71. Why Can't I Leave Him?
Tell Me How You're Mighty: Real Talk About Cheating
Release Date: 01/02/2025
93. Crazy Cheater Reactions to Being Caught
Tell Me How You're Mighty: Real Talk About Cheating
You never know what kind of reaction you'll get when you confront a cheater. On the one hand are the stone cold freaks with no adaptive anxiety. They lean into their lies and never break a sweat. Even in the face of hard evidence. Alternatively, are the cheaters who completely lose their composure. To the guy who had a meltdown and hopped away in a sleeping bag, to others who feign psychiatric crises. In this episode we hear about your cheaters' craziest reactions to being busted.
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92. What Else Didn't You Know About?
Tell Me How You're Mighty: Real Talk About Cheating
Besides the cheating, what else didn't you know about? Listeners tell us the details of their cheaters double lives beyond the sex. The missing monies. The hooker habit. An entire other family. Where there's one secret, you may find others.
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91. Reconciliation and the Dave Grohl Baby Mama Drama
Tell Me How You're Mighty: Real Talk About Cheating
In this episode Tracy gives her take on the news that Dave Grohl and his wife Jordyn Blum have decided to reconcile. While Grohl simultaneously has committed himself to being a "hands on" father with his daughter by his affair partner. Could we please change the discourse that single parents aren't family enough? And stop the assumption that everyone needs the FW in their lives? Just cash the check and live your own life.
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90. Her Husband Swears He Isn't Gay, He Just Cheats with Men
Tell Me How You're Mighty: Real Talk About Cheating
Tracy and Sarah respond to a listener's dilemma about her husband. He's cheating with men, but swears he's not gay. She's trying to get him into sex addiction therapy. Also, a Fuckwit of the Week submission -- exotic vacations discoveries to which you weren't invited.
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89. Should You Tell the Children About the Affair?
Tell Me How You're Mighty: Real Talk About Cheating
In this episode, we react to an atrocious column in the New York Times by therapist Lori Gottlieb, where a woman asks if she should be honest with her children about their father's cheating and the resulting divorce. Gottlieb shames the woman for even considering speaking of her betrayal and defers to the man's narrative instead. (You drove him to it.) Sarah and Tracy weigh in.
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88. Stupid Cheater Life Plans
Tell Me How You're Mighty: Real Talk About Cheating
Did you thwart a cheater's happiness? Are you the obstacle to their greatness? In this episode Tracy and Sarah explore stupid cheater life plans. The grass is always greener on the other side of whatever they committed to. Including you. Listeners share the impulsive schemes and dreams, the alpaca farm, the missionary job that wasn't, and the lost opportunity to be a kiteboarder.
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87. Worst Reconciliation Advice You Got
Tell Me How You're Mighty: Real Talk About Cheating
If you just discovered your partner cheating, chances are you got some common reconciliaton advice like "Wait 6 months before you make a decision." Or "Don't tell anyone." Or moronic warnings about "affair fog." (They know not what they do! Maybe if you wait patiently they'll return to you and it will Make Your Marriage Stronger!) In this episode, listeners tell us the worst, victim-blaming, nonsensical advice they got after D-Day.
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86. Stop Labeling Partners of Sex Addicts "Codependent" - An Interview with Diane Strickland
Tell Me How You're Mighty: Real Talk About Cheating
In this re-edited interview, we talk with trauma specialist Diane Strickland and creator of the site about sex addiction and partners being labeled "codependent." Why women are shamed for their anger. And much more.
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85. Sexually Deceptive People -- An Interview with Dr. Omar Minwalla
Tell Me How You're Mighty: Real Talk About Cheating
In this re-edited version of an earlier recording, Sarah and Tracy spoke with Dr. Omar Minwalla, a therapist who is known for his work "The Secret Sexual Basement." He sees infidelity as abusive and a sexual deception problem, which makes him something of an outlier in the therapy community. We talk about his model, infidelity as abuse, and how to change the narrative with mental health professionals.
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84. Affair Proofing Your Marriage and Andrew G. Marshall
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In this re-edited version of an early broadcast, Tracy and Sarah challenge therapist Andrew G. Marshall on his promise that marriages can be affair-proofed. Did he say that? Was he taken out of context when he told women that they must apologize to their unfaithful husbands?
info_outlineTracy responds to a woman, Beth, who writes in to say she can't seem to leave her partner even though she's deeply unhappy. She has shady, circumstantial evidence of cheating, but hasn't caught him. But meanwhile he's inappropriate with other women and has a porn addiction. She's not financially dependent on him, so what exactly is keeping her stuck?