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MEN, SEX AND DESIRE WITH DR SARAH HUNTER MURRAY

Release Date: 01/16/2026

SEXUAL HEALING, DESIRE AND SELF PLEASURING

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Do you ever feel like there’s some sort of numbness, pain or disconnection that is somehow blocking you from truly enjoying a healthy sexual connection with yourself and your partners? Perhaps you’re holding on to feelings that no longer serve you, but you don’t know how to free yourself from this negativity. Join us with Transformational Coach, Missy Garcia, as we get into all the different ways to reclaim your sexual pleasure and recreate your relationship by using yoni massage and self-pleasure to connect with your divine feminine energy. Even if you have experienced sexual trauma,...

SEXUAL INTIMACY, LOVE AND CONNECTION

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Does your sex life feel like you’re simply co-masturbating with your partner? Are you missing the connection and intimacy that you expect from real love-making? Join us with Tantrika, , as we discuss why couples default to “just having sex” instead of exploring a higher level of intimate connection. She explains the difference between an orgasm and an orgasmic state and talks about how to engage in tantric intimacy that can last for hours. GUEST: KATRINA BOS BIO: is a Canadian speaker, author, and Tantrika who focuses on intimacy, energy work, and personal transformation....

TOPLESS TRAVEL - ORGIES, COMMUNICATION AND STRONG COUPLES

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Are you still trying to figure out how to embrace a sudden sexual awakening, like bisexuality or a specific sexual fantasy, in the middle of a committed relationship? Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica with Topless Travel as we chat with a seasoned lifestyle couple, Katie and Andrew all about what it’s like being a hostess at Hedonism and on the Bliss Cruise, how it elevates their connection and adds sexual energy to their relationship. Tantalizing Trips with Topless Travel Our unique, lifestyle adventures span from exotic resort takeovers to exotic tours and...

SEXUAL EXPLORATION AND FANTASY ROLE-PLAY WITH DR CAROL QUEEN

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Are you looking for ways to make your sexy time more fun and pleasurable? You might want to think bigger by adding fantasy role-play and some new toys to help you break the monotony. Join us with Sexologist, Dr Carol Queen, from Good Vibrations, as we dive deep into the benefits of using sex toys with your partner for a more meaningful and bonded experience, especially as we age – because aging should not hamper your intimacy. Sexy has no expiry date! GUEST: DR CAROL QUEEN BIO: Dr. Carol Queen is an Award-winning author, activist and sex educator with a Ph.D. in Human...

HEDONISM - WINSTON'S SINFUL SEDUCTIONS III

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

If you’re looking for a journey into fantasy, desire, and unapologetic pleasure, then you should consider a trip to Hedo II this summer. Join us on location from on Negril Beach in Jamaica, as we chat with Winston, Hedo’s entertainment manager, all about Hedo’s Signature Events, particularly Winston’s own weeklong event, “,” scheduled from August 27th to September 1st and find out what makes his event a unique and unforgettable experience. Guest: Winston Bartley BIO: Winston Bartley serves as the Entertainment Manager and the very essence of , Jamaica. He has expertly fused...

BLISS CRUISE 2.0 - THE ENHANCED EXPERIENCE - WITH DAWN AND RUSSELL

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Are you wondering if the Bliss Cruise experience has changed since the new acquisition by an investor group led by Russell Stephens one year ago? – The answer is “Hell Yes, it has!” Join us on board the - Radiance of the Seas - together with the Marketing and Communications Manager, Dawn Kraushar, and CEO Russell Stephens, as we get into talking about the upgrades responsible for the elevated experience on The Bliss Cruise, including the new Bliss App, the Loyalty Club, the expansion of onboard entertainment, and a complete overhaul of the playrooms. We'll also get into what we can...

TOPLESS TRAVEL - UNICORNS AND THE SEXY LIFESTYLE

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Would you ever consider sailing on the Bliss Cruise as one of the elusive “unicorns in the lifestyle”? Join us on location from the Bliss Cruise with as we chat with two sexy unicorns, Amber and Rachal, who are part of the Topless Travel Host Team you’ll see on all the Bliss Cruise sailings. We’ll share some good laughs as they reveal their experiences as single females enjoying the non-stop party atmosphere. You'll want to listen to the end! Tantalizing Trips with Our unique, lifestyle adventures span from exotic resort takeovers to exotic tours and soul-stirring cruises....

THE SURE THING TO REVIVE YOUR SEX LIFE WITH ELANA AUERBACH

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Are you struggling to break free from shame, conditioning, and the pressure to “perform” intimacy. Join us with Elana Auerbach, Author of , as she explains her pleasure practice as a clear, fun, and accessible weekly ritual to help couples reconnect with desire and each other. GUEST: Elana Auerbach BIO: is a lover, mother, mentor, activist, and priestess. She spent her childhood and young adulthood on what she calls “the conveyor belt of life,” being the good girl and doing what others expected of her. This looked like graduating Phi Beta Kappa from UCLA, working on Wall Street for a...

HEDONISM II CARES WITH FIONA AND DIANA

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Today, our show is going to be a little different. We’ll be focusing on the devastating effects of Hurricane Melissa, the Category 5 storm that hit Jamaica in October 2025. Join us from location at Hedonism 2 Resort, Negil Breach, Jamaica as we chat with Fiona and Diana, 2 Hedo employees, to understand how the severe and immediate impact of the hurricane was felt heavily by the staff community, many of whom reside in the hardest hit areas, and how Hedo helped, and continues to help, in the recovery effort. Hurricane Melissa Hurricane Melissa made landfall as a devastating...

TOPLESS TRAVEL - SEXY BUCKET-LIST TRIPS AND THE INFAMOUS ANAL SEX STORY

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Have you been contemplating taking an exotic, erotic vacation? Perhaps you have some “bucket-list” destinations and adventures that you want to explore with compatible, open-minded people. Join us on board , as we chat with seasoned travelers and one of the Host Couples, Alice and Jeff, as we get personal sharing their experiences, about pushing their sexual boundaries with sexy, open-minded, people where they get to re-connect and create lots of friendships and memories together. Their sexy stories are hot and sensual… just what you need to get tempted to book your very own sexy...

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Are you looking to find out more about men’s sexual desire? Perhaps you are wondering if all men are supposed to have a high sex drive, crave sex and enjoy sex more than women? Why is no one is talking about men’s emotional vulnerability with respect to sexual desire?

Join us with Sex Researcher and Relationship Therapist, Dr Sarah Hunter Murray, Author of the book, Not Always in the Mood: The New Science on Men, Sex, and Relationships, as we bust a number of myths surrounding men and their desire and dive deep into how great sex and relationships are suffering from these long-held misconceptions.

GUEST: Dr Sarah Hunter Murray

BIO:

I’m a believer that better sex is possible.

Longer-term relationships and marriages get a bad rap for being monotonous and routine. But when relationships are healthy, loving, safe, and supportive, they also offer opportunities to explore and embrace our sexuality fully and authentically.

How do I know?

I’ve spent nearly two decades learning everything I can about intimacy and how people connect.

I’m a Registered Marriage and Family Therapist (RMFT), and obtained my PhD in Human Sexuality.

I’ve researched what turns us on, when we want sex (and when and why we don’t), the biggest misconceptions we have about men and women’s sexuality, and what the rest of us can learn from the most sexually satisfied couples.

Along the way I’ve written a book, become a regularly sought-after sex expert for numerous media outlets, and authored dozens of articles for Psychology Today on topics like:

Low Sexual Desire/Libido
Mismatched Sexual Desires
Sexual Incompatibility
Sexual Arousal and Orgasmic Difficulties
Erectile Dysfunction
Premature Ejaculation
Affairs
Pornography
Sexual Abuse
Sexual Trauma

BOOK: Not Always in the Mood: The New Science on Men, Sex, and Relationships

Men’s sexual desire has long been depicted as high, simple, and unwavering. But the new research around men’s desire tells us this is far from true; and that good sex and relationships are suffering from these long-held misconceptions. In Not Always in the Mood: The New Science on Men, Sex, and Relationships sex researcher and relationship therapist Sarah Hunter Murray presents a lively, timely, and critical exploration of the newest, most surprising science on men and sex, shattering myths about men’s sexuality and helping today’s couples connect more deeply and authentically than ever before.

One-by-one, Murray examines the most detrimental, deep-held beliefs we as a society promote around men and their desire, and dive into how they affect our intimate relationships daily – and what to do about it. Do men actually crave and enjoy sex more than women? Do men “do the wanting” and prefer the chase? Where do they stand on sexual rejection? What’s the deal with porn? Answering these questions and more, this is a book for modern women and men alike. Moving beyond typical “here’s what he likes” sexual tips, the book empowers readers and offers a completely new perspective on sexuality that will validate men’s experiences and help their partners to a greater understanding of the psychology and emotions surrounding them.

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