#10: Dia de los Muertos: Remembrances
Pets Teach Love with Dr. Whitney Keller
Release Date: 10/29/2024
Pets Teach Love with Dr. Whitney Keller
Are you unknowingly letting others control you? As a (recovering) control freak, this episode hits close to home for me. Regarding what you can and cannot control, today I’m diving into why you might be giving away power over what you actually can control to others. If you’ve ever found yourself frustrated by other people’s opinions, actions, or words, this episode is for you. You know you can’t control others. No matter how carefully you choose our words or how much effort you put into making someone happy, their reactions are out of your hands. But what about the reverse?...
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Labels shape our world—but are they helping or holding you back? In this episode, I’m going on a little thought experiment—one that might just change how you see yourself and the world around you. Who doesn’t love a good label? They help you sort things out, make decisions faster, and help you feel like you understand the world (at least a little bit). But what happens when you apply too many labels to people, pets, and even yourself? Think about it: clouds and medications are both labeled, but in completely different ways. Clouds are described loosely—big, fluffy,...
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Messy moments at the vet aren't just normal—they can actually be useful! In this episode, I’m diving into something that happens in vet clinics every single day—but somehow still makes people cringe with embarrassment: when pets pee or poop in the exam room. If you’ve ever apologized profusely while scrambling to clean up after your pet, this episode is for you! First things first—your pet is not the only one doing this. Far from it. Vet clinics are literally designed to handle these messes, and guess what? Sometimes, that poop your dog or cat just dropped in the middle of...
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Nail trims are more than just a chore—they’re an emotional rollercoaster. Let’s talk about how to make them easier! Let’s talk about something that sparks a lot of overwhelm—your pet’s long nails. If you’ve ever walked into the vet clinic (or waited while a vet came to your house), bracing yourself for judgment because your pet’s nails are “too long,” take a deep breath. I promise, we are not judging you. In this episode, we’re diving deep into the surprisingly emotional world of nail trims. Because let’s be real—this isn’t just about trimming nails. It’s...
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Loving your pet doesn’t mean knowing everything. Another apology I hear way too often? Apologizing for not knowing something! You bring your pet in, get unexpected news, and suddenly you’re drowning in guilt, thinking, “I should’ve known.” But here’s the thing: You were never supposed to know everything. Even veterinarians don’t have all the answers all the time! In this episode, we’re diving into the emotional weight of not knowing and why it’s time to let go of the guilt. We’ll talk about how knowledge doesn’t guarantee control, how we can shift from...
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Your pet chose you, not your bank account. This episode is about another apology veterinarians get way too often—people apologizing for having a budget when it comes to their pet’s care. And I get it—money is emotional. We’ve been conditioned to believe that if we just had enough money, we could control outcomes, guarantee our pet’s health, or somehow prove that we’re “good enough”. But here’s the truth: your worth isn’t tied to your bank account, and neither is your pet’s love for you. As a veterinarian, I actually want to know when you have a budget—not to...
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Your vet wants you to ask questions! This week, we’re addressing something I see all the time in the clinic—people apologizing for asking questions about their pets. Maybe you’ve said, "Sorry, I have another question," or felt embarrassed for not understanding medical jargon. But here’s the truth: You should be asking questions! And not just for your own peace of mind, but because it directly impacts your pet’s health and well-being. As a veterinarian, my job isn’t just about diagnosing and treating—it’s also about making sure you feel informed and confident about caring...
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Have you ever apologized to your vet for something totally unnecessary? Hey there, pet lovers! It’s time for a heart-to-heart about something I see all the time in the vet clinic - apologizing for things that don’t need an apology. Seriously, I can’t tell you how often people come in, shoulders hunched, with a guilty look, and the first thing they say is, “I’m so sorry about…”—you name it. Whether it’s not giving their dog a bath before the appointment, missing a dose of medication, or feeling like they’re not doing “enough,” I hear it all. And let me tell...
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Pet Relationship Mini-Series: 5 of 5 From puppy accidents to senior pet care, our pets give us endless opportunities to practice patience, love, and self-forgiveness! You know that moment when your pet does something completely ridiculous—maybe they knock over a full glass of water, chew up your favorite socks, or wake you up at 3 AM just because they felt like it—and yet, you still love them unconditionally? That’s the magic of our bond with pets. We forgive them effortlessly. We never question their worth. But when it comes to ourselves? That’s a whole different story. In this...
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Pet Relationship Mini-Series: 4 of 5 From anxious pacing to confident strides—discover how training and communication can transform your pet’s mental state! Welcome! This is the fourth episode in our five-part miniseries on relationships with our pets, and we’re diving deep into how you can actively support your pet’s mental resilience. You love your pet like family, but they experience the world very differently than you do. Over the past few decades, their environments have changed drastically—dogs who once roamed and dug are now expected to lounge calmly indoors, and cats...
info_outlinePets that you love are never truly “lost” when their memories are treasured.
Hey friend, I sure hope it’s getting cooler where you live! But the one place it should never feel cold is in your heart- even after the death of a pet. Even when the grief feels overwhelming, the bond that you shared can continue to support you.
Trust me, I’ve been there with my rabbit Pongo. But I don’t believe we ever truly lose these special pet companions. The love and lessons they taught us stick around forever. This episode is all about flipping the script from worry or guilt to remembrance and celebration.
We’ll also dive into some creative and personal ways to honor your pet’s memory. They each bring something unique and special to your journey. So, grab a tissue if you need it, and honor the pets who helped shape the person you are today.
Episode Highlights:
- 1:54 Time is necessary
- 2:24 Removing the word “loss”
- 3:27 Different pet, different bond
- 4:48 Pet Memorials
- 6:30 The “Love Fern Lie”
Listen today to keep your pet’s memories and love alive- today and always.
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Music Credit: “Creative Process”, “Enjoy The Ride”, Artist: juqboxmusic, Source: Free Music Archive, License: CC BY-NC