God is Your Source, Not Your Self-Help Plan | EP 403
Even If Podcast with Adrian Ward Jr.
Release Date: 03/05/2025
Smiling in Public, Struggling in Private | Ep #604
Even If Podcast with Adrian Ward Jr.
What happens when you're smiling at church… but fighting in the car five minutes before service? In this powerful episode of the Even If Podcast, Adrian Ward Jr. opens up about the real tension between public faith and private struggle. We talk about: • Arguing in the church parking lot • Choosing prayer over pride • Serving while hurting • Not being what you did • The danger of bottling things up • Why you need an outlet, not just a position • How to actually build intimacy with God This episode is about awareness. It’s about humility. It’s about asking yourself honestly:...
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God Gave You the Dream, Not the Timeline | Joseph’s Story & Learning to Trust God | Ep #603
Even If Podcast with Adrian Ward Jr.
In this episode of the Even If Podcast, Adrian Ward Jr. and Luke dive deep into the story of Joseph and what it really means to steward a God-given dream. What happens when God gives you a vision for your life, but you try to chase it ahead of His timing? Through personal testimony, biblical reflection, and honest conversation, this episode unpacks how ambition, impatience, comparison, and sharing dreams with the wrong people can derail what God is doing in your life. Joseph never chased his dream. Instead, he stayed faithful in every season: betrayal, slavery, prison, and obscurity. This...
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Have you washed any feet lately? | Ep #602
Even If Podcast with Adrian Ward Jr.
In this emotional and faith-driven episode, the hosts discuss the dangers of getting ahead of God’s plan. One shares a personal story of chasing a dream that led to stress, family strain, and his wife’s emotional breakdown. This wake-up call forced him to quit his job and realign his priorities with God’s will. Using the example of Jesus washing His disciples' feet from John 13, they emphasize servant leadership—especially in the home. The episode challenges men to stop neglecting their families and instead humble themselves, be present, and serve their wives and children...
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Alignment After Impact: Finding God in the Wreckage | Ep #601
Even If Podcast with Adrian Ward Jr.
In this powerful Season 6 premiere, Adrian and Luke dive deep into what it means to be spiritually aligned — especially after life's unexpected collisions. Fresh off a serious car accident, Adrian reflects on physical and emotional healing, while the brothers explore how trauma, complacency, and disunity can pull believers out of spiritual alignment. With honesty, humor, and biblical truth, they challenge listeners to stop numbing the pain and instead lean into the chiseling work of God. Whether you're struggling with past hurt, feeling out of sync in your marriage, or simply seeking clarity...
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Accountability Hurts, But It Heals: Real Talk on Friendship, Marriage & Growth | Ep #506
Even If Podcast with Adrian Ward Jr.
In this raw and real episode of the Even If Podcast, Adrian Ward Jr. and Luke dive deep into the uncomfortable—but necessary—truth about accountability. What does real accountability look like? Are you truly open to being corrected by the people closest to you? Or are you just venting, without any intent to grow? From friendships that speak truth in love, to marriages built on correction and compassion, this episode challenges us to grow up spiritually, emotionally, and relationally. You'll hear personal stories, honest reflections, and Godly wisdom on: How to give AND receive real...
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Weak Men, Strong God: Redefining Masculinity Through Christ | Ep #504
Even If Podcast with Adrian Ward Jr.
In this real and unfiltered episode of The Even If Podcast, Adrian and Luke dive deep into one of the toughest conversations for men today: weakness disguised as strength. From the rise of “alpha male” culture to the biblical examples of King Saul, David, Peter, and Paul, the hosts challenge the hollow masculinity pushed by modern influencers. They unpack why true manhood is not about dominance, but about humility, accountability, and the courage to be transparent. Adrian shares from his own experience in marriage and faith, revealing how real strength is built through repentance,...
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Anchored Not Perfect ft. Pastor Johnny Moore | Ep #504
Even If Podcast with Adrian Ward Jr.
In this powerful sit down, Adrian welcomes longtime friend and guest Johnny Moore to unpack his new book, Anchored: Finding Strength in Your Struggle, and a message aimed especially at men who feel adrift. From therapy and transparency to generational patterns and fatherhood, Johnny shares how God met him in the middle of mistakes and taught him that you are not what you have done. Together they dig into how to build environments where men can speak freely, why worship can steady a hectic life, and how identity in Christ becomes the true anchor when storms hit. This is honest, hopeful...
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Beyond the Highlight Reel: Testimony vs. Storytelling | Ep #503
Even If Podcast with Adrian Ward Jr.
In this powerful and deeply authentic episode, the hosts dive into the dangers of glorifying "pre-salvation highlight reels" and the temptation within Christian circles—especially in Black communities—to maintain cultural relevance at the expense of authentic faith. With raw storytelling and heartfelt conviction, they share how true transformation in Christ isn't about comparing past sins, but rather about ongoing sanctification and sincere relationship with God. One host recounts his personal encounter with God after infidelity, offering a vulnerable and moving testimony of redemption,...
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Obedience in Confusion: Striking the Ground in Faith | EP #502
Even If Podcast with Adrian Ward Jr.
In this deeply transparent and inspiring episode of Even A Podcast, your hosts explore the raw realities of obedience in confusion. Through honest conversations about doubt, financial hardship, spiritual growth, and obedience in the face of uncertainty, they unpack what it means to strike the ground even when the outcome isn't clear. From personal stories of job loss, struggling seasons, and faith-fueled perseverance, to scriptural reflection on 2 Kings 13:17, this episode reminds listeners that obedience isn't about reward. It's about trust in God's plan. Whether you're facing doubt or...
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When God Orders Your Steps: Lessons from Life and Scripture | EP #501
Even If Podcast with Adrian Ward Jr.
Welcome to Season 5 of The Even If Podcast! In this heartfelt opener, Adrian and Luke reflect on their journeys of faith, obedience, and spiritual growth while navigating life’s twists and turns. They share personal stories about transitions, trusting God’s plan, and letting Him order their steps even when it does not make sense at the moment. Through deep discussions on biblical figures like Moses and Samuel, the hosts explore themes of resilience, humility, and learning to hear God’s voice for yourself. With transparency about their struggles and victories, Adrian and Luke challenge...
info_outlineIn this eye-opening episode, Adrian and Luke tackle the self-help culture and how it has infiltrated the church and modern Christian thinking. They break down the dangers of focusing on "being your best self" instead of seeking God first. Many Christians unknowingly place their faith in self-improvement strategies, motivational speakers, and worldly success rather than relying on the source of all strength—God. Using Psalm 121, they emphasize that true help, protection, and guidance come from God alone, not from self-help gurus, social media influencers, or even well-meaning pastors. If you’ve ever felt caught up in the comparison game or frustrated with your spiritual growth, this episode is a must-listen to help you shift your focus back to God’s purpose for your life.
Key Episode Takeaways
Self-help culture has crept into the church – The focus on being "your best self" can often replace reliance on God.
Stop looking to the world for answers – True help comes from God, not from podcasts, influencers, or motivational speakers.
Comparison is a trap – Your walk with God is unique; stop measuring your progress against others.
Faith isn’t about looking good to others – A strong spiritual life isn’t about public perception but personal devotion.
God is your source, not your effort – Blessings come from God's will, not just from hard work and positive thinking.
Scripture Reference:
Psalm 121 – "Where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord." Matthew 7:24-27 – The difference between building on sand vs. building on rock. Discussions on the impact of self-help ideologies in modern Christianity Encouragement to build a personal relationship with God rather than relying on external influences
Call to Action Who or what are you looking to for guidance? Take a moment to evaluate your sources and realign your focus on God. He alone is your help and provider. Let’s talk—share your thoughts on social media or in the YouTube comments!