to adulthood—is a continuous learning experience.
• Recognizing that every child is different and requires unique approaches.

[07:31 - 08:30] Giving Grace to Yourself and Your Kids

• A reminder to extend grace to yourself and your children when mistakes happen.
• Emphasizing growth, learning, and doing better without striving for perfection.

[08:31 - 10:00] Fostering Confidence and Responsibility

• Encouraging children to take ownership of their needs, from ordering food at a restaurant to taking on age-appropriate chores.
• Promoting independence from a young age, helping children build confidence and life skills.

[10:01 - 11:30] Avoiding Labels and Letting Kids Find Their Own Way

• The importance of not boxing children into specific labels like “smart” or “athletic.”
• Praising effort and character, allowing children to grow into their unique identities.

[11:31 - 13:00] Open Communication and Setting Realistic Expectations

• Encouraging parents to check if their dreams align with their children's passions.
• Keeping communication open to help children express their needs and desires freely.

 

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Website: www.thelovingstartway.com

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Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.

 

Thank you for tuning in!              

Tweetable Quotes:

“Accept that you want to do better.” – Ms. Amber

“Always learn and always want to do better.” – Ms. Amber

“Part of being a parent is being a teacher, a leader, through grace and kindness for our kids, but leading by example.” – Ms. Amber

“One day it’s gonna so fast. They’re going to fly and it’s my job to teach my kids how to fly.” - Ms. Amber

“Boundaries, love, kindness, respect, nurturing and expectations are really good things for our kids.” – Ms. Amber